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I have never done this details charts and decided to do one (without time of birth) and this is what came of mine. I also did the Aqua guy that I'm very much attracted to. Can someone help me with what it means? *puppy eyes look* - Really deep down I hope he's the man of my dreams and meant to be lol..

My Chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Scorpio 25.04
Moon Leo 11.12
Mercury Scorpio 12.04
Venus Capricorn 11.59
Mars Virgo 15.30
Jupiter Libra 28.05
Saturn Libra 17.48
Uranus Sagittarius 0.04
Neptune Sagittarius 23.31
Pluto Libra 25.29
Lilith Sagittarius 5.58
Asc node Cancer 24.13

My Aqua Man
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aquarius 7.47
Moon Gemini 8.21
Mercury Aquarius 26.06
Venus Pisces 15.35
Mars Sagittarius 13.16
Jupiter Aries 22.56
Saturn Sagittarius 28.29
Uranus Sagittarius 29.12
Neptune Capricorn 8.48
Pluto Scorpio 12.30
Lilith Leo 18.05
Asc node Pisces 24.12


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Posted by lildol
I'm not very well versed, but at first glance it appears to me that you will feel that you are not receiving the attention you desire. He will come off as lacking emotional depth (albeit that won't be the reality), in the end you need reassurances that he won't naturally give you. You will also argue a lot about petty stuff.



Ahhhh not what I wanted to hear I guess.. 😢

why meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee lol
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Hmmmmm, Scorpios usually know instantly the "jolt" of their Love one. I was reading Julia Roberts biography on her husband Danny Molder(Aquarius man), and her venus is in Virgo. She said she felt something so strong, so powerful, that she just cannot stop herself.



Yeah there are Scorpio/Aqua celebs who are married and happy (obv not Demi and Ashton)lol

That's the thing.. This Aqua man really stands out in my life.. I feel so drawn towards him when he contacts me or when I see him. I mean the charts above i don't really understand it but hope someone would help me understand it in depth more..
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You do know there are sites that you can use to measure the compatability of two people's birth charts but I would be weary only because ya'lls signs are typically considered not to be comparable the software might be biased toward a decision..... Basically it is all based off of how many degrees your planets are from his...
Conjunctions: meaning within 10 degrees or less is very very good
Trines: are pretty decent to
Squares: are bad

There are even more than this Im kinda tired tonight if Im motivated I'll give this another look tommorrow
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You do know there are sites that you can use to measure the compatability of two people's birth charts but I would be weary only because ya'lls signs are typically considered not to be comparable the software might be biased toward a decision..... Basically it is all based off of how many degrees your planets are from his...
Conjunctions: meaning within 10 degrees or less is very very good
Trines: are pretty decent to
Squares: are bad

There are even more than this Im kinda tired tonight if Im motivated I'll give this another look tommorrow



Thank you.. I really have no clue about the degree stuff. Just the basics but it would be interesting to know..

But I kinda noticed something last night which hurt/upset me. I know Aqua men chat to alot of ppl including girls being friendly and the odd flirting here and there, and im ok with that..but I think hes paying more attention to this one girl in particular and feel he's forgotten me 😢
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I went to that site again and got this.. lol

11/17/1981 Aspect 01/28/1988 Orb/Value
Sun Square Mercury 0.60 -334
Mercury Trine Venus 3.28 78
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 0.26 118
Venus Conjunction Neptune 3.11 84
Venus Sextile Pluto 0.31 60
Mars Opposition Venus 0.02 -106
Mars Square Mars 2.16 -100
Jupiter Trine Mercury 2.01 80
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.24 67
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 1.07 49
Neptune Trine Jupiter 0.36 59
Neptune Conjunction Saturn 4.57 51
Pluto Trine Mercury 0.35 68
Pluto Opposition Jupiter 2.33 -41
714 -581 133

Is that bad— :s
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I went to that site again and got this.. lol

