help? i'm so confused!!!

okay theres thi aqua guy that is my classmate. in the beginning of the semester he was cool towards me... but me being the aries that i am.. kept trying to talk to him.

sure enough, he warmed up towards me.. even initating our flirtatious encounters, ie: holding hands, cuddling etc etc. its gotten to the poitn that our profs. and other classmates notice and have even asked me what was going on... he's stayed late in school for me, even though he couldve been home by late morning.. and is even wearing a necklace of mine as good luck (i wear a bracelet of his).

as the semester ends... he's become more "cool" towards me. but cool i mean, he still talks to me.. but he no longer hugs me first or places hi hands around me... and it has put me off a bit.

i read somewhere that when an aqauarian starts to feel romantically attached to someone they try to detach themselves... do you think this is what is happening?

also, he has a long term, long distance girlfriend... can someone help please?

i am so sorry for my spelling mistakes.. i was trying to type and talk on the phone at the same time! :X

Stay friendly.

Dont become emotionally attached as of yet...besides he's got baggage.

thanks lady M

i;m trying not to be attached. i like him. but not enough to "date" him as of yet.

its just the sudden change in his demeanor is harsh to me. one week he's holding my hand, whispering to me that he wants to see me again... and the next.. he barely touches me!

Thats just how it is...dont confront him or pressure him. Act as if you haven't noticed, but keep it fun and airy...maybe you could start backing away too.

ohh... okay. i will. i mean i started to sorta back off too.. not going to him also.. and he came up to me and asked why i was ignoring him...

it feels strained between us. sorta. i wont confront him OR pressure him. i just wish i kneww what he's THINKING! *gaaah

He's just confused...the problem is he's thinking too much and fear sets in.

lady m, thank you so much...

I hate to sound so clueless, but this fear you spoke about.. I don't really get it... up until very recently, we've been 'ourselves' .. what could he possibly be scared of now?

also, a couple of times I tried to return his bracelet to him, and he's always been adement that I take it back, because he wants me to wear it as a reminder of him, BUT he doesn't wear my necklace often...

this whole detachment thing has thrown me for a loop! :*(

An Aqua has confused you?

Heaven Forbide !!!!!

lol

Well just read through the countless number of threads about aqua men, and you'll most likely becaom an expert as well.

become*

ladym...i don't think it is possible for us non aqua's to ever become experts!!!

Of Course Not 😉

hehehe thanks so much everyone... i have been trying to read up on my aqua man... 🙂

well the semester is ending & i think i might him one more time on tuesday... ill def play the whole "nothing is wrong" card...

🙂