I want that man!

So I met Mr aqua a year ago, we had a couple of dates last year and have stayed in touch via mail text calls ect, its all real silly banter stuff where he is usually pulling my pig tails trying to out wit me lol, a few times we have planned to drive over to each others but we just dont get around to it but its never been an issue either, during the last year we have joked around teasing each other that the other is inlove with each other and joke with each other "you know Im the one 😉" youre in love with me ect ect. Im quite aloof and more playful than emtional, he is probably more so aloof than myself, Im not that bothered though, it amuses me, looking back through our mails ect we dont go more than a week without contacting each other, I usually make him laugh with something goofy and he will randomly say something like "you know I really do actually think we would make the perfect couple" he has said this a few times now, he also jokes around and says im going to be his wife lol, he has said this a few times.. is this just the Aqua man charm??.. so anyways last weekend i said omg youre so boring, youve got to start living Im coming over to drag you into life again you know im fearless! and staying at yours(he lives out in the sticks) he was happy about it and obliged. We chatted and goofed around untill early hours of the morning, we talk VERY open about EVERYTHING, no fear there! We hung out like weve known each other forever, sat playing with each others hands, skin, lounged on each other, he was full of compliments, we both were actually, then we are under the stars just chatting rubbish, he`s got the wine in, candles on, he also shows me a softer and more vunerable side about himself which is CUTE! he has a big heart and Im like AWWWE GET YOU! I split my trousers climbing over his sofa and he offered to take them to his mums for her to sow up lol, bless him 😉.. so then we are having a steamy snog, mid snog again, he is like UHHH, MMMM! Im going to marry you... (SCREEEEACH!) Im like SHUT UP! HAHA! You must be drunk, oh come on bet you say that to everyone! so he replies no i dont why would I do that?! anyway I always talk the truth when I am, look at how we get on, we get on really really well, (which we do) he then talks of us going away somewhere for the weekend sometime.

I want to spend some more time with him but dont want to appear pushy..

..is he just chatting rubbish? giving it the charm?.. where do I go from here, do I wait and just carry on with my own thing as I do? or do I instigate it? THANKS IN ADVANCE, ps im gemini aqua moon, so pretty simuliar.

.. NOT THAT I would marry the goof untill im 70 anyways, Im not that dumb, but I do think we get on really well, i want to see if we can get something going.

your title reminds me of this:

Hahaha!!.. lmao That song actually rang through my head, I was grinning to myself when I wrote the title.. Spot on 😉

Posted by DG
I would just wait till he invites you....keep things the way they are for now.

You both really connected this time around, so that should resinate with him.

Good Luck...

Gemini

Scorpio Moon.

🙂

Yeah you are right.. UHHHH! EWWFF!.. lol

ok him and me:

asc: gem asc: leo
sun: aqua sun: gem
moon: aries moon: aqua
venus: aqua venus: gem
mars: aries mars: picies
merc: cap merc: gem

if anyone is any good at it..

Not even if they just want to keep you sweet to get in your pants?.. Ive heard they can be players, although we did the deed last year, we are pretty spot on and aligned with each other in that department, so he says and i concur 😉 he said all these things since, lets see his actions hey.

i dont think hes chatting rubbish at all, i think you should just enjoy it and carry on doing what you're doing 🙂 that's kinda how it started off with me and my Aqua. You said 'we talk VERY open about EVERYTHING, no fear there!' thats a really good sign sounds like he's comfortable being around you

I think there is an element of it maybe flitting through his mind, we joke about it all the time, via messages... he obviously wasnt going to be hiding me away if he was going to take my trousers to his mums, lol right? I wouldnt have offered that! but could be just friendly, both of us are `everybody`s friend` type..

Maybe I should bring out my moon.. my aqua side and get a bit aloof?.. arrgh I dont know!? he seemed to enjoy me taking the lead at the weekend, what did you do at the beginning?

I was just as frustrated as you. I just left it and waited til he contacted me but he taught me to be patient. I think what happens is when they spend their time with someone they really like at the beginning it takes a lot of their energy and they need to step back and do other things to recharge. Just do what you normally do, I instigated once and he just backed off for a bit and it was awkward lol. Aquarius do say what they mean i reckon you should be patient if you really want this man.

LOL IT SHOWS HUH!!?? Funny as ahaha.. Ive got bags more energy than him I think, I did leave him in a messed up hungover state, I dont think he was coping too well lol, if ive been feeling like crap all week then he deffo is, Im going to leave it and see what he does.. oh he also said to me a few months ago: because Im living in mine and my ex`s house, if he sells up you will have to come live with me.. O_o I would not say that unless I really liked someone, I like my space too and i would be scared that i wouldnt get rid of them, 2 days and I want people to go home yeah.. UHH! i want to see action, my fist is is my mouth and im bozz eyed with frustration!! haha.

