Fixed love

I don't believe in love between Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius. (unless synastry is based on other signs in their charts)

Whenever I read stories here on dxp of love affairs/stories between two of these signs, it smells of "belated horniness" to me.

Look at the core of your signs. How can you love someone whose whole dream is to put you into your place? Is this love?

Yall enjoy angry sex. But don't call it love.

"the next thing you know you wake up and your mortgage is in their name only."

ah, you mean they are sooooo lost in horniness that they don't notice that their highest desire is to put that biotch in the right place?

so basically they get deeply tricked by each other?

I get you. Still there is divorce, annulation, break-up and revenge cheating.

If they start with rose-colored glasses, it says nothing about the fact that after their thirst of "belated horniness" is dissolved, they have their first fight over the power.

Your place or my place... we'll see whose place.

Not even scorp/taurus or aqua/leo lol

My gran n grampa are an aqua f n scorp m married for over 40 years. Admittedly its more of a business partnerships than love but...

I think taurus scorp can achieve LOVE. 🙂

Should we let old days's couples Count? They follow other rules why they stay together.

Let's check examples of today's couples. Stayed together for longer than 8 years.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
Should we let old days's couples Count? They follow other rules why they stay together.

Let's check examples of today's couples. Stayed together for longer than 8 years.

Oh yah that's true. My mom n i were just talking about the cultural influences that have kept their marriage together. Had it not been for the era and culture they were raised in i suspect my gran would've divorced him honestly.

>_>

^^^^ longer than 8 years, right?

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Are you talking sun sings Dwell?

I meant sun sign.

I also took other signs of synastry into consideration. So this is uppon your own fairness to say for example my Leo co-worker (with 3x Cancer in his chart) is married to a Scorpio (with two Sag in his chart).

Posted by Impulsv
Coincidentally I don't find out till later they are Leo's or Taurus. Aqua haven't met one yet lol

one of them longer than 8 years?

and he was out of water? earth?

I would prefer fixed... Im all about stability and the other fixed signs offer that. Mutable is all over the darn place and cardinal cant finish what they start.

I would've thought that fixed/mutables seem to hook up for the sex.

Fixed and fixed make powerful lasting partnerships that everyone can grow from.

For whatever this is good, here a collection from the first page of astrotheme for each sign:

Taurus:
Adolf Hitler (Taurus-Libra-Cap) ----- Eva Braun (Aqua-Cap-Virgo) : 16 years incl. 4 years with Unity Mitford (Leo)
Megan Fox (Taurus-Leo-Leo) ---- Brian Austin Green (Cancer-Cap) : 11 years
Jessica Alba (Taurus-Leo-Aqua) ---- Cash Warren (Cap-Gem) : 11 years
Uma Thurman (Taurus-Virgo-Aqua) ---- Ethan Hawke (Scorp-Aqua) : 8 years + Aqua 7 years + Aqua 3 years + Leo 2 years + Aries 3 years + Aries since 2014
Dominique Strauss-Kahn (Taurus-Leo-Aries) ---- Anne Sinclair (Cancer-Sag-Scorp) : 24 years

Leo:
Barak Obama (Leo-Aqua-Gem) ---- Michel (Cap-Pisces) : 26 years
Fran?ois Hollande (Leo-Gem-Cap) ---- S?gol?ne Royal (Virgo-Aqua-Pisces) : 29 years
Madonna (Leo-Virg-Virg)---- Guy Ritchie (Virgo-Aries) : 9 years
Jennifer Lopez (Leo-Leo-Sc) ---- Marc Anthony (Virgo-Cancer) : 7 years
Napoleon I (Leo-Sc-Cap) ---- Marie Louise, Duchess of Parma (Sag-Virg-Cancer) : 11 years
Arnold Schwarzenegger (Leo-Cc-Cap) ---- Maria Shriver (Scorp-Taur-Leo) : 34 years

Scorpio:
Jodie Foster (Sc-Sag-Virg) ---- Cydney Bernard (Aries) : 15 years
Julia Roberts (Sc-Cc-Leo) ---- Daniel Moder (Aquarius) : 14 years
Bill Gates (Sc-Cc-Aries) ---- Melinda Gates (Leo-Sc) : 21 years
Sophie Marceau (Sc-Virg-Cap) ---- Andrzej Zulawski (Sc-Cap-Leo) : 17 years
Grace Kelly (Sc-Sc-Pisces) ---- Prince Rainier of Monaco (Gem-Gem-Sag) : 27 years

