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Today while we were out together eating sushi, i introduced her to horoscopes/zodiac/whatever and she read that we are only as good as best friends -__- fml, now i dont know what to do, i really like her, not to sound cocky but i have VERY high standards and she is just right there.. though she has a boyfriend who is also aquarius and she read that they are incompatible, before that she told me that things between them arent anything special and are "just things," i know that they had a lot of fights since like spring which I hoped things would get messy between them, and as usual I was right, their relationship is very unstable and hopefully after she read that they dont match it will speed up the process.

She also showed me some perverted website shes always on, saying that all girls read that kind of crap, and i told her not all youre just freaky (laughs), then she suggested that i watch porn, and i jokingly said yes 24/7. She also wants a double date for some reason to hook me up with a girl i dont like, which i told her, and i know 100% that the aquarius girl knows that i like her because we had little drama before, she also told me that she trusts me now thats why we went out to eat, which made me feel accomplished but at the same time ya know kinda "wtf" u didnt trust me before that?i knew she didnt but i just had to confront her lol... i also told her that i know who people are just by looking at them and that i know if people lie to me, she asked me whether she lied to me i said yes but didnt tell her when because i know u damn Aquariuses will avoid such truth at all cost so it was pointless and wasnt worth a possible fight, also steering a conversation is amazingly hard she isnt as random as gemini for example, but i still managed lol... so yeah.. double-date, some time next week and i have no idea what does she want to accomplish with that, she did tell me she wants me to meet her bf for some reason.

also she hated the fact that i would be dominating her in the relationship lol
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well you have to also argue her stances.if you guys are really good friends you can then say "yeah but that is a basis for passionate great relationships." and zodiacs are fun to think about but it shouldn't be the purpose of our life and our decision making.

if she is an aqua...you have to play devils advocate.

p.s. aquas don't avoid truth...they have probably thought of all the possibilities and they are fixed air signs meaning as long as you dont give them an idea they already thought of they wont' accept it. what is the point if we already though of it? if you want her..you better be as quick minded and ahead than she is. a gemini accepts all points because they dont know what it is they want to say..they believe in both conflicting points. aqua seeks for absolute but cannot accept things they have already thought of. anything new and crazy is fine..anything done isn't
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Posted by KingOfAries
all aquariuses i know are asian lol welcome to the club

okay she will be feeding on new ideas and having a "best friend relationship" with me, and she also trusts me now - that she said, so what about other stuff like why does she want me to see her boyfriend and how would i progress our what she considers bbf to a relationship?


She wants to check out if your a bigger pervert than her aqua bf .I suggest getting caught with your pants down in the library might work for you 🙂
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I'm confused

You started out saying that you really like her. Sounds like you're trying to win her affection

Then 2 paragraphs later, you're entertaining the thought of meeting her boyfriend?! Huh, how will that possibly bring you any closer to having this girl all to yourself?!

Plus, she's already taken. It's noble that you want to be there for her but it sounds like you have your own hidden intentions & that's not cool.

If you want her so bad, wait until she's single. She can complain about her man all day long but none of it is truly valid until she leaves her oh-so-bad relationship
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all aquariuses i know are asian lol welcome to the club

okay she will be feeding on new ideas and having a "best friend relationship" with me, and she also trusts me now - that she said, so what about other stuff like why does she want me to see her boyfriend and how would i progress our what she considers bbf to a relationship?


She wants to check out if your a bigger pervert than her aqua bf .I suggest getting caught with your pants down in the library might work for you 🙂
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lmao id hope its that
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Posted by krysrenee7
I'm confused

You started out saying that you really like her. Sounds like you're trying to win her affection

Then 2 paragraphs later, you're entertaining the thought of meeting her boyfriend?! Huh, how will that possibly bring you any closer to having this girl all to yourself?!

Plus, she's already taken. It's noble that you want to be there for her but it sounds like you have your own hidden intentions & that's not cool.

If you want her so bad, wait until she's single. She can complain about her man all day long but none of it is truly valid until she leaves her oh-so-bad relationship



i do like her, i do try to win her affection or whatever, im not entertaining my thought i really dont understand why she wants me to meet her boyfriend who she really has things messed up with.. thats what i got from what she told me, so i dont know, its like soon gonna be 2 years of them "together," also i know, im sure that she wouldnt cheat so i dont even consider it, im just not that patient i want things to happen sooner, like one month ago she called me drunk calling her bf "ex-bf" because he didnt talk to her for a week, thats when she invited herself to my place lmao but i was moving at the time so i honestly couldnt manage that, so we agreed to hang out like in a few days then i guess she realized in the morning what she told me last night and the day before we were supposed to hang out she lied that she is going to florida so i didnt bother her for the rest of the summer, didnt want to confront her just like whatever, anyway, yesterday ive been seeing her whole day long, first i sat in front of her, then she sat in front of me and not a word to each other, like we completely ignored each other then i moved up to the front cause she was sitting with my other female friend so i like squeezed in between them and shes like oh hey bad boy, blalalalah then we didnt talk for another hour of class then we came out of our class and went out to eat as i already stated, i knwo it might not even get to me and him meeting each other she could just say that to see my reaction, but the only thing i reacted bad to was the girl who she wanted to hook me up with.. cmon.. soooo ya.. stop telling me about their sacred relationship i know better, i will not show her that i like her, her type is a bad boy and she keeps telling me that i am one, as well as about the th
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i dont get the purpose of telling us all those details..what are you trying to figure out exactly? why she is doing those things? why not? your her friend and she can tell you about anything. YOU KEEP hoping that her actions are a reflection of your desires..but if you look at it..from this standpoint..if it was another girl..completely not your type ..a girl you only see as a sister or something..if she behaved like this aqua female..would it make a difference in the outcome? does it mean that she likes you in both situations? (at least in the way you hope for)

