something_fishy
@something_fishy
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Need help with Aquarius...
Hmmmm...what are you not getting, Something_fishy?
He has stated to you everything he is feeling. You entertain him...he calls you when he is bored, he just wants to have sex with you but no relationship. Starfish is correct, figure out if this is the type of relationship that you need to experience and most of all, do YOU deserve it?
If your answer is no, I'd personally would not take any further calls from him. This will most definately give him the message of what you are NOT looking for.
Good luck!
He has stated to you everything he is feeling. You entertain him...he calls you when he is bored, he just wants to have sex with you but no relationship. Starfish is correct, figure out if this is the type of relationship that you need to experience and most of all, do YOU deserve it?
If your answer is no, I'd personally would not take any further calls from him. This will most definately give him the message of what you are NOT looking for.
Good luck!
I suppose you guys are right...I think this kind of relationship would depress me in the future if I put too much thought into it. I'll just be his friend and make sure that's it...he seems to think of me as a friend either way.
i think you are setting yourself up for disaster...you need to break away from this. unless you really do want to be a last resort for him, which i highly doubt that you do...you need to move on. he will continue to treat you badly as long as you let him, so ultimately it is up to you to decide what you want. you should have more self worth than that, don't you think?
"he seems to think of me as a friend either way."
Interesting - not sure that I would choose a "friendship" where the person calls me as a last resort or only when he/she is bored and only needs me for his/her entertainment purposes. I must say that at this time in my life I am pretty selective about who shares my world with me.
Maybe ask yourself - Is this a true friendship based on respect for each other? Also, when you have "friends" in your life it is still considered a "relationship" because that is what you are experiencing.
Not sure if this quote will help you but it has helped me quite a bit -
"If the path you are on has a heart, keep on it. If it doesn't, choose another path."
unfortunately, I am unable to remember who this belongs to.
Interesting - not sure that I would choose a "friendship" where the person calls me as a last resort or only when he/she is bored and only needs me for his/her entertainment purposes. I must say that at this time in my life I am pretty selective about who shares my world with me.
Maybe ask yourself - Is this a true friendship based on respect for each other? Also, when you have "friends" in your life it is still considered a "relationship" because that is what you are experiencing.
Not sure if this quote will help you but it has helped me quite a bit -
"If the path you are on has a heart, keep on it. If it doesn't, choose another path."
unfortunately, I am unable to remember who this belongs to.
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