Lol day 3 and its Ohhhhh so quiet.. I AM NOT BUDGING! or I might look desperado... Arrrrrrrgh! :/

uhhhh! how long does it last?.. if not like foreverrrr lol.

Posted by guccigemini55
Lol day 3 and its Ohhhhh so quiet.. I AM NOT BUDGING! or I might look desperado... Arrrrrrrgh! :/

uhhhh! how long does it last?.. if not like foreverrrr lol.

oh so peaceful untiiillll.... you fall in love, the sky above is caving in
Cross your heart and hope to die.

HAHA! .... uhh! blows cheeks out and pouts patiently..... GIVE ME HIM!!! lol lol

.. Im like kinda cool around him tho yeah 😉

lol

ohhhh man! i budged, uuuuhhhh kick me! O_o .. just sent a text saying "oh ma gah! i think I killed you! :O (LOL he was in a state when I left, thanks to me)... followed by random goofy butters to make him think WTF— went something like: theres a rat in ma kitchen what ama gonna do, theres a rat in ma kitchen.. With me laughing on the end (take the bait Aqua, purrrrlease take the bait!) lols

OKAY IT WAS JUST A SONG THAT CAME INTO MY HEAD and it made me laugh!!! I KNOW!!!!... pouts mouf and frowns.

Oh stop it! dont ask me 😄.. THE SHAME OF IT! .. NOOOOO! :O ... He will, eventually....... maybe :/ lol

Hmmmn Im gonna work on it.

Lol i did that before, i said i cant be bothered to see you i think theres something wrong with you 😄.. he then messaged me pulling my pigtails again after a week or so, uhh he is such a goof! why do they actually do this?... after we had a couple of dates last year i moved on, we kept in touch via fb but i moved on, im not usually one for chasing, he is aloof with his phone with everyone but he randomly called me and asked if there had been anyone else yet and i told him yes, i asked the same and he said no then went quiet and i said well i didnt think you liked me much and he said yes i do, i really fancy you, we would make a great couple (or something like that?) (lol @ fancy, stupid birk) so i said AWWWW omg have you been standing back and observing me? and he said yes, but this week its like its replaying again.. anyway ive left a message saying right you goof, im over for the weekend unless you tell me other wise and i dont mind either, he..

Lol he`s getting on my nerves now!! I am really attracted to him, but i could actually be just friends too, we click, he knows it, i know it.

SOOOOOOOO.. I still want that man... peeeesh!.. Got him yet?

NOPE! o_O

Maybe it was all charm and chat and romanticised in my head.. right Im on radio silence in every way possible, lets try that!
now I am confused when I thought I was getting him and had him all worked out.

Aquas are fustrating as hell!!!!!

🙂

Uhh give me strength!!! lol am I going to be able to have enough patience?.. This ignoring malarky is NOT up my street O_o He has no reason to ignore me, I am no different from how I have been all along, It makes you think that they dont like you too much, but thats what i thought last time and was wrong, He did send the one and only text yesterday to say he was away for the weekend until monday after I sent a text to say if he wasnt doing anything I would stop by from travelling back from friends over the weekend THE ONE TEXT over two weeks lol.. The thing is as much as Im attracted to him, I am quite happy either way and could just be his friend too, I can be friends with ex`s and old dates (my aqua moon!)

Do you think there is any truth in "they act opposite to how they really feel"..?? why would he do that? I doubt he is THAT strung up on me yet (lol @ yet! dreeeeam!)...also his longest relationship was only 3yrs, Apart from me he hasnt remained friends with anyone else but me and I think he kinda thinks thats kinda different that I can do that and be cool with it, Hell I have their girlfriends sometimes confide in me, I am so easy going, I like my freedom too.. so far we are playful, not deep, If I have been away with my friends to a big event he always asks me if I met/slept with anyone, Im like NOOOO, im out with my people, im not like that.... hmmmmmn whats with this aqua, im addicted to human puzzles and cant stand it! I just want to get to know him better (then get him addicted to me.. then fall in love.. be completely devoted to me.. really mean that he wants to marry me.. have a completely fun live together forever and always... do his thing, me do my thing.... AMEN!!! haha the secret Bridget Jones version)

I think somewhat they act opposite than they feel. But I think thats only in the "crush" stages. But, my aqua bf has always been different than the other aquas I know (cap venous).

