How to be emotionally connected?

I'm having a bit of a problem with how emotionally detached I am. Especially being in a relationship with a Scorpio who is the opposit of just that.

Does anyone else have this problem in relationships or know how to work around it? It's like I'll try to open up but I don't know how in the way other signs do. Most the time I think I am open and I get the raft of ppl telling me I'm being "aloof".

Any aquas out there with the same problem in relationships? Did it fail for you or did u make it work?

Or anyone whose been with aquas and that was ur problem with them?

sometimes i feel disconnected in relationships and it makes me feel a bit empty and alone.....i tend to date alot of water signs for some reason so i guess it brings it out in me

Yea I find it more a problem with water signs that earth. Air signs it never works because they seem just like me. I dont ever feel alone I just feel not connected with anyone but myself.

That's a good idea.. Recently I opened up to my scorp about a part in my past and although I didn't feel to comfortable doing it at the time I feel a little more connected to him than before. That's why I don't know if I'm detached because I don't want to open up or just because I see things differently than ppl who show emotion. It's not really a trust thing for me either so I know it's not that.

But your right sometimes emotion of others makes me un easy so I stepp back till I've gathered what going on and how I should react back to them. Even my mom whose a libra shows more emotion than me and even hers makes me step back.

But good advice on opening up. I could try that as well.

oh yeah i find it very lonely at times. its not that im emotionally detached naturally..i realized i do it on purpose. im not sure if i can handle the other side of the spectrum. how would others react to the things i say due to my vulnerability. how easy would it be for ANYONE just use what i feel against me. EASY. because of those initial questions..i guess since i was in elementary school...it just became a habit. just not to ALLOW EMOTIONS get the best of me. When it came to dating a scorpio, pisces, cancer, etc...i found myself being viewed as someone who was too blunt or too cold. Not that i don't feel or anything, its i feel that emotions don't solve anything. but seeing things as they are not how we FEEL they are is imporntant. but iwth the water signs i dated...emotions first...then mind. now that is hard to deal with.

but one thing for sure from dating them...i was more sweet and more caring and more emotionally giving. lots of love. whereas air signs...like im dating a gemini..sometimes we just seem like friends. passionless and not very romantic. being with any sign i guess has its ups and downs.

Yea I'm the same way with air signs.. More of a friendship. But with water signs I have gotten the your too cold attitude. But that's because I figure out what to do with the situation and than Im done. I don't dramatize it out infront of everyone. I would say ice always been like that too.

It's hard tho.. It's hard to just be open because being vulnerable is not something I like. I'm mean who does? But some ppl seem more at ease with it once they trust. Does that mean they have more confidence?

Omg I have the same problem. I have THE ULTIMATE FEAR OF COMMITMENT. I really need help. I enjoy the chase but when things get too serious I tend to flee. FOREVER ALONE 😢

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Hi,

For some strange reason I attract many Aqua guys. I'm a Taurus with moon in Pisces which means that I cannot live and /or experience world without emotions, affections, and sensuality.

Do you feel emotions and you are just afraid to show them or you are totally detached from yourself?

I'm the same way with air signs.. More of a friendship. But with water signs I have gotten the your too cold attitude.

I have Moon in Pisces, so I'm partially water sign. I do not date Aquas because I have more friendship connection with them. I usually do not feel any chemistry with Aquas. I do feel mental connection with them because they usually have great, fascinating mind. But chemistry is sparked by mental, emotional, and physical connection.

I have many friends and a romantic relationship is more than just friendship.

Air signs can easily change Pisces or Taurus in a walking coldness. For example I'm very affectionate but when someone hurts my feelings I tend to withdraw and get upset. I have known one Aqua for two years now. When I get upset I do not talk to him for 3 or 4 weeks at times. We are just friends but he is trying to date me. I feel that he's not considerate enough.

Posted by slonce5
Hi,

For some strange reason I attract many Aqua guys. I'm a Taurus with moon in Pisces which means that I cannot live and /or experience world without emotions, affections, and sensuality.

Do you feel emotions and you are just afraid to show them or you are totally detached from yourself?

I feel emotions but it's not that I don't want to show them it's just I get clueless on how to do so. In my chart I have 6 planets in capicorn. I feel that doesn't help my problem much either lol. Earth and air signs to me always seem to be less emotional than fire and water. Atleast just from the people i've met in my life. So when I try to be emotional my head becomes empty.. maybe it's just not a part of who I am. It's hard to be with a scorpio who is VERY emotional. He tells me though that he loves the way I am so maybe he's okay with how un emotional I can get.

Posted by kukupuffs093
Omg I have the same problem. I have THE ULTIMATE FEAR OF COMMITMENT. I really need help. I enjoy the chase but when things get too serious I tend to flee. FOREVER ALONE 😢

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Hopefully im not alone forever lol Im with a scorpio he just makes me very aware that I am not as emotional as he is. It sucks.

hey guys

im pretty much the same way

super duper detached and for the last couple months a recluse...

been dating this girl for 6 months now...a capricorn...she's kinda aloof as well but way too sensitive

its like a viscous cycle..i know i'm suppose to find love in every moment but instead i just see her faults...and its like this snowball effect of distaste...am i just mean?

am i valuing myself too high?

there's just so much cultural...language...spiritual difference

will love overcome all superficiality?

i just need my space....my counterparts just don't seem to understand...even if its as simple as watching a movie...alone is sometimes more satisfying....i just need my consciousness to flow freely without any static interference...

maybe my emotive receptors are just charged?

who knows.

just nice to vent sometimes

peace yall

Interesting thread . 7 years ago