Aquaness or Just ME??

I have found that when I am mad, I want things to be OVER and now, even though what happened might not warrent an ending of the relationship, but I just hate dealing with any silliness or games.. not even that, I hate dealing with people who are hard to read. I guess that's it in a nutshell. I am introverted but always dated extremely outgoing guys, always, mostly am attracted to libra's, aqua's and some aries.. but introverted guys are the WORSE thing to deal with ever. My best friend and I are just alike which is bad and good. He is very introverted especially when he like someone for more than a friend, which we have now officially crossed those lines after 7 years. This began in January, and since then I think I have told him to stop calling me or leave me alone at least 4 times. OK that seems kind of psycho to me.. since we are best friends, but when we crossed those lines he went into this other mode in my mind and I want to get rid of him all the time now. I know I do this in normal relationships as a defense mechanism, but I cant keep doing this to my best friend...

... Like last night, he was suppose to call me back and didn't. So today, I want to tell him to not call me anymore since he can't call when he says he is going to. Now I know that is completely irrational, as we are not boyfriend and girlfriend, nor does he HAVE to call me ever, and he does every day..

Im wondering if this is an aqua thing or is this just a f'd up "me" thing? The dude loves me to death and I know he would do anything for me but I keep trying to get rid of him and he keeps NOT going anywhere, still calls me like normal, even though I tell him to stop calling me.. he is so sweet, but has a major communication issue..

Has any other aqua's experienced this?? This may help some other sign out there too that can't figure us out.. maybe we all do this and that is why people can't understand us, or think we are distant.. well we are but that's a whole other post..

HELP!!

I cant date guys who are introverted because there'd be no conversation. Although I o find them interesting..the whole mystery issue. BUT I ind once they start to like me (they always do) I start to bolt.
BUT I do find myself to be the opposite personality of my friends....

I do have an issue with people not keeping there word...so it does irritate me when you say your going to call or anything and you dont. Or you'll be 'here' in 10 minutes and you really mean 2 hours. It always pisses me off no matter if I say am never taking your word seriously ever again (happens all the time, keeps me from getting angry and disappointed).

I dont like picking fights. So I let it be known and move on.

What was the question again??

I HATE FLAKEY!!!

It pisses me off...passive aggressive I can piss off and ignore 🙂

Music is my boyfriend too.

I know a passive aggressive guy, CANCER, he is such a little bitch. He gets on my nerves...but I enjoy pissing him off.

My best friend is flakey...I hate it, but I have gotten used to it. She's less flaky than when I first met her, well to me she is less flaky. The pisces guy I see is flaky too. 😢

LOL, music always says the right things and I can shut it off and turn it on whenever I feel like it.

Its a good thing im a good listener...b/c music talks too much.

My computer and I have a love/hate relationship. Its pretty dysfunctional if you ask me.

hehe, oh ok now I see what ya mean. In that situation where your job, etc is on the line flaky is NOT GOOD. I'd call them out.

Well I guess I don't get the whole difference between flakey and passive agressive. We are both very introverted, that just means we have a very hard time communicating and saying what is actually on our mind. We may be madly in love with someone, but they will never know, bc its hard to get it out. We are both the only child to one distant parent, so that may have something to do with it too. Just never talked much to others, usually to ourselves which makes us sooo hard to read.

I wrote on the libra board but, I have to get mad to get the truth out of him, I hate that. Just tell me how it is and lets move on. Either you like me or you don't, either way I don't care I just need to know which its going to be. Or either you want to see me or you don't. Don't tell me you want to see me then back out at the last minute, when it was YOU who made all the plans.. stuff like that pisses me off and I want to end everything. But he ALWAYS has a good reason, then I can't get mad, but if he had shared that BEFORE I got mad, things would have gone over smoother.

So its not an aqua thing to have low tolerance of BS huh.. Just me??

Music is my boyfriend.. it doesn't argue or talk back.. only soothes my soul 🙂

Oh ok, he is flaky. I have low tolerance for that. You two are one in the same so of course the relationship will be stagnant...since no one can discuss there feelings.

BUT I would be pissed if he kept flaking out on me, but Ive learned to ask for the excuses first and if there not good enough....oh well, they they get the quick wrath....I say quick b/c im get over things quickly and hate to argue usually....and aquas are reasonable people.

🙂

Its understandable, libra men are a bit wimpy...nice, but wimpy. I dont think its introversion either, its their lack of ability to be mean or ruffle any feathers.

It's funny how Aqua's can dish it out but can't take it when the shoe hits the other foot.

"When the shoe hits the other foot?
Nice analogy. o_O

LOL!!

Yeah, it sucks to get a taste of your own medicine...but beware lurkers...it only sucks IF we care 🙂

Indecisiveness is flaky ay.

I heart my libra guy friend 🙂...but damn! There like aquas on crack with the ADHD.

"that just means we have a very hard time communicating and saying what is actually on our mind. We may be madly in love with someone, but they will never know, bc its hard to get it out."

-this describes an aqua perfectly!!! my aqua bf is just like this... and we have been together a long time, and he still has trouble communicating what is on his mind.

"It's funny how Aqua's can dish it out but can't take it when the shoe hits the other foot."

SO TRUE!!! this is why the only way to get to them is to give them a taste of their own medicine!

Lady M - I heart my libra guy friend ...but damn! There like aquas on crack with the ADHD.

LOL!! So true!

Thanks for explaining the flakey vs passive/aggressive. He is definitely not passive/aggressive.. I guess he would be more flakey..