So I think my boyfriend is breaking up with me tomorrow.
By ladylibra21 — November 8, 2017 3:39am — 89 replies
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- and doesn't try to control you and how you act. lol
*sigh* it feels GOOD!!!
so i think, that OP needs to re-evaluate themselves and just CHILL...cause your man is never gonna change....
and if you keep complaining you both are going to be this way.
plus, Libra placements like some disharmony... Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by FknNerd
Dear God. butter is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy cookiemonster. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.
This made me giggle. Is that mean?click to expand
lol
my husband and my family members close to me always remind me, hey just because people dont get your crass/crude humour doesn't mean that others are gonna be offended...
so keep it on the down low. Basically PRETEND.
for the sake of yourself not getting hurt cause they gonna hurt you for just enjoying yourself.
i hate that. but i understand what they mean.
so we have to LOL among ourselves...it's hard finding a lover/partner in life who understands you deeply.Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by FknNerd
Dear God. butter is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy cookiemonster. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.click to expand
This made me giggle. Is that mean?Posted by FknNerd
Dear God. butter is really not this complicated woman. You're an icy cookiemonster. That's what he's trying to tell you. Fak, air signs can't even stand the stupidity of each other.
XD- He didn’t break up with you. So that means he still likes you and wants to be with you. No one said a relationship was easy. It takes work. Stay positive 🙂
Posted by aquarius_man
@ladylibra21 - you and him aren't compatible; let the man go; find a man better suited to your taste. just let the man be and go away
This...- hmm i just saw your other topic Gob linked....your boyfriend is Aqua sun/Libra moon.
he just sounds like he doesn't like conflict.
and in your other topic i'm reading, he doesn't want to allow you to go bother a woman who was crying in the hallway....
crying in the hallway....
are you in an apartment building? so the woman is there near your door?
or a hotel room?
i know that was the other topic but the thought came to me...
i think you two seem good together with that combo ...libra moon is always good for libra sun.
generally speaking. But i've seen on this site the libra moon like Nikki go for cancer sun.
and in celebrities, i've seen tons of cancer moons with libra suns. lol
anyway for your topic. i think personally you just need to chill...channel your sun sign libra and undertand his moon sign.
that you both like peace. lol Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by Gob_buttere
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
What makes you say that?
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
I woke up at 2:45 with what I can only describe as psychic emotional pain because I felt heartbroken coming out of my sleep.
Well this is a new one... what in thee hell is psychic emotional pain? lol
Well OP sounds like you were in the wrong. You were trying to be nosy in a situation that had nothing to do with you and was dumb enough not to accept your man's help in order to protect you. Sounds like he cares... sounds like you were being naive.
Fast forward a week. Your man was willing to overlook things and then you were trying to stir things up again after your foolish attempt of being nosy...excuse me hero.
Just proved another case as to why I wouldn't wish to be with a Libra.
Keep this up and he'll surely tire of your ways.
Very much agree with this. !click to expand
and this is coming from a very stubborn bull lol. But I know when I need to step back to allow a man to lead. Esp to a complete stranger.. that's what men are for lolPosted by bittercupcake
Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by Gob_buttere
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
What makes you say that?
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
I woke up at 2:45 with what I can only describe as psychic emotional pain because I felt heartbroken coming out of my sleep.
Well this is a new one... what in thee hell is psychic emotional pain? lol
Well OP sounds like you were in the wrong. You were trying to be nosy in a situation that had nothing to do with you and was dumb enough not to accept your man's help in order to protect you. Sounds like he cares... sounds like you were being naive.
Fast forward a week. Your man was willing to overlook things and then you were trying to stir things up again after your foolish attempt of being nosy...excuse me hero.
Just proved another case as to why I wouldn't wish to be with a Libra.
Keep this up and he'll surely tire of your ways.click to expand
Very much agree with this. !Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by Gob_buttere
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you come across as a control freak.
What makes you say that?
All you need to do is read between the lines...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/stupid-fight-or-significant--9371062/
Because I wanted to do something on my own that had nothing to do with my boyfriend and my boyfriend didn't want me to do it and put his foot down and said too bad I'm going to do it any way I am a control freak?click to expand
In a way, it is. You two are a couple. You guys were sleeping ( together) in the same bed, out of respect for both people, you should come into a conclusion together as a team. Not, going alone solo leaving him behind. He cares about you hence why he said it was silly of you to go check on your neighbour on your own. What i can see here is, you were more worried about strangers feelings more than his own feelings. He is a man. He also wants to be your hero in that situation. If you truly had respect for your boyfriend you would have allowed him to go with you. nothing would have changed.it would have worked out perfectly. however , if the roles were reversed, you were a man and he's a woman, what you did would have been ok.- Sort of like Anti-climax .
Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by justagirl
I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I now my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
That's the thing though we never say terrible things about each other. Maybe he is still in love with his crazy exclick to expand
Yes, but sometimes something said in an innocent manner can cut another. I just am pointing out if he specifically stated the increase in arguments in recent times, it's an issue. From my experience most men don't bring that stuff up. But who knows I'm not a dude lolPosted by justagirl
I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I now my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep.
That's the thing though we never say terrible things about each other. Maybe he is still in love with his crazy ex- I dunno man, for me I can't be intimate if I'm not in love. I might be attracted but going threw the motions when I know my hearts not invested, it's not going any where or when I would have doubts about the relationship. I'm not a man but I am an aqua and I've heard from other aquas they are similar in that regards.
If the connection isn't there emotionally And mentally it can cause issues.
He told you he wasn't sure about you guys right? If he mentioned the fighting, it's more often than you realize I am thinking, or what is being said during those fights is cutting deep. Posted by ItsMeRoman
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by nikkistar
You are going to be the reason why your relationship fails simply because you are so neurotic. You do come off controlling. You test the guy constantly and can't stop it. Then you get pissed at him because he wants to step outside with you at 3 am, to make sure you stay safe. Then, he asks to discuss things with you on a certain day, but you want to talk about it now, so you call him.
A relationship is a partnership, and all I see is you demanding him to submit to your wants, with no consideration to his.
Do they have you in a man version?
Yo @nikkistar do you have a brother or maybe a cousin...👹
Asking for a friendclick to expand
My NSA dad has them all in witness protection/
