Ok I effed up again w the Aquarius ex...

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Virgozlibra
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Last time we talked I asked him for a dvd that was mine and I was gonna be in town. I just said you can leave it on the porch. He said just have missy(his ex baby mama) w crazy issues herself.. Who knows maybe they're back together. But he said to get it from her..? So I FB messages her and she immediately blocks me. So I texted ex back and said wtf you tell me to get it from her and she just snubs me! And I flipped a little and said some things which I believe to be true..I.e. Him lying to me him using me, anyways today I texted him a long apology. And said it was not rihr of me to react that way and I miss his friendship. Well I haven't heard anything. I know one time we talked( very briefly) I texted him of course he mentioned he's moving out of state the next three mos. that's when I was asking to get my movie back. So maybe he's just saying this so I leave him alone..? Like he's acting like he has a new number now maybe.? Maybe that whole moving story was just a story so I wouldn't bother him when I'm in town. And he hasn't textedme back and he is usually a fast replier. What do you guys think!?? Sorry I just am disappointed in myself for doing this to myself again but I had good intentions. I know we aren't gonna be together anymore I just wanted us to be "good" and no hard feelings sorta thing
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Virgozlibra
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It actually wasn't I was gonna be w my family ( my kids and his dad) and he knew that...and I'm with him rigt now so no that's not what my intentions were


Posted by flowingwater
You don't get to decide if you're on good terms, the aqua does.
He broke up with you.

Aquas are not stupid. He knows the dvd tactic.
To him it means you still want him back and he senses your feelings but he doesn't feel the same way about you so he had to change his life and his indentity so that you can leave him alone because he now sees you as a crazy ex.

That's how I would think.

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Virgozlibra
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And I didn't flip about the actual dvd I flipped about him telling me to get it from someone that he knows won't give it to me and will shut me out; listen he knows I'm w my kids dad he knows I know there's never gonna be anything. I wasn't doing that in hopes of booking up w him Jeezus I was w my family anyway so couldnta been possible.. I just wanted my movie!!! While I stay at my gramas house w the kids it get boring. That's it!!!
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Virgozlibra
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Thank you, I appreciate your advice and will not be flipping out anymore or contacting him since I guess he blocked me or got w new number or move outta state...whatever he prob sold the damn movie knowing him
Posted by rufflestruffles
Give him space and time to process what happened. Dont beat yourself up. You did what you think was right at the moment. Maybe just dont flip out on him next time. Aquarians hate dramas and what you did was a dramatic move for a dvd (sorry dont get offended)

Please learn from this to avoid further damage. 🙂

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Virgozlibra
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** their dad
Posted by Zetarose
It actually wasn't I was gonna be w my family ( my kids and his dad) and he knew that...and I'm with him rigt now so no that's not what my intentions were


Posted by flowingwater
You don't get to decide if you're on good terms, the aqua does.
He broke up with you.

Aquas are not stupid. He knows the dvd tactic.
To him it means you still want him back and he senses your feelings but he doesn't feel the same way about you so he had to change his life and his indentity so that you can leave him alone because he now sees you as a crazy ex.

That's how I would think.

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Virgozlibra
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ess a part of me just wanted him to know I would be in town and see his reaction; and there was none becaus he's with his disgusting baby mama. Which I am fine with actually. When I was w him she was so jealous and he said well look at you and look at her ; he knows she's got nothing on me. But deep down there just wasn't enough for us to continue. I understand it now

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Posted by Zetarose
Simy cuz me and my family wanted to watch a movie lol.. W my kids dad that I'm with


Posted by Romz
Lol how thirsty are you for harassing an ex for a DVD.

Get a new DVD and leave the old one. No one is THAT broke.

Ur looking for shit to contact him over. The relationship ended and he's with someone else. She has ever right to not wanting you to contact her or him.

Cray cray



You could just buy another one and he sent you to his ex on purpose. Basically he shut you down. He knew his babymama wasn't going To really talk to you. He planned all that out so you would get the hint.
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I dated a Cancer before I met my aqua. I had broken up with the Cancer, but he had left a movie at my house. Instead of buying another one, he called and wanted to come get it. I told him I would meet him at the local truck stop. Gave it to him. All he wanted to do was tell me about this girl he's dating and how much sex he's getting and how she can't seem to get enough, she was exhausting him.

Like I cared...

It was an excuse for him to let me to know he was having lots of sex with someone...I guess he wanted me to be jealous.

*eye roll*

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Posted by Zetarose
And I didn't flip about the actual dvd I flipped about him telling me to get it from someone that he knows won't give it to me and will shut me out; listen he knows I'm w my kids dad he knows I know there's never gonna be anything. I wasn't doing that in hopes of booking up w him Jeezus I was w my family anyway so couldnta been possible.. I just wanted my movie!!! While I stay at my gramas house w the kids it get boring. That's it!!!



You're with your kid's dad now? There will never be anything with the aqua? A couple of days ago you posted that you couldn't get over him.
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Virgozlibra
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my kids dad for the kids not because I'm in love w him; I love him but I am still in love w the Aqua yes... It sux but nothing anyone can do bout it now


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And I didn't flip about the actual dvd I flipped about him telling me to get it from someone that he knows won't give it to me and will shut me out; listen he knows I'm w my kids dad he knows I know there's never gonna be anything. I wasn't doing that in hopes of booking up w him Jeezus I was w my family anyway so couldnta been possible.. I just wanted my movie!!! While I stay at my gramas house w the kids it get boring. That's it!!!



You're with your kid's dad now? There will never be anything with the aqua? A couple of days ago you posted that you couldn't get over him.
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