When Aqua's know that someone is hurting......

If an Aqua knows that they have hurt someone that they care about, whether unintentionally or not, will they typically come around with an apology... or some kind of communication?

Yes.

"I am so weary to post again on Aqua board lest the vampires come after me...."

HLG... don't be weary... be tough... They try to get to me too, but I kill 'em with kindness.

Don't stop with your posts, and insight... we all support eachother!

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"But you can't always expect him to "know" intuitively...sometimes you have to spell it out."

....oh I'm quite sure his friends are gonna spell it out for him...loud and clear... as he sold them out too....

aquas do try to make amends when