See where the Aqua takes it?

From what I've been reading concerning Aquarians in relationships is that all the major moves should be left up to them, so not to push them, or scare them into thinking you are kidnapping their freedom...

I'm not sure where I stand with my Aqua... and I'm dying to know.
We just had the most INCREDIBLE weekend. I am flying right now. He's amazing, and I am totally falling for this guy.... but he has no idea... my question is, should he know that? Ok... maybe not exactly that, but something like that? I am not really sure why I care so much, maybe because when I'm with him I'm at my happiest, then he leaves to go back home (2 hours away)and I wonder if I'm on his mind as much as he's on mine... but without knowing my position in his life, it's hard to feel at ease when he's away. I know we're not seeing other people... cause we agreed on that... He said we'll just "Go with the Flow..." and I liked that...

Anyway... I guess I'm just here to get this off my chest, makes me feel better when I hear your points. If any background is required, please feel free to ask. It's better that I'm here getting this off my chest, then EFFing up the situation with my Aqua...

lol

Sadge

Do exactly what he said...GO with the flow. When we say were not seeing anyone else....we arent.

YES, you are on his mind.

yeah I'm always thinking about my leo, air signs are always think'n so no worries in that department, go with the flow as he said and you 2 will be fine.

If he's anything like me he'll probably be thinking about you constantly right now. Then work, then you, then work, then you, sex, work, you, both, then combining all 3 together.

"If he's anything like me he'll probably be thinking about you constantly right now. Then work, then you, then work, then you, sex, work, you, both, then combining all 3 together."

I really hope he's like you... lol

Does that mean that even though you may think of the above constantly, you still keep those thoughts to yourself.

And if so, why? Are you afraid to tell someone how you feel?

Cause I wonder if we're in the middle of a power struggle here, with either one of us not wanting to jump first.

Of course we keep thoughts to ourselves. I don't think this is an Aqua thing that much either. It seems more like a guy thing to me. Most guys aren't sure whether or not they want to get into a serious relationship and like to wait things out and see how it goes. And since this guy is young then he's probably in the same boat as the rest of us are. If things go well it'll just happen. Guys in general don't talk about feelings. Just treat it as a light relationship for now and don't force anything to happen. Sure the whole idea that he's an Aqua might make things a little difficult, because we're stubborn mofos, but just treat him like any other guy and give him a little cushion to work with and he'll come around. As for the whole power struggle deal, I think that's all in your head. Just relax and flow. I'm starting to wonder if Amy was like this at first now. I should go ask questions lol.

Yes we keep it to ourselves....for various reasons.

-Power struggle is one....not wanting to take the plunge and be out there alone.
-Just not being able to communicate it.

Hi Twin! HIGH FIVE!

::High Five::

Whats up?!

You should ask Amy and see.

I know all my guy crushes would say the same...they take the liberty of telling me after the fact.

I'll ask her later when she gets off from work. Or maybe I should go pick her up again? Fuck it I'll go get her.

I am doing awesomez. I made Campbell's Chunky soup and eating it. And you M?

I just came form the nail salon...got a pedicure and eyebrows waxed. I need to be studying. Ive got 3 exams in one day on Thursday. 😢

You know what sucks, even now that I know these things about myself (the aquaness) and how it affect5s the guys that like me and I happen to like back....its sooooo hard to change.

::le sigh::
(havent done that in awhile...)😛

"If he's anything like me he'll probably be thinking about you constantly right now. Then work, then you, then work, then you, sex, work, you, both, then combining all 3 together."

-DK...that's too funny!!! i like that...and yes, it is very true.

You know what sucks, even now that I know these things about myself (the aquaness) and how it affect5s the guys that like me and I happen to like back....its sooooo hard to change.

Well come on M. Aquas are suppose to be stubborn towards change. Just take baby steps. I make an effort every day to try to put my best foot forward and see how things go from there. Whether or not a change occurs is completely up to chance. But in the end appreciate it's either you change or people adjust to you. And most likely I think people have to adjust to you lol.

"Yes we keep it to ourselves....for various reasons.

-Power struggle is one....not wanting to take the plunge and be out there alone.
-Just not being able to communicate it."

Thanks M...

I suppose patience is still my key?

*sigh*

awww, look at my twin being all Dr. Ruth. 🙂🙂

The pisces guy has adjusted to me...a little too much actually...he's becoming aqua-ish.
Im trying, its just whenever I have the chance something always happens or comes up. Oh well....till next time.

Yes, patience is it.

Reading all your posts makes me feel like an ass now lol.

No... Why!? DOnt!

Your right. Its just weird seeing you all normal and calm. LOL

I'd rather be Babe Ruth. That guy is one of the most prolific Aquarian athletes Ever. Him and Hank Aaron.

I was talking about Sadge22's posts lol. I can be calm see lol. Also I've learned that some threads need a certain kind of subdued energy and in other threads I can, what's that word? Oh yes, UNLEASH!

fine "Babe" it is...he still has a girly name 😛

Don't make me whip out my list of male Aquarian Athletes M. I hate being called girly.

sheesh! sorry.

Quick do something 'MANLY'.

I just punched my roommate in the stomach for trying to peak over my shoulder. That'll teach him. I'll be right back I have to lay down a whoopin'. COME HERE MUTHAFUCKA!

well, I guess thats manly...

"I just punched my roommate in the stomach for trying to peak over my shoulder."

so, you just make him slouch around all day? are you intimidated by tall people?

Of course that's manly. He's currently taking a nap right now. Ok fine I choked him out cold lol. He's an Aries by the way so he put up a fight. Not like the other one. He runs out the apartment lol.

We're the same height... I'm sitting and he's standing dude. Plus that's how our household dynamic is. We like to rassle from time to time. Last week he broke a lamp so I layed down the law.

uh, you got the joke, right? "peak"?

Apparently I didn't but I'll laugh anyways lol.

LQTM

What?

cant blame you for not getting it, the delivery was really bad. still, the idea of a guy making his roomate slouch constantly under the threat of violence is pretty amusing.

well, not to the roomate, id imagine.

Laughing Quietly To Myself.

Im sick...I hate this.😢

Internet slang makes me want to become illiterate sometimes.

cant blame you for not getting it, the delivery was really bad. still, the idea of a guy making his roomate slouch constantly under the threat of violence is pretty amusing.

I just got a mental image of that HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

"Im sick...I hate this."

look at the bright side - at least you still have your posture.

Im sick...I hate this.

Go to sleep then. You have 3 exams too remember. Put that enormous brain to rest. The body will take care of itself.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Are you trying to say I have a big head!?!?!

I think you do have to be illiterate to understand internet jargon.

Aries rising gives me great posture!

I need more tea and lemon.

Are you trying to say I have a big head!?!?!

Yes. LOL! You're going to E-slap me aren't you?

I shall E-twist your nipples!

::makes crab claw gestures::

The Nyquils setting in...

*Puts on lobster bib and prepares to sharpen fork and knife.*

Bring on them claws.

Are you going to defend yourself or eat me?

Both. I'm going to allow you to get close enough to grab some nipple but the moment you get close enough it's Red lobster time. I'm going to strike like a mongoose with my lightning fast reflexes. So really my nipples are bait lol.

lol, I bite also! so watch out...I always put up a good fight.