Time goes by so slowly & 4 months = 4 days

Do you know that Madonna song "Hang Up"?

Well, I don't love Madonna like that, but I joke around with my ex Aqua as I show her my watch when I hear that song...but it's SO true!!

I feel like aquas have a differnt time machine or where created with a different time concept! Is not CST or EST or WST...and it is not that they are late I think...

I just read some other non-aqua people talking about it here, so I'm guessing this theory may be true! lol

To make sure I have a point, I'll share some few samples of what I mean.

Example A: My ex aqua and I had officially broken up for the first time (sad sad days) and then after 2 long months of non-communication, she reappears and we meet again (by her suggestion). Now, 2 months is a long time for me, I mean, I could have been in a new country with a new job by then, but as soon as we met, what is the first things she does? She looks a me like the last time we met, she calls me "honey" here and there unconciously, lol, and she wants to hold my hands...saying that she misses me, and acts like we would have broken up 2 days ago!

Example B: One of my best 'going out' buddies texts me and wants to hang out with some other guys on a Monday night. I don't hear from him until next Tuesday, when he texts again and he is like "So what time?"

Example C: My ex-aqua again, tell me she will call me right back...4 hours later, she dares to call me, lol, and she is like "hey, what are you doing?"

I think there is a pattern here...he.

Now, aquas, why is it that you lose track of time so much? Is it because you get SO busy that time flies for you and before you know the hour, months, and year is gone? Is it because you like making people wait? Or is it because you truly are biological born with a wack internal clock? 🙂 What is it?!

And others, any more stories?

VLL

i really don't think that they do it on purpose to be honest...it is just how they are...so us non aquas must accept and deal with it.

my aqua bf did the same thing that your aqua did as described in example A: we were broken up for about 2 months, and he randomly showed up at my new workplace just to say hello to me...and my reaction was. "what are you doing here?"...i mean, i was happy to see him but also angry and confused all at the same time. and he acted as if there was nothing wrong or weird about it. and for me, it just didn't make sense. i don't break up with someone and then 2 months later decide to go and say hello to them. but, that's just me. those aquas love to creep up on you when you least expect it

and the best part was, we did not get back together for another 2 months after that...so, it's like he decided to just show up and see me (maybe to see if his feelings would come back to surface) and then not make the effort to see me again for another 2 months...self torture, gotta love it 😉

oh...and on top of it, he was dating someone else at the time...it's a good thing that i knew about it the entire time...

yes, i was totally joking in this post. i'm late for social events at times, but what's strange about my aqua friends and x is that they really seem to not realize the length of time others feel...as if time would pass by much faster for them.

maybe it has to do with her independent spirit, little aloofness, and active life.

either way, i think is interesting, that's all. they are fun.

yes. we are on a different time clock. our own, whatever that might be. we never hold a grudge for long..or at least I don't. So we'll always come back ^_^ we like to be friendly tis all. we enjoy the friendliness very much. don't let the detached look fool you, however, don't overdo it either, we can't have too much consistency or it'll get boring!!^_^ and we love reminiscing on the good times..and hope that we can find some kind of bond with you even if it isn't at the intense love level. so yes, sometimes you'll see us trotting back. we just can't help but end up being friendly after long periods of time!!
who wants to be mean forever? o_O

sometimes, people just need to take a chill pill.

and for some reason, all I need is one friend and my mood can change 180 degrees.
friends are an essential part of life for me. people are so unique in so many ways. I'll find at least one thing positive in even the lowest of low and if not, I see it as an opportunity to help him or her.

I might be revealing too much about myself, but I think that everyone should be in heaven..laughing, playing, and just coexisting.

but maybe that's just me being aqua..?

Although we are rarely late.

virgofun, so caps need time? ha, that explains with my x-aqua needs hers too (her moom is in cap)...yes, aquas do need her time, goodness...but it is not like the always know that they are taking it...that's why is so interesting to me...

ladym,

hi! yes you guys aren't late...is not that...is just that for some reason you get distracted or busy with so many things that take your time...
actually i am the one who is usually late, she isn't as much, but she is unpredictable when it comes to timing in general, so i guess that is why i wondered if it was just her or an aqua trait...but it may be an aqua thing...so i can take another chill pill, like reiniba said 😉

reiniba,

"I think that everyone should be in heaven..laughing, playing, and just coexisting"

okay, this something great i really about my ex-aqua that i agree with very much...

i think, and this is just me, but i think we all have great qualities in the way we love...but when it comes to friendship love you guys make it happen as if it part of your nature.

while, in a selfish and yet just way, i've been concerned about the type of reliability i will have with her if i am in a commited/romantic relationship...i do have to accept that she truly tries to share her love with people and her friends.

so, putting my emotions and thoughts about us aside, i do like this quality in people.

i think, we aren't here to be only love to those we will date and then marry, but also to those who we meet in different times in our lives...such our families and friends.

i think neither extreme is good...living for your bf/gf and forgetting about the rest of the world...or living for the rest of the world and forgetting about your bf or gf...dating my xaqua was good because we both could encourage each other to balance things out. for me that meant making more efforts in my friendships and for her it meant spending more time with me...

when we get to heaven (since i believe there is one) i think we won't understand love in the way we do now. that's why i agree with reiniba, because i don't know that it will be needed to have children up there...we may all just be friends and learn to love each other equality maybe even more purely...i don't know...but i think the needs we have here may not be the same.

does why it makes sense to me that angels are viewed without a specific love status (single, divorce, married)...and why we don't know much about the life style of the disciples...

becuase although love/romantic relationships are crucial and an amazing gift here on earth...they may not be neccessary in other place or other dimensions of existence.

vll