if not..then its you that is projecting your most inner desires of her as her "possible" wants..

how about this..you tell her "i cannot keep doing this..i've fallen in love with you and i cannot keep being around you"

why be around the bush..if your this old already?
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i see what youre saying, i will keep my cool, wont show her any sympathy, if she keeps teasing me around I could do what u suggested i could definitely send her a text saying something like "im sorry i cannot be your friend because i still got feelings for you"

and i am curious why she wants me to meet her bf is it like a best friend thing - what she is trying to do with me, or is it something more, because she now trusts me which is really weird, last semester she wouldnt even consider going to eat with me she would always lie her way out, and now she trusts me, and wants me to see him, its not to scare me lmfao, i just dont know why like really WHY
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dude there isn't really anything more to it. your analyzing it to your own liking. its just a matter of fact. your a friend and thats that. and friends do everything together and even introduce their "lovers" to each other.

maybe you just haven't accepted that your just a friend. asking WHY is your way of saying "i hope someone out there will tell me it is because she has feelings for me"

its really not that complicated...either your want in or out.
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It's true that things might not be steamed up quickly between two Aquas like an Aries and an Aqua but it's just that. The special bond that two Aquas have with one another isn't easy to break. They can drift away like two aliens living in alternate worlds but that's what special about their relationship. Just "things" happen . Things that outsiders wouldn't understand and scratch their heads "what the heck?". The problem is when these two disagree, it's hard to know when they would ride their spacehorse to visit one another again to extend the olive branch. The "cold war" begins and the distance between two worlds start to increase, they'd drift away from one another. However, try to observe and you will see that sometimes, in the corner of her eyes, there is a shine when she speaks about her Aqua guy, even they haven't seen each other alot. The special and crazy shine. Just that if you know what I mean😛

PS: too many same posts! that's why I hid them.
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she has NO idea what my true side is, whole last semester she thought i was a "typical white boy who would only go for white girls" - shes asian, and even now, she only touches upon the core of who i am, i cant just open all my cards i need to make sure shes not after the money,

she is not cleverer than me, she is immature like all of you, she is smart but she is not that clever, every game she plays with me i notice, i want to confront her, though it might end our friendship, my other friend talked about me to the aqua girl and the aqua girl told her that she purposely flirts with me then reminds me that she has a boyfriend, isnt that immature?

my friend, who is older, told her that if she flirts it has to be going somewhere that she cant just play with me, and the aqua said that she doesnt like that im bossy. My friend thinks that she likes me just doesnt know what to do with me, so my hypothesis are she is either playing games with me OR is keeping me on a leash in case they break up.

After their talk, im not sure to be honest, because she's been acting weird and avoiding me today, stopped calling me every day at night, no texts, and i never showed her that i like her in any way - which could probably draw her back, in fact i ignored her half the time but was acting very responsibly and manly, was dressed top notch as always but this time she didnt complement me over the phone that day because she didnt even call me, that day i kissed her on her cheek when we said our byebyes and thats all. the next day - plain weird behavior and avoiding. i might be right after all though, she might be going through tough time with her bf.
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she has NO idea what my true side is, whole last semester she thought i was a "typical white boy who would only go for white girls" - shes asian, and even now, she only touches upon the core of who i am, i cant just open all my cards i need to make sure shes not after the money,

she is not cleverer than me, she is immature like all of you, she is smart but she is not that clever, every game she plays with me i notice, i want to confront her, though it might end our friendship, my other friend talked about me to the aqua girl and the aqua girl told her that she purposely flirts with me then reminds me that she has a boyfriend, isnt that immature?

my friend, who is older, told her that if she flirts it has to be going somewhere that she cant just play with me, and the aqua said that she doesnt like that im bossy. My friend thinks that she likes me just doesnt know what to do with me, so my hypothesis are she is either playing games with me OR is keeping me on a leash in case they break up.

After their talk, im not sure to be honest, because she's been acting weird and avoiding me today, stopped calling me every day at night, no texts, and i never showed her that i like her in any way - which could probably draw her back, in fact i ignored her half the time but was acting very responsibly and manly, was dressed top notch as always but this time she didnt complement me over the phone that day because she didnt even call me, that day i kissed her on her cheek when we said our byebyes and thats all. the next day - plain weird behavior and avoiding. i might be right after all though, she might be going through tough time with her bf.