Your guy reminds me of a really good aqua friend of mine. He likes to flirt. Will send me a text out of the blue wanting to know if I got laid the previous weekend. I tell him nonya and asks about him. He always says no (yeah, right!), but thats about it. This guy says he doesn't want to settle down - never will. He likes the game. Self admitted. The more a girl ignores him or turns him down, the more he likes it.

What other placements does this guy have?

Posted by guccigemini55
ok him and me:

asc: gem asc: leo
sun: aqua sun: gem
moon: aries moon: aqua
venus: aqua venus: gem
mars: aries mars: picies
merc: cap merc: gem

if anyone is any good at it..

hmmm he's got an aries moon/aries mars and venus aqua.

I've always liked this site, the astrologer has some pretty good research:
http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-aquarius.shtml<BR> MOON or VENUS in AQUARIUS
The type of woman who attracts you is intelligent, independent, free-spirited, and a good conversationalist. Should she keep you guessing, or be a bit off-beat or unconventional, she'll fascinate you - but if she's too emotional, you'll pass.

Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).

When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to "free spirits", "space cadets", or even somewhat "strange" women.

Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows. (continued)
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MOON or VENUS in ARIES
The type of woman who attracts you demonstrates a sense of independence and is bold, adventurous, or spontaneous. Think "Xena, Warrior Princess".

You'll respect the freedom of a woman like this; and might even encourage her to be more independent than she really wants to be. You admire strength and courage.

The "fiery" type can arouse you. "Competitive" women interest you.

Strong, competitive, or athletic women may appeal to you; and some form of "competition" such as games or sports might be a turn-on for you. You want to win, but you can respect a woman who gives you a good match.

You may have a particular attraction to "women in uniform". Of all the Moon and Venus Signs, you are the most likely to date a policewoman, military type, or security guard. (continued)

??2000 by Michael Star

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your guy is going to start off with his venus in aquarius. Soooo......

hmmmm, your aqua moon to his aqua venus meshes nice BUT....the distance, geezz!! you guys need to 'stick" somehow, sometime.

how will you two settle down someday? 😛

ok Im not sure which one is right this is off this website..

http://www.psychicscience.org/astrochart.aspx<BR>
sun Aqua
merc Aqua
Venus Cap
moon Leo
Mars Sag
Jup Sag
nep sag

SOOOO.. Im not sure which one? Sag is scarey for me O_O

Now what you described in the woman part, that does describe me apart from the woman in uniform bit.. hmmmn tho if he asked all cute I may raise a brow with a smirk and throw that one in on a rainy day 😉 lol

I can settle lol, tried it before im ok as long as my partner is not controlling and trusts me without being posessive, I am a trust worthy Gem too! very loyal and kind hearted with so much love for people, not mushy but imaginative in the ways I love, but fiesty only when pushed.

Yes we compete with banter all the time, we are usually pretty even, ive outwitted him a few times he really laughs and i know he likes it, he will just call me name which shows he has lost lol although I did flunk on a response for the first time the other week but laughed my head off that i dissapointed him 🙂 because I knew it! he is always trying to get me to bite but i always know what he is doing and either give as good back or do the opposite.

When he asks if i got laid it is every time he knows ive been out, he is nosey.. I told him the first time he asked because i had started seeing someone for a short while, im honest im not going lie so im sure he knows i would tell him if i had.

Im not sure but I guess he has been watching my character but he picked out a couple of things, he said that he could see i was intelligent and also said at least you can stick up for yourself if needs be, he laughed at something i told him, he also said i was fun and well yeah eh hemm.. BUT THIS IS ALL WORDS FOR NOW!

There was a moment where I thought omg awwwe you are just too cute, it was when we were lounging on each other chatting he was talking about his love for his mum, it was really from the heart, we were just flowing! i had my hand on his (core! big! strong! haha) chest and i said something like "awwe thats because you have such a big heart, look how loving you are" and kinda stroked his chest and trailed my finger without even thinking, he looked me in the eyes for me to repeat it like he was surprised someone said this to him, he liked it then opened up about other stuff that he said he had never told anyone before thats how we were all night, completely tactile with every expression and just chatting each others heads o

.. Im not even that tactile myself usually, i was described as aloof vague and unemotional by the last guy i dated, but with aqua we have a comfort, he said this himself, he was like " i mean look at us, look how well we get on"...

