Virgo woman + Aquarius ex; still depressed HELP!

Me and my Aqua ex have been over since September; it was partial LDR and only like 3 weeks physical relationship. But we've knkwn each other since HS; well during the LDR he kinda gave up on me,, he made me feel I was too emotionally demanding and I believe he created a problem so I'd leave him, anyways he's the first to have said he loved me, he acted like he's never loved someone like he did me! And then I guess things were getting too emotionally crazy for him and he couldn't take it.. But i always felt like we were soulmates or supposed to be together. Well I feel he totally abandoned me and now 8 mos later in still thinking of him everyday. I have asked for second chance he just says I said too many awful things to him and he said I was manipulative and he's not weak minded and would never be able to be close to me again. Anytime I try and text him just as friends he is very cold and detached. Why am I so stuck on him— Why can't I seem to get past this?? He is living in my childhood neighborhood and my therapist said maybe cuz he represents my childhood and dad issues... I just don't understand how someone that supposedly loves me madly, wants nothing to do with me. Does it hurt him to talk to me or something? Because I know aquas aren't comfortable w emotions and feelings esp others. Someone plz help me!!!

Me and my Aqua ex have been over since September; it was partial LDR and only like 3 weeks physical relationship. But we've knkwn each other since HS; well during the LDR he kinda gave up on me,, he made me feel I was too emotionally demanding and I believe he created a problem so I'd leave him, anyways he's the first to have said he loved me, he acted like he's never loved someone like he did me! And then I guess things were getting too emotionally crazy for him and he couldn't take it.. But i always felt like we were soulmates or supposed to be together. Well I feel he totally abandoned me and now 8 mos later in still thinking of him everyday. I have asked for second chance he just says I said too many awful things to him and he said I was manipulative and he's not weak minded and would never be able to be close to me again. Anytime I try and text him just as friends he is very cold and detached. Why am I so stuck on him— Why can't I seem to get past this?? He is living in my childhood neighborhood and my therapist said maybe cuz he represents my childhood and dad issues... I just don't understand how someone that supposedly loves me madly, wants nothing to do with me. Does it hurt him to talk to me or something? Because I know aquas aren't comfortable w emotions and feelings esp others. Someone plz help me!!!

It doesn't hurt for him....You're desperate and you give into your fear too much....Did he say he lved you in person or was it during LDR— because it doesn't count....You guys were bound to break up because LDR with Aquas don't work, we hate talking over the phone and texting, you probably became a hindrance to him in his every day life especially if you're being emotionally demanding over the phone....he was probably waiting to get you in person to give u some good loving then dump you because he had to withstand your issues.....Who knows why he doesn't love you anymore, maybe hes just an asshole either way hes trying to prevent further damage which I think is smart, why don't you go find a nice pisces man.

@ShadowAbsorber, thank you for relating to my story! It is good to know its not just me... I'm sorry about your Aqua man too. They is fools! Lol

No it was during the time we were physically together.

I just think it got too stressful for him maybe cuz the LDR; but I admit j was emotionally demanding. But he gave me so much I wanted more and more.. Maybe I sucked him dry...

Idk I don't really study astrology that deep; I want to though. I'm a newbie. My bd is 09/19/82... His is 1/24/82 don't know his birth time and not sure if mine either...:/

Oh and the_eleventh_sign_11; we we had a sexting , somewhat emotional relationship LD for a year before we met physically well not met for the fist time cuz I know him from my hometown, so I knew him for years. Then I mived back home and we had a 3 week relationship and I moved back again, then we were LDR serious with future plans to be together. So that's how it was in that order

oh I get it, you were sexting, you were giving him sexy messages and in return he gave you a false sense of security...

I've never sexted before but apparently its a powerful force amongst couples.

I'm looking up your compatabitity

Always use your own logic and intuition. This is the case for anything you read in the report, on the site, on other sites, and in books. These are guidelines and possibilities only, and are not meant to pass judgment on a relationship. Read more about these combinations on Cafe Astrology (Synastry/Relationship Astrology category), on other astrology sites, and in astrology books.

155 Conjunction Mercury - Mars

Positive aspect: They stimulate each other to be more creative and expressive. They learn a great deal from each other. They understand each other, like to discuss things with each other and undertake joint initiatives. Great intellectual understanding.

-153 Square Sun - Neptune

Challenging aspect: The Sun might end up feeling used or frustrated in this relationship. There may be deceptions, lies, or promises of a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination, or more likely, an inability to see one another clearly and projection of wonderful qualities onto the partner. It can be difficult for the Neptune person to live up to these and Neptune might begin to back off or feel overwhelmed. Keep expectations of each other and of the relationship realistic. Try not to add the pressure of living up to a fantasy onto this relationship.

142 Trine Mercury - Mercury

Positive aspect: Favorable for all types of communication. It is so easy to get the ideas flowing. Great mental energy between the two. They respect each other's minds.