11/17/1981 Aspect 01/28/1988 Orb/Value
Sun Square Mercury 0.60 -334
Mercury Trine Venus 3.28 78
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 0.26 118
Venus Conjunction Neptune 3.11 84
Venus Sextile Pluto 0.31 60
Mars Opposition Venus 0.02 -106
Mars Square Mars 2.16 -100
Jupiter Trine Mercury 2.01 80
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.24 67
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 1.07 49
Neptune Trine Jupiter 0.36 59
Neptune Conjunction Saturn 4.57 51
Pluto Trine Mercury 0.35 68
Pluto Opposition Jupiter 2.33 -41
714 -581 133

Is that bad— :s



Ok I general we could just weigh the negatives to the positives and see which there are more of. You have 10 positive aspects and only 4 negative aspects..... 2 squares and 2 oppositions.....That by itself is a good sign. I think it would be more important to look at the negative aspects then the positive. Im no pro but if your sun is square his mercury then communication could be confusing as in not know what each other means behind what you do. I feel though this is something that can be learned the better you get to know each other. In truth all of the negatives are actually a typical thing you would expect...... These two signs are naturally really attracted to each other just the problem is scorpio communicates with emotional feelings and 'vibes' ...... While Aquarius communicates through the brain/intellect. That is the basic problem you have to overcome because it can bring jealousy and hurt feelings because of silly misunderstandings. Also Pluto opposition Jupiter I would guess means something like ... Jupiter is the planet of philosophies.... So like ya'lls philosophies on life are likely to change over time and it is important not to impose your own beliefs on each other..... But I guess to try to see where the other is coming from. Outside of that the rest looks good and it's not like you all will have bad communication on everything..... Intellectually you both will communicate marvelously 🙂
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Hey I have venus cap like you...but like your aqua I have sun aqua, mercury aqua and lilith leo...

Why do you feel like he's forgotten you? What's going on?



Ahh its a long story but i hope i can break it down well lol.. My Aqua man and I clicked from the beginning. He's at Uni and is concentrating and focusing himself on that. We aren't in a relationship but when we meet its usually being the best friend with the extra perks (if you get what I mean) reasons behind that is because I'm older than him and because of the distance he said it would be best to stay friends. this has been going on for about 2 years now. anyways I've noticed recently on twitter he's been chatting to this particular girl a lot. and on Instagram he's been liking all this girls pictures and she likes most of his. The comments she makes, she makes out that she's close with him and some are the odd flirty and complimenting ones. Personally, I don't mind when hes chatting to other girls because he's friendly in nature and strangely I find him very honest and trustworthy. Its just something that I've realised that he's never liked any of my pictures :S I mean is this Aquas mind games stuff? I don't know.. but this chick I don't like... (this is coming from my scorpion vibe) lol and coz of all this i feel like he's gna drift away.. 😢
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NotYourAverageAquarius, OMG that makes sense.!!

Its like when we are together talking its so fun and stimulating and the conversation flows but when we are at a distance there is no communication. I mean the last time I messaged him was on the 28th Jan (his bday) Its defiantly the communication that's a problem and on my side I do feel and have doubts but they go away anyways. You really have made it easier for me to understand in depth with that so thank you. I just hope it works out this time. I tired of soo many wrongs coming in my life. I wanna marry this guy and have his babies lol.. I dont think he knows how I feel fully i mean obv i havnt told him, but i just feel that if i do..hes gna run away or he wont feel that same 😐
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Hmmmmm, Scorpios usually know instantly the "jolt" of their Love one. I was reading Julia Roberts biography on her husband Danny Molder(Aquarius man), and her venus is in Virgo. She said she felt something so strong, so powerful, that she just cannot stop herself.



Yeah there are Scorpio/Aqua celebs who are married and happy (obv not Demi and Ashton)lol

That's the thing.. This Aqua man really stands out in my life.. I feel so drawn towards him when he contacts me or when I see him. I mean the charts above i don't really understand it but hope someone would help me understand it in depth more..
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Many astrologers have analyzed Demi's and Ashton's charts to death. Ashton's got that 75% air dominant and no air/earth. It's sheer will power for those two to stay together for that long. She's dominant water and dominant fire.