Now.. The silent treatment lol O_O .. i text him that i was ignoring him ignoring me and thought it was funny because he is acting like a lil weirdo lol, Im not going to play the game and get all insecure about it, i told him dont worry just because you got all mmmmm oooo and told me you want to marry me mid snog, i forgive you 😉 lol, so ive been winding him up ignoring me, not getting upset, he knows im busy with stuff and getting on with my social scene and am sure he will sense in my texts im in good spirit and not sat at home having a lil weep 🙂 .. going on radio silence for the next week, see what happens.

But ladies, this is also my perception of it, Im obviously a bit google eyed right about now

there was nothing wrong with the other chart 😕
It is just that, from many sources Aqua venus doesn't settle down at a young age
but will want "fun" and just enjoy life. Remember that "time" is important.
time is irrelevant. And plus, you have aqua moon right? You may just want to enjoy
life too. You're a beautiful woman, with a good brain in your head, clever, fast,
ect, you can have anyone you want. Just relax and don't force love. it isn't a race.
And yes, words mean nothing. Not in love. Love is action oriented. Prove your love, show it,
not just say it. Words are completely empty.
A man can say, "I want to build that house."
Will he do it? Or just shrug and wish he could build that house.
Maybe he did want to build that house someday but interestingly enough,
he built a boat, or a plane. The guy did not do what he was supposed to do, cause what he said
was completely different. This is Saturn, this is Uranus = unexpected. It's not that he doesn't mean
it, it just fits him better to build a plane or a boat and he is infinitely happier with it.
Does he realize that that was his plan all along? Who knows? Not even he knew.
You are an aquarius moon - i bet it is confusing as hell. It's like people want to understand but
there's nothing to understand. You just expect the unexpected with this energy, but you kind of get it cause you have it.
And even then you don't really get it. And that's okay. 🙂

if he has venus cap/moon leo, he knows what he wants anyway.

The two of you seem like good friends nothing serious.

Thats right, it is only good friends, I just like him we have good chemistry, Im thinking come on if you are thinking all of what you are saying then make a move! 🙂.. oh I dont think he is loving me, I think maybe it has passed his thoughts yeah i could be with someone like you, because we fit, thats it and only it.

I think the second chart may be the right one, oooooo :/ Im not saying all but the sag men Ive known before are either cheaters or psycho obsessive stalkers, actually both were, umm all were theres a whole lot of sag in the last chart, although NOT showing to be much of a stalker this one is he! 😉

Thanks thats nice what you said lisa 🙂 .. ANY man? Hmmmn would be nice to think so but its not working at the minute!.. I WANT THAT MAN! 😄.. Oh my days I cant stand being ignored or dismissed eurrgh, I dont get that behaviour Im so straight up with where I am at with people rather than ignore someone i will put them out of their misery so they arent in limbo.. SCREECH! STOP RIGHT THERE! I AM SO LYING HERE! WTH!? no tell the truth I put them out of their misery when someone has got over demanding and needy and put me off, Im guessing that when they`ve reached that point then they are starting to feel insecure and feeling that whole limbo thing so its better to be straight so they can sort it out and move on (this is only a recent new and improved behaviour though) you have to be real with them otherwise its unfair. OK if im real about it, i know I do the disappearing thing to, to people that matter to me and Im not meaning harm Im just doing my thing and i will get around to answering them eventually or if its that important they will be persistent with me until they get an answer (usually they want to scream my face off by the time i get round to them 🙂 ) and yes Im like whats the big deal, time is nothing! I spoke with you a few months ago! Im loving you like we spoke yesterday! tut, tut, hmmmn shameful 😉 Im like that with everyone but my best friend or if there`s a guy I REALLY like, I see I need to work on my pitch...Yep theres nothing to understand. Maybe an aqua thing and it comes across selfish? O_o

"if he has venus cap/moon leo, he knows what he wants anyway."

Ok, What Im thinking now, im thinking if he was that interested he would be pursuing regardless right? I thought like this last time and let it go, went off and dated, he tells me i was wrong and he stays in touch with me the whole year until now, this time i just want to grab him and say come on lets try this!!! next time we talk i am going to say it, if he runs he runs, im saying what i mean, no games, im in or im out, one of us needs to man up and stop just talking about it, do or die 🙂

Lol Im actually bothered about contacting him, Im sooo leaving it otherwise Im going to look needy or like a bunny boiler, he has had chance to contact me, theres NO WAY im going to look like that and embarrase myself, Im bold but not THAT much Ive had one text back on friday just telling me he was away for the weekend and that was that obviously so I didnt waste money going over, it was a nice text with the divvy name he calls me.. nope thats it, if he liked me as much as he acted/said then surely there would have been a bit more effort.. you watch the minute Im quiet he will be back blummin at it, uhh! O_o