Aquarius:
Nicolas Sarkozy (Aqua-Virg-Aries) ---- Cecilia Attias (Sc-Leo-Cc) : 13 years + Carla Bruni (Capricorn) : 8 years
Shakira (Aq-Ar-Can) ---- Antonio De la Rua (Pisces-Sag) : 10 years
Justin Timberlake (Aq-Leo-Sag) ----- Jessica Biel (Pisces-Sag-Gem) : 8 years
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart (Aq-Virg-Sag) ---- Constanze Weber (Capricorn) : 10 years
Oprah Winfrey (Aq-Sag-Sag) ---- Stedman Graham (Pisces-Sc-Pi) : 19 years

Posted by DwellingOnMove
I don't believe in love between Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius. (unless synastry is based on other signs in their charts)

Whenever I read stories here on dxp of love affairs/stories between two of these signs, it smells of "belated horniness" to me.

Look at the core of your signs. How can you love someone whose whole dream is to put you into your place? Is this love?

Yall enjoy angry sex. But don't call it love.

That's not my dream, but I see where you're coming from.

That usually occurs when there is a battle of wills over

Who is In Charge, or because someone is getting greedy

with the Power.

The rest is just... crass.

I disagree (but very sweetly).

😄

Posted by clooneyyears
it's kind of my dream. benevolent control.

You can't be greedy and benevolent

at the same time.

So...

Approved.

Posted by clooneyyears
it's kind of my dream. benevolent control.

Where is ixion in your chart?

But what are the numbers for Cardinals?

Well as far as being fixed earth sign..my first relationship was with an Aries of 6 years, after that, Gemini, Aquarius, and Sagittarius... not in love with.those signs.. more like infatuation which usually lasts about on and.off.. turn your feelings and emotions off around them.

I figure fixed signs are determined and or too stubborn to leave.
I understand the natural affinity as I have it with Cardinals.
We just work better together as a team.
As far as being able to finish things, nah terrible.
I will start a project but the other Cardinal will help a little bit then go off somewhere.

Hm and just because fixed are determined doesn't mean we won't let you go btw.

I met a Taurus male and we are extremely the same..he's more emotional drank texting though more than being sober and being emotional..

He was attached to his ex when I met him. I said that won't fly with me because I need the mental and emotions you're giving her..

He said he dumped a nice women over financial stability...said he knew they would struggle..you must pull your own weight when together..

T/T have the same life long goals of stability, secure, reliable, loyal, and compromising and communication..

Drunk texting

Posted by clooneyyears

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by clooneyyears
it's kind of my dream. benevolent control.

Where is ixion in your chart?

asteroid ixion? wait let me check

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Yes, the asteroid.

What does ixion do for fixed planets? Thanks good or bad.

Posted by Whatu
No fixed energy has an opinion on fixed energy, You need to be put in your place.

This fixed woman has opinions on her fixed bf:

"Immature Leo man Mature Scorpio woman"
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"Because of Leo men reputation as liars and cheaters "
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"had I seen that from the beginning he never would have been in my life period."
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"I told him to either get his butter together or keep it moving."
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"Is he gone forever—"

[From https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/immature-leo-man-mature-scorpio-woman-5453455/]

Drama after drama : if she is mature, why does she throw her scientific knowledge about Leo men away and start with the wrong candidate? and why the get back together after the first major fight? Angry sex, yeah. And the hope to put him into his place on the long term.

[LOL, quote & show buttons are crazy right now]

So I took 21 persons from the first pages of 4 signs on Astrotheme. 7 of them have a fixed-to-fixed relationship.
- 7/21 is nothing worse or better than the natural probability of 4/12.
- 4 men vs. 3 women.
- Scorpio-Taurus-axis gets 4/7 of all and 3/3 of women.

- Often there's at least one common sign between the two, based on Sun, AC and Moon. In the random collection here that common sign is either Capricorn or another fixed sign.