126 Trine Sun - Venus

Positive aspect: It's not only about love, it's about "like". It would be a good idea to schedule plenty of leisure time together, especially when other problems arise in the relationship, if only to remind each other how much they truly enjoy each other's company, tastes, and interests. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company. There is much attraction, especially on the part of the Venus person. They are capable of charming each other. Sometimes, they gloss over problems and conflicts just in order to keep the peace, which is not a good idea in the long run.

90 Sextile Venus - Mars

Positive aspect: This is a union that is particularly based on physical understanding, passionate love. There is a lot of affection between them, and they need to express it physically. Plenty of attraction here.

85 Conjunction Mercury - Saturn

Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then th

spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.

72 Conjunction Mars - Uranus

Positive aspect: Favorable for union, linking originality to initiative and decision-making.

62 Conjunction Saturn - Pluto

Positive aspect: Favorable union.

57 Trine Mercury - Saturn

Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.

The eleventh sign 11; I'm back with a cancer, the father of my children. We have a long history together but the intimacy is gone since we have been together since HS on and off.. That's why I end up straying.. And did with the Aquarius..

And thank you for that; I'm not sure what some of the terms are such as trine or Mercury in your, or your Venus .. But overall I think I get it. Thanks for your help! I appreciate it much_??_

Once an aqua is done, we are done. It just takes us a while to get to that point. I know it's hard but take whatever lessons you can and grow from the experience.

Ya I am letting it be; I've stopped contacting him in just trying still emotionally to get over it

So, can you explain a bit what this means? Like it says attraction is good especially if it's venus? And Mercury and all these phrases I don't really understand who is who...? Sorry for the ignorance Im a newbie

Posted by Zetarose
The eleventh sign 11; I'm back with a cancer, the father of my children. We have a long history together but the intimacy is gone since we have been together since HS on and off.. That's why I end up straying.. And did with the Aquarius..

What does it mean when you say "marker"

My advice is to just try to get over it. I dated a Aqua as well and it was a nightmare he was aloof and detached and I was an emotional Virgo, the more we feel someone is pulling away the more we want to "fix" it believing that we have done something wrong. It's not that you are doing something wrong you are just being who you are which just doesn't match with Aquarians. However, with us after it was over I never spoke to him again and that helped. I think that just trying to move on is the best bet for you.

Thank you for your reply and advice. I see you probably had the same kinda experience w me Aqua as me; you being a virgo as well! It's just not a good match obviously! And Ya I have chosen to not do this to myself anymore; ie. The reaching out to him and me just initiating all the contact. All it does is push me back and I should be trying to move forward emotionally. So I'm not gonna do it anymore!! Thanks again:-)

Posted by beautifie
My advice is to just try to get over it. I dated a Aqua as well and it was a nightmare he was aloof and detached and I was an emotional Virgo, the more we feel someone is pulling away the more we want to "fix" it believing that we have done something wrong. It's not that you are doing something wrong you are just being who you are which just doesn't match with Aquarians. However, with us after it was over I never spoke to him again and that helped. I think that just trying to move on is the best bet for you.

Its time to move on, Virgos we hold on to ppl but 1 thing
We dnt do is show ppl who dnt deserve it see us break dwn.
Hold your head up and focus on you travel out your state, date and
Screw who ever you want, go shopping work out, buy a dog, then
Give it to some kid who wants a dog, volunteer. Just get up and get out
Its not your zodiac or his that will give you answers to WHY tjis and that
Everybody wants to feel wanted or needed or loved, but when thr
feeling isnt reciprocated we boggle our minds with , how could this happen to me
everybody stop its all about me that you develop a narcissistic mentality
he made his decision, its his choice, he found his happiness and
it has nothing to do with being a Aquarius male.
Just go find your happiness because he isnt it if you feel this way baby girl

From 1virgo 2 anotha..SMILE

_——?? thank you virgo1; I have decided to stop contacting him and let him be and let myself go on and get over him once and for all! Geez us in so sick of having feelings for someone who couldn't give a fuck about me... So I'm done fuck it fuck him and fuck his victim shit; he's always the victim and I was the chic who emotionally abused him blah blah., all cuz I wanna talk about things, work thing out, Ya talk about feelings! Oh no, no, no NOT EVER w Superior MR AQUARIUS!! Fuck that

Posted by virgo1
Its time to move on, Virgos we hold on to ppl but 1 thing
We dnt do is show ppl who dnt deserve it see us break dwn.
Hold your head up and focus on you travel out your state, date and
Screw who ever you want, go shopping work out, buy a dog, then
Give it to some kid who wants a dog, volunteer. Just get up and get out
Its not your zodiac or his that will give you answers to WHY tjis and that
Everybody wants to feel wanted or needed or loved, but when thr
feeling isnt reciprocated we boggle our minds with , how could this happen to me
everybody stop its all about me that you develop a narcissistic mentality
he made his decision, its his choice, he found his happiness and
it has nothing to do with being a Aquarius male.
Just go find your happiness because he isnt it if you feel this way baby girl

From 1virgo 2 anotha..SMILE