It's so nice to have a man that actually....

Listens!!

I can mention something I'd like to do. He may not comment on it much then, and at the time I felt like he wasn't listening, but he makes arrangements and makes it happen! What a guy!

I don't do this very often, but I can talk about a concern/issue/problem and he listens. He doesn't tell me what to do. He just lets me talk and comments some on it, but he listens and supports. He doesn't make me feel bad about my feelings on my problem/issue/concern and doesn't make me feel like it's my fault. He gives advice or opinion if asked or when needed, but leaves it up to me to come to my own conclusions. Basically, he just lets me get it off my chest. Later on, depending on the subject, he'll ask how things went or just wait on me to update him.

Don't get the wrong idea, I'm not constantly throwing problems his way. In fact, it's rare. But it's nice to know he's not going to tell me what he would do and expect me to do it his way. He's one of the few men, I think, that just get that women don't want men to solve their problems, we just need to vent/talk it out/be a sounding board. Amazing!!

Is this an aqua thing or a virgo moon thing?

inclined to think it's an aqua thing rather than virgo all virgos that I know personally do give advice whether it's the ones you want or not and usually quite adamant that they are right.

Well, it's a nice trait yall have!

I think its both. Aquarius are good listeners in general. Virgo moons like to help in practical ways like listening.

I would say it's a well aspected (Virgo) Moon thing. Planets in Cap would make a trine to his Moon.

Aquarius is a masculine sign. More into talking than listening.

Empathy is a great quality for understanding others.

I listen to people all day.... I used to talk so fucking much when I was younger.... I felt uncomfortable if I was at a table and everyone just shuts up... Hell I still kinda do BUT nowadays I listen more.... I wish I could say I was as good as your man... I still forget at times why Im being told about the problem and try to help when it's not needed..... Im so dumb =_=

I would love to have the composure of Ryan Gosling in DRIVE.... He is such a badass in that movie haha

It's an Aqua thing. 🙂

Both my parents, my closest friend, my favorite professor, and my boyfriend are all Aquas. And all terrific listeners.

Virgos I don't do so well with, unfortunately. They can get a bit judgey at times.

Im not sure if im a good listener, lol. Tbh, i find myself pretending to be listening most of the time, zone in/out and catch only the parts that interest me. I only really listen if someone gets to the point real fast or if the topic is really interesting.