They have also analyzed Julia Roberts and Danny Moder's one to death too. Lol.

They're all wondering WHY would a successful, powerful woman at the top choose a cameraman? Lol! As if they dont understand what love is, and it's all about money and fame.
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lisabethur8,

Thanks for the video link. I'm at work at the moment so cant see it here. when i get home, I'll check it out.

lol oh yeh coz career paths are what brings love together lol.. I dont really understand the % charts etc. Still doing my research. It seems like a lot of info to take in. It just would be interesting to find out more about myself with the charts etc. I feel like I'm finding it hard to find love. 😐
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Not really to be very honest. I just want him to be in my life.. I mean when we met he knows and remembers a lil things about me and to me that's the sweetest thing.. But is that what a guy would do if it's a fwb?? After we have linked and back to our normal routine, we don't have that communication. That's where I feel his aqua side comes out and keeps the distance.




Does he know how you feel? And you're certain he knows how you feel?

Reminds me a lot of a situation I had with an aqua male. I had actually seen him in two lights:
1. Pursuing me to be his gf
2. Pursuing me as a fwb

The two felt very different to me, but I'm glad I got that perspective or I could be confused. 😢

He might think you are ok with it, or he might be ok with it himself and tell himself in his head that you are too.
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I dont think he does now that I think about it. Do Aqua men take hints? lol He has twice already said that we cant be together because of the age thing. I'm normally the one to say that to the younger guys who want to be with me but with My Aqua guy, it just feels different. I'm starting to get tired of going no where with anyone all these yrs and now its with this guy too.. What do you think I should do? Tell him? What if he rejects me tho 😢 The really sad thing is that guys have been pursuing me for FWB and not to be my GF. I'm not the type who sleeps around tho..
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Posted by lisabethur8
** ops i meant he has NO earth:

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Ashton_Kutcher<BR>
but he does have a cancer mars and cancer lilith. Huge indication of their connectivity. Wonder with all this analyzing their charts to death, we're taking some of their emissions? Lol.



I dunno seems like a sly way of only getting 'certified' astrologers to read the chart so they can get money out of you. I'm science minded guy and of course all matter is energy I mean come on Albert Einstein proved this over a century ago E = mc^2 just I don't see how someone looking at a chart which has nothing to do with you directly ..... It is a picture of the planets at the time of your birth that's it. Yes it can describe you as so many on here who believe in astrology feel but does that mean looking at someone else's suddenly effect you?? That just doesn't seem scientific to me. I'll agree that listening to just what anyone says myself included is a blind sided mistake.... But that goes hand in hand with anything you believe in. If your a Christian but don't study the bible for yourself then Christianity will be whatever someone tells you it is. I think we all if we truly feel there is something to astrology should do our own research study it for ourselves to find the answers..... Hopefully we can do this objectively and not subjectively.
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Not really to be very honest. I just want him to be in my life.. I mean when we met he knows and remembers a lil things about me and to me that's the sweetest thing.. But is that what a guy would do if it's a fwb?? After we have linked and back to our normal routine, we don't have that communication. That's where I feel his aqua side comes out and keeps the distance.




Does he know how you feel? And you're certain he knows how you feel?

Reminds me a lot of a situation I had with an aqua male. I had actually seen him in two lights:
1. Pursuing me to be his gf
2. Pursuing me as a fwb

The two felt very different to me, but I'm glad I got that perspective or I could be confused. 😢

He might think you are ok with it, or he might be ok with it himself and tell himself in his head that you are too.



I dont think he does now that I think about it. Do Aqua men take hints? lol He has twice already said that we cant be together because of the age thing. I'm normally the one to say that to the younger guys who want to be with me but with My Aqua guy, it just feels different. I'm starting to get tired of going no where with anyone all these yrs and now its with this guy too.. What do you think I should do? Tell him? What if he rejects me tho 😢 The really sad thing is that guys have been pursuing me for FWB and not to be my GF. I'm not the type who sleeps around tho..
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If hes not looking for anything ya gotta respect that and find someone who gives you what you need

All astrology aside.
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ScorpioFemale79,

I should but I still get drawen back to him. I have been dating and getting to know other guys but it doesnt work. That spark isnt there with these guys. ahhh this stinks!! lol



Same here!!!!



