Just go with the flow, why are you so serious

Hey all,

As you may remember, i broke up "officially" with my aqua girlfriend in mid october. The reason being she was too busy with work but deep down i get the feeling that she didn't want to commit. So as soon as broke up, i tried to cut all contact with her but it didn't work, she would either keep messaging me or emailing me to a point where i just gave in a decided to give friendship a go, which i admit, wasen't really what i wanted to do because i still liked her very much and it to be around her after we broke up. Shortly after i decided to give friendship a go, we hooked up again and again which brought a really complicated spin to things such as things going through my head like..."are we together or not?". I don't like the insecurity that comes with a casual friendship which includes sex, i know we still like eachother but we aren't offically together, so i guess i'm in that limbo stage, correct?

So after a few times where i told her to leave me alone from either hurting my feelings, or not being able to really cope with the limbo setup, i really learnt alot about myself and what i need in a relationship. Being a typical Taurus, i really need that security and emotional grounding, 2 things i ain't getting. But a part of me also just wants to go with the flow, i'm guessing it's my libra rising. I seem to always attract air signs, it's really strange and i have a weird attraction to them. Anyway this aquarius girl is really crazy, flirty and easy going, non emotional, is scared of emotional discussions, loves sex, is loyal to her friends and i really think her venus in capricorn has made her very cautious of entering relationships.

In a nutshell, i think she does like me alot but is scared of what would happen if she fell in love so she backs away and wants to be free.

But then i'm in a situation where i have nothing to work on or ground my emotions and i keep thinking to myself "this is what guys want so much, a casual chick who dosen't tie you down." So i dunno, i'm pretty torn. Today i told her on msn that if she meets another guy or starts seeing someone, that i'll disappear for good, she didn't like that one bit but i coulden't bare seeing her with another guy.

She also said to me, "don't let me hold you back from seeing someone or getting close to a another girl."

I know she definitely has strong feelings for me because she calls me and messages me everyday and loves hanging out with me. Do aquarius girls do this often?

lol it's true...

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who knows what's going through her head. I kinda wish she would meet another guy so i could definitely move on.

She must REALLY like you...besides its the secound time around thing, thats probably why.

Runaway.

haha...what exactly does tauro want?

Were sending mixed signals.

Im guilty or "normal people contact" after the fact.

The pressure is off now...so I say go with the flow and build the friendship, so she can gradually move in the relationship stage.

BUT the sex is clouding things...you dont seem to want to stop that though. 🙂

keep quiet Kris.

I think she is trying to make this "relationship" work...just in aqua style .

Decide what you want and figure it out from there.

"She also said to me, "don't let me hold you back from seeing someone or getting close to a another girl." "

Okay...I would only say this (I have said this) if I think im not capable of giving you the type of relationship you need.

I think you two need better communication..you seem to want her, but she doesnt seem to get it (that you want HER).

want some chocolate *gags* cake...Kris..

exactly...slow down...and if I remember correctly You are younger than her...

go with the flow...just have fun...why are you so serious...

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I love Bling...where is he btw.

aaah understandable.

Thanks everyone. Yeah i guess i will just bury that taurus soul of mine and loosen up, i've got nothing to lose really.

Jeez, what a bizarre year 2006 has been...

Jeez, what a bizarre year 2006 has been...

I totally agree. What a year it's been. Can't wait for 2007. 🙂