No CALLS from aqua BF...

Please, can any one help with my situation im experiencing now.
If we are together 'me and my aqua bf' everything seems perfect. But once, we are not together. It seems no communication at all "no calls", unless i will initiate or his brother and GF inviting me to be with them. and once we met, like nothing happens? And as well as i tried to get him to discuss things about our relationship where its heading and whats happening, but it seems he is blocking me, coz he will tell me, that we should not talk about it, that there is the right time, and i tried to ask him, then when is the right time? he will just stop talking to me.

By the way, we're seeing each other once a week, but im staying with him 2 or 3days.

Sweatbabes.....

I know from reading past posts...that there will be some to respond to your question by saying to you......just relax, that is the "aqua way." POPPY-POO-POO-COKC!

Honestly, I don't think it matters if he is an flighty aqua, fantasyland pisces, polkadotted zebra, horsenaround Sagitarius, rammin' aries, stingin'scorpio, two-headed Gem, bulldozer taurean, crabby cancer, balanced librarians, goateestrokin' cappies, antibacterial virgins or those flamin'roarin' leopards! A man is a man.....

Forget about the man right now Sweatbabes....and think for once about YOU. Apparently what is happening is not up to YOUR standards yet you accept it. Why? Why? Why?

You have needs....you did the right thing by expressing your needs to him (asking about the relationship) - a huge kuddos to you!!!! Here is the test for the man.....express your need, see how he responds and BINGO - his character is revealed 😉 *note - this IS him...it is not a figment of your imagination....you cannot CHANGE him.

By him responding to you in this manner - "that we should not talk about it, that there is the right time, and i tried to ask him, then when is the right time? he will just stop talking to me." - his actions, plain and simple are saying that YOU are not that IMPORTANT to him - he is NOT honoring you as a person.....and if anyone tells you any different, and you believe them...call 911 immediately!

Human behaviour facts - one does not ignore one he/she loves. Would you do this to someone? If your answer is a simple and honest, NO - then do not ever accept this behaviour from someone else.

You right now know that this relationship is not right for you or you would not have asked this question. When relationships are good, there are no questions to ask - there is a simple KNOWING that all is right.

Learn to trust your instincts...they are trying to speak to you, you only need to learn how to listen to them.

My best wishes to you Sweatbabes....

My sincere apologies to you for mispelling your name, Sweetbabes

Thanks guys, thanks a lot for the advices....Actually, im having now a thought to leave this guy. I don't know, like this is just me, before i end the relationship i must be very hurt then i can move on.

leokitten is right... you are abusing yourself sweetbabes

How i wish, i just leave as it is. But I'll try my best now, besides im initiating a call now, its been almost a week. And this is my first time, without doing any move to see him or get in contact with him.

you would be wrong kris...

sweetbabes, it's probably too late and you've already called him.

have you thought about why he hasn't called you?

GUYS SORRY, ITS A MISTAKE! I DID NOT CALL HIM FOR ALMOST A WEEK AT ALL!

i type it by mistakes...instead of i did not initiate anymore of calling him, i miss the NOT!

good sweetbabes! you deserve better treatment.

ha ha ha...another one bites the dust.

WHY DO YOU WOMEN KEEP DATING AQUA MALES!!!—

Jesus christ it's like deja' vu on this board every 2nd day.

"AQUA MALE HELP!"
"HOW DO I TREAT AN AQUA MALE?"

Seriously, if you are going so far out of your way to make the relationship work with an aqua male, you will never be happy within yourself.

There's some taurean common sense for you.

Notice how most of the problems come from water/earth signs?

EARTH AND AIR DO NOT WORK.

I'll keep reminding you all once a week.

LOL.,...LMAO....


Tauro are you okay hun—?

Are you still not over her— You cant save people who dont want to be saved.
Not everyone has the same experience....it has alot to do with everything, not only astrology.

By the way, we just talk last night. And he told me that he is planning to break the engagement. So we can go back to normal.

sweetbabes - WHY?

why would you want to be with a man who got someone else pregnant and is now abandoning her? why would you want to be with a man who treats you so horribly?

did he call you last night or did you call him?

he sounds irresponsible and untrustworthy.

no kidding!!!

why would you want to be with a guy who left pregnant woman...do you want that same exact thing to happen to you one day? i hope not...

sweetbabes...you are just setting yourself up for trouble.
you need to learn to love yourself first and gain some self esteem and self worth.

moonchild is absolutely right!


"So we can go back to normal."

What is normal? Under these circumstances, how could anything between you two ever be "normal" again?

oh jeezus...

im seriously not missing much in the relationship department...

First and foremost ilove the guy, second thing the other lady was not pregnant, it was only a scum to get him, he explained it to me that he doesn't want her anymore, for many reasons, he has only forced by family when he got engaged with that lady, now he realized that he is not happy anymore with this lady.

He called me, its not me who called me.

Reason, why i want to continue my relationship with him, its becoz i want to save our relationship.

There must be some HUGE lesson that sweetbabes needs to learn with this Aqua man.

I wish you the best!

While yo call him, he will run and the minute you stop and walk away he will come running, it's the way of most males that like to hunt and usually the Aqua male.

The more you walk away the more he'll chase you, and it may become a game, unless he goes and falls for you, then he'll settle down nicely. Just don't give him all of your heart or be too available.

If he's just using you, then best just to walk away, a girl has to have some self repect.
🙂

okey, i'll try to stay away from him, and give him time what he really wants in his life. If he really loves me or not.

Maybe you van use the time to figure out if you really love him and what you love about him. ie is it his kindness/compassion/sense of humour/ looks/ thoughtfulness/the way he respects you. This may help you to ascertain if it is indeed you love you feel form him or just infatuation.

OP

He's busy, leave him alone, if you want to talk, you can call him, don't be so needy.