Even if your situation is that its at work, you cant ask him out? make the move?
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That and I need to be sure he cares
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ScorpioFemale79,

I should but I still get drawen back to him. I have been dating and getting to know other guys but it doesnt work. That spark isnt there with these guys. ahhh this stinks!! lol




Wow...its like something i could have written.... i think my situation is vaguely similar to yours, except mine actually knows how i think about him and what i want.

I don't have any helpful advice but just thought that you might like to know that out there in the world someone else is knowing exactly how you feel.

Thing is after being on this site, for quite a short time, I think i am coming to understand that if someone wants something they go for it. Most of the time.

I kind of feel like my Aqua runs away every time we get closer and I don't want to deal with this anymore. I don't want my love affair to be like a war of attrition, where we wear each other down, no! i am gemini my love is fair too delicate and romantic to deal with that, i just want fucking romance with out all the freaking out. its not that fucking hard to love but it is if they are the wrong person. it is exhausting and wearing on the ego. so i have made a decision to cut him loose. (I am a gemini so i totally reserve the right to do a complete 180 on this decision, and change my mind. who knows by this afternoon i will have swung right back around. haha actually i may very well.) i

I have the same prob as you, i have tried dating others but the spark isn't the same. I even had a cappy confessing his love for me last year and i declined his advances because of this Aqua.

I think my theme song for this V-Day is going to be 50 ways to leave your Lover...haha...it actually might take me 50 goes to do it.

Anyway, i hope that your tell him how you feel and i hope that this works out for you. Sending you lots of strength and a big hug!

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My condolences for you as well. So many times I wanted to give up and cut loose but no one has ever affected my emotions as well as my spirituality as this particular aqua. I've met other aquas but this guy and I just connect on such an intellectual level that he ignites my soul. No one has ever affected both sides good and bad of my emotional spectrum. His presence alone motivates my passions for what I love in life.
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geminintheworld,

I agree with you completely. When we are in a situation big or small we just wonder that are we the only ones going through this. Feel trapped and all alone. I sometimes feel my sisters don't even understand me either. But when you read others having the similar or same situation, it feels comforting. I feel all that negative/low feelings just go then.

Yeah that's what I??ve noticed, it's a very close connection when we are together in that moment, then he distances himself from me. Which I'm used to, I can deal with it but I don't know what's going on in his mind half the time. He picks up on the lil things about me and when it gets mentioned in the conversation its such a amazing feeling. Its like he's really noticed me. Did you not feel that same way about your cappy guy? I kind of done a sly one the other day. I messaged him saying —Happy Valentines day?? he responded back a min later saying —its not Val Day?? I just told him I say its is..lol then the convo flowed again.

I really don't know how to tell him.. think im afraid of the rejection. Plus he's studying and I know his focus and priories is that and his DJing at the moment.

Aww thanks love!! I feel the Strength and hugs x
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Yep, get what you mean about the really noticing you thing. my aqua made me feel the same way.


You will know when the time is right. If you feel like right now isn't the best time just wait a little. He sounds busy.


Fear of rejection sucks but i guess its sort of what makes the whole thing so thrilling because there is this risk involved. haha 😄


I saw my aqua yesterday... was a weird vibe, i have started the distancing but i still adore him.

(nah, no interest in the cappy, we connected intellectually but not in any other way, poor guy, funny you know after made it clear to him that i just wasn't interested in anything but friendship he said to me "thats ok, you can't help the way you feel". Has anyone ever said anything to you that just makes you think wow.... i always try to control my emotions, i analyse them and talk myself in and out of them and try to make my emotions fit what i think the situation requires. I am envious that people can be so free in their feeling of emotions.)



It's really tough when you adore or are interested in an aqua becuase you are the least sure with them. You never know really how you stand until you are actually in a relationship with them or ask them out and even then its confusing.

