What pushes an Aquarius to cheat?

I am a scorpio female and I have been pursuing a Aquarius male for a few months now.
I have a close male friend who is also a scorpio and I'm aware hes had feelings for me for almost a year now and hasn't moved on. He recently told me not to trust my love interest for many reasons. The aquarius recently ended a relationship he had been in for 4 years, my friend says he had cheated on his girlfriend many times over the years. He reckons the fact his relationship was long-distance contributed to this. This has made me very suspicious and cautious of my relationship with the aquaurius. I feel like indirectly confronting him regarding his previous relationship but I'm unsure whether that is the best option.

Was it really the distance that contributed to the cheating? Or was it the fact there were cracks in his previous relationship? Or is my close friend exagerrating? This questions run through my head in a analytical manner.

Also, is it common for Aquarius to send a text like "Thinking about you..." out of the blue? And if so, is it more likely to be serious or part of mind games?

Hi aulait - cool name btw 😉

In regards to your question, "What pushes an Aquarius to cheat?"...I'd like to rephrase if you don't mind to, What pushes anyone to cheat?

Personally, I think nothing pushes anyone to do anything...it is by our own personal choice that we choose to do something. When we view it as something "pushed" me to do this or that we are taking the responsibility off of our self and blaming someone else for our own actions. When a person cheats, he cheats...there does not need to be reason why the cheater cheated..he/she just did and most likely will again for apparently this action is okay with this individual.


Was it really the distance that contributed to the cheating? ----> the distance? uh no, this would be classified as justifying his behaviour for his actions. I have known many people who are in long distance relationships who have not cheated. I also have known many who are in relationships that are not working - they didn't cheat on their partner instead, they removed themselves from the situation. This is about his CHARACTER - period.


"Circumstances do not make a man, they REVEAL him."

You have seen and now know the character of this person - does it match with your values? can you live with this type of behaviour? This is your call and please know, that it is not healthy to get into a relationship with a man thinking you will change him...NOT.

Up to you kid - if you know who you are, this will be a no brainer. Personally, I would listen to your Scorp friend - he sounds very wise.

Best wishes to you...I think you already do know your own answer though 😉

If this man is anything around and near your age. Im guessing he was dating his previous gf from when he was 15...relationships arent serious at this that age. Nor are they @ 19.


As for your scoprio friend: Im sure your asking should I really believe a guy who has feelings for my and would say anything to get with me and in my pants as oppose to the other guy??

Can we really base our relationship on his past relationship. We as women are told all the time not to take our baggage with us into the next relationship...now we pick up his baggage to bring along. Everyones innocent until proven guilty in this society....you can take that philosophy and start this thing and turn it into something and where it all unfolds.

Im sure you and the aqua arent even at the point of calling exclusivity, so ...GO WITH THE FLOW. (keep your legs closed.)

I think it depends on how much this guy really cared about his previous girlfriend. when you really care about someone you think of their feelins before you act in certain ways. i have been cheated on before and i still can't figure out why my ex husband did it. to this day he cheats on every girlfriend he has had since our divorce. he's even tried to cheat WITH ME! Idiot. It's up to you to take that chance.