Hitler (Taur-Lib-Cap) ---- Braun (Aq-Cap-Virg) --------------: Capricorn
Schwarzenegger (Leo-Cc-Cap) ---- Shriver (Sc-Taur-Leo) ------: Leo
Gates (Sc-Cc-Ar) ---- Melinda (Leo-Sc) ----------------------: Scorpio
Sarkozy (Aq-Virg-Ar) ---- Attias (Sc-Leo-Cc)
Thurman (Taur-Virg-Aq) ---- Hawke (Sc-Aq) -------------------: Aquarius
Roberts (Sc-Cc-Leo) ---- Moder (Aq) : no more info on Moder
Marceau (Sc-Virg-Cap) ---- Zulawski (Sc-Cap-Leo) ------------: Scorpio & Capricorn

Next five samples:

Dave Gahan (Taur-Taur-Cc) ---- Jennifer Sklias (Ar) : 19 years
Jack Nicholson (Taur-Leo-Virg) ---- Sandra Knight (cap) : 8 years + Anjelica Huston (Cc-Sag-Vg) : 16 years incl. parallel rel.
Pen?lope Cruz (Taur-Ar-Cc) ---- Javier Bardem (Pi) : 8 years + Nacho Cano (Pi) : 8 years
Michelle Pfeiffer (Taur-Gem-Virg) ---- David E. Kelley (Ar) : 19 years + Peter Horton (leo):8years
Audrey Hepburn (Taur-Aq-Pi) ---- Mel Ferrer (Virg-Sag) : 14 years + Andrea Dotti (Pi):14years + Robert Wolders (Libra) : 12 years

Interesting how Pfeiffer starts with Leo and ends with Aries.

Also Jack Nicholson made a his LTR with a Cap and a Cancer.

Hm just need to have a job and make sure bills are paid, kids are taken care of, and then can spend.....

Top reasons people leave a relationship..1. Cheating, 2. Financial 3. Communication

Posted by clooneyyears

Posted by clooneyyears

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by clooneyyears
it's kind of my dream. benevolent control.

Where is ixion in your chart?

asteroid ixion? wait let me check

ixion in scorpio 1st house opposite my sun by 1 degree no other aspects in close orb.

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Thank you, ands. 🙂

I had stumbled on a couple of articles/exchanges on this point.

"I read that Ixion gives you a great "sense of entitlement"

where your wishes must prevail and you don't have consideration

for others.

The younger generation (early 20s) with Ixion/Pluto conjunct in

Scorpio do seem to have this trait in spades... "

"Ixion does not like to follow rules....

A man with Ixion conjunct the ASC, MC Sun, Moon,Venus or Mars will

have the outlaw vibe...

If a person has Ixion conjunct the ASC, MC, Sun or Mars, Ixion will

be more obvious than the Moon or Venus."

Link 01

Link 02

Sorry for the derail!

Posted by clooneyyears
ahh interesting! so ixion is like a leo moon lol!

I was thinking more Leeb/Aries axis gone awry--

more of a Cardinal a***ole, but however you

relate.

😛

My Aquarius brother has been with his Scorpio wife since high school.. They're 25 now and have a son together.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
My Aquarius brother has been with his Scorpio wife since high school.. They're 25 now and have a son together.

My Aqua ex-colleague knows her wife since kindergarten. He is 40 years old. They are married and have two childrens.

She is Scorpio too.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
... I took 21 persons ...
- Scorpio-Taurus-axis gets ... 3/3 of women.

- Often there's at least one common sign between the two, based on Sun, AC and Moon. ...
Thurman (Taur-Virg-Aq) ---- Hawke (Sc-Aq)
Roberts (Sc-Cc-Leo) ---- Moder (Aq) : no more info on Moder
Marceau (Sc-Virg-Cap) ---- Zulawski (Sc-Cap-Leo)

So far I'd make this summary:

1. Religion, tradition and kindergarten love help such relationships last long.

2. Overlapping placements between the two charts help too. Trines too.

3. The female part being Scorpio or Taurus might be part of the stability.
3.a) Cause they rely more on sex (andor money?) and
3.b) they could keep the power struggle under cover.

4. Nonetheless (or for points 1 to 3) such relationships might be equally distributed: 1/3 of all for each sun sign.