I hate it sometimes cause they have the ability to make you feel adored but then the next minute they seem "busy" but then they aren't.

Or they just bring you a coffee in the morning for no reason at all and then the next day they don't even address you at all.

Sux!
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I think if we all loved fearlessly we would not have these problems.

Yeah, I know our egos make this easier said than done :/



Y are you aquas not consistent!!!
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^ can't describe it really but I can say I'm personally very consistent IN a relationship because that's when I completely give you the trust. Outside of that there'll always be some sort of insecurity. Weird maybe but when that other person and I enter a relationship it's almost like a contract LOL and I have to respect they trust me fully.
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I think if we all loved fearlessly we would not have these problems.

Yeah, I know our egos make this easier said than done :/



Y are you aquas not consistent!!!



^ can't describe it really but I can say I'm personally very consistent IN a relationship because that's when I completely give you the trust. Outside of that there'll always be some sort of insecurity. Weird maybe but when that other person and I enter a relationship it's almost like a contract LOL and I have to respect they trust me fully.
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So prior to that the inconsistency is due to lack of trust
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I think if we all loved fearlessly we would not have these problems.

Yeah, I know our egos make this easier said than done :/



Y are you aquas not consistent!!!



^ can't describe it really but I can say I'm personally very consistent IN a relationship because that's when I completely give you the trust. Outside of that there'll always be some sort of insecurity. Weird maybe but when that other person and I enter a relationship it's almost like a contract LOL and I have to respect they trust me fully.



So prior to that the inconsistency is due to lack of trust
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Inconsistent as in well obvious I won't give you every bit of me, if we're dating my rules are pretty simple, I have my time no questions asked. But don't mistake that for I won't take it further or play the disappearing game or going hot and cold. I don't do that at all.
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I think if we all loved fearlessly we would not have these problems.

Yeah, I know our egos make this easier said than done :/



Y are you aquas not consistent!!!



^ can't describe it really but I can say I'm personally very consistent IN a relationship because that's when I completely give you the trust. Outside of that there'll always be some sort of insecurity. Weird maybe but when that other person and I enter a relationship it's almost like a contract LOL and I have to respect they trust me fully.



So prior to that the inconsistency is due to lack of trust



Inconsistent as in well obvious I won't give you every bit of me, if we're dating my rules are pretty simple, I have my time no questions asked. But don't mistake that for I won't take it further or play the disappearing game or going hot and cold. I don't do that at all.
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Took trial and error but the one thing I learned about aqua men is ya gotta give them the chance to be consistent but room to breathe also.
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i wonder if inconsistency has anything to do with having mutables in the chart and/or air?
if he's got a mutable moon, mutable moons in "general" are very chameleon like. they will feel what's on that day, or take some energies they're feeling from the atmosphere. now depending on the element/rulership, decan, it can get trickier. if he's got a fixed moon or cardinal...not sure too much. but taurus moons are the most stable i read. taurus being persistent and tenacious. but you all kind of know this, probably much more so.
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geminintheworld

But even though he's saying it wont work out because of —age?? and because he lives far so it wont work with the distance, would you think his opinion would change later? Just wondering if Aqua??s stick by there word or do they change there thoughts and views about something or someone. Mmmm

Ooo yeh I agree its very trilling and exciting that's how he makes me feel..

I'm glad your cappy guy understood. Cant help who you fall for. Are you both still friends? Talk?
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^^ hmm, i don't know if he will change his mind. Could go either way. I guess just be prepared for both.

Lol, if he was a gemini i would say mind changing was a definite possibility but an aquarian i don't know.

(re the capricorn guy - We are still friends but we haven't talked for over a month he said he wanted time away and would come back and be my friend when he felt like it.)



yeh i just have hope. Sometimes I feel, because i have no one else in my life seems like im focusing myself on him.. dunno.. ahh the drama!! lol

that doesnt sound right... 'when he felt like it?' shouldnt be that way tho.. is he one of your really good mates??