impossible aqau male !!

what are the signs of an aqua male wanting to get out of the relationship !!!?!?! does he just directly say it or does he reduce contact slowly and thn finish it offf !!!

Well, with my last relationship my gf really angered me and annoyed me over a couple of incidents and words - her actions had annoyed me - there had been a build up anyway. I told her that I needed a few days to think about things - she accepted that. Then we spoke about things after a day and I told her that it was over. No real drawn out messing around. No games. Just a day to think about things. She wanted us to stay together but the damage was done. We did speak about it for a while; but there was no changing my mind.

I guess the thing is that everybody is different, we all have our ways of ending relationships. It is hard to give an exact answer to your question because there is no 100% right answer for it.

It all depends on the person and the reason for the break up. In a general break up I usually go for the honest, no games, straight forward approach. If I still care about the person, but it isn't meant to be, I will explain my reasons if they ask - and I will be considerate. I also like to break up with people in person, I think it shows more respect than a text or some other cowardly break up move.

If all that fails I have a chainsaw and a freezer with a few empty spaces left.

Ding Dong

Oh drat, gotta stop, it looks like some CSI agents are outside.

Oh, forgot the signs. I like to talk about things if there is a problem. So the main sign is that more couple time will gradually be spent talking about problems than having fun.

Or I might start leaving little surprises about the place, like 'I'm not happy in this relationship' post it notes on the fridge, or bake cakes with 'leave me alone' written in icing, or change the doorbell chime to Chopins Sonata No2 'The funeral march', or spell out 'find someone else to annoy' in beans at breakfast, or any number of other subtle indicators - its the thought that counts.

I wasn't being serious in the last paragraph by the way 🙂

ok so my aqua guy has been acting really really wierd lately cn u please help me figure out this situation , wht does he want does he want me or does he only want FWB relationship with me. guess this guy is a commitment phobe and its like this new phobia tht they have developed among the whole aquarian community lol!nyways so last nite i spoke to my aqua man and he said he likes me and tht i m in his heart and blah blah blah and tht evn if i got married to someone else i can still have the master key to his heart and blah blah!!so i asked him if u like me sooo much thn y dont u be the 1,so he said u never know!?"confused"
so i tld hm tht if i got married to someone else,u ll be a history to me and i wouldnt even contact you cuz i dont have the heart to betray someone who has trusted me for life (i belong to indian community and marrige is big thing for us especially women , once a woman is divorced,its difficult to get married agn but its nt the same for men, i know pretty sucky bt cant help it nyways so yeah he said dont worry if u get married i will never ever bother u cuz i understand the consequences but if u ever wish to come back u r wolcome to do so anytime.. so i asked " would u cheat on ur wife" so he said i duno,i may for u!!
so all in all its soo wierd , if he likes me sooo much y is he saying all this!?!!? also i wanted to know tht are aquarian men really really perverse whn they r in love with a woman or its just sex that they want!?
m kinda confused!?!? he calls me like after every 2-3 days or so cuz its long distance relationship and goes absolutely crazy texting me if i dont reply to his texts or answer his calls...but whn he dissappears he is sooo cold!?!y?!whn i call him he wouldnt answer and would just ignore!initially we used to text eachother every day ,now it has reduced,y!?!?
can someone please help me read this situation?altho m a cappy moon and have a reputation of being emotionless(whch is not true cuz we have deep feelings but we just dont know how to express it) so yeah altho im capricorn moon and aries sun , i just cut his call last nite and strted weeping (not soo much) but i did cuz of the confusion (i mean i felt tht initially this guy tells me tht he wants to marry and babies and now this crap)..i din wana do it while i was toking to him cuz i know i wuld scare him off with all tht crying drama! i can obviously detach myself frm him in almost 2 days but i just need to know wht this guy wants

we ve known each other since almst 3.5 yrs and whn we intially met , we dated for a month and thn broke up ... he went somewhr out to work and thn after our break up , like after 6-7 months he randomly texts and stuff !! i was really pissed with him thn and never wanted to speak to him so i ignored him for literlly 1.5+ yrs and he still kept cming back and thn i just told him a yes and we strted our namelyss relationship !! he would tell me he loves me wantd to marry me and blah blah blah !!! so i would feel a lil uncomfy and tell him lets move with the flow and i never loved him so would never dare to say "love you" cuz i found it soooooooo wierd!! he told me tht whneve tht i went to him country for hilidays, he would meet me and show me arnd like his skool whr he studied and college and everything but whn i actually went thr , he dissppeared... he only spoke on the fone and juss ignored me as i was no1 special !!
he dusnt tok abt kids nw and whn i tok abt kids ,just randomly to test him , he ignores the topic.. whnever he calls me , all he desires for is fone sex and its like we subconciously have it and trust me tht bit is fun .. so nyways wht does this guy want ..will he ever deeply fall in love with me or shld i just cut ties —

His words and actions are very clear. He's not that into you anymore. Get in touch with your Aries side and talk to him directly about these things. Strangers can't give you a better idea of what is going on than he can. Don't waste more time or energy on him until you get the courage to confront him with your feelings. Only then will you know what to do.

well i dont want to confront him cuz i know he ll lie and make stories and blah so i just txted him saying tht lets just end it !! he hasnt replied to it as yet but m sure he ll return cuz he knows i have a lot of options available and he has a fear of loosing me (in the past he did )and he also knows tht im not the one who cries and yes hes also aware tht i am one person who can easily escape his spell unlike other women whu would just cry forever aft a break up!! well yeah my intuition does tell me tht hes not in love with me as such !!! and being an aries i can get bored easily too and hes been doin this dissppearing thing which is driving me nuts so aint taking tht crap long !!! guess its not just meant to be anytime soon bt cant wait ny longer!!! cnt screw arnd with my head for long !!!