Married

would you beautiful Aquas be prepared to have a relationship with a guy who is "officially" married? specially when you really like the guy, been with him very closely (non physical) for 6 months and you are aware that his marriage is a sham and he is as good as seperated? The girl is single and around 35 years old...

if the marriage is a sham, then get out of it...don't involve another woman into the relationship. from what i read, aquas are loyal and don't stray...i wouldn't expect that an aquagirl would drop everything for you and be with you while you decide if/when you will get a divorce...

geez..ok, we have done lot of things together and still do, she is an office colleague....with regards to the seperation the "wife" is not staying in the same country any more and the paper work is on going...it is not that the Aqua girl has been dragged into the relationship..it was she who approached and smooched and took charge...but then backed off.

never get laid where you get paid

understand what both of you guys are saying...but it's Germany...where more than half of the relationships start in the work place...5 of my colleagues are having relationships within the office, two colleagues are pregnant :-) and above all the management is quite cool about it, as it is very common here in Germany for affairs or relationships to happen in office..

OH YEAH!

I agree with primegen and james on this one ... dating on the job is a HUGE N.O.!

When I was younger, a guy that I worked with wanted to date me -- he felt that sense we worked in two different departments it wouldn't be against the company's rules. Well, I was scared but continued to be friends with this guy -- without dating him. In conclusion, when our friendship soured it was very emotionally draining.

Now, if we had actually started dating!!!!! OMG, I would've been a wreck only because I don't take kindly to friends becoming back-stabbers.

My situation isn't similar to yours but it stopped e cold from ever ever ever ever ever thinking about starting a non-platonic relationship on the job.

Nope, absoluately out of the question! Relationships with people are already a risk, to add "more fuel to an already blazing fire"

(relationships being the fire; more complications being the fuel)

Can lead to a really bad burn ... if you catch my drift 😉

Yeah sounds reckless and silly. The aqua girl sounds like she's maybe copped onto this way of thinking too.

What about strictly shagging in the workplace 🙂 hee hee

Really GL? Not even getting drunk at a work Christmas party & shagging them?

Heh ehhehhheh - Provided you don't fall in love its all good 🙂 Did that for 7 months - was allot of fun 🙂 We still work together too Good friends still so hey.

of course there are some who say I do my best work in this pub. so perhaps I go aginst my best judgment. because I have shaged a few from here. Oh well I am not easy but I can be made.

thats a good lad!!

whats wrong in dating a guy who works in ur office?? i think itz better that way coz hes alwayz around 😛.....i wouldnt mind dating my colleague in future if hes a good person....

ya i agree though that u gotta be careful but it happenz and i have seen quite alot of work relationshipz work 🙂

i found these interesting dating statistics....

Where is the best place to meet new people ?

1.) Bar 18%
2.) Club 11%
3.) Beach 4%
4.) Church 2%
5.) Social club 4%
6.) Mall 4%
7.) Internet 18%
8.) Work 22%
9.) Sport 7%
10.) Other 9%

WORK = 22% ....

If you work in a whore house I guess it would be O.K. but an office I don't think so. never ever get laid where you get paid more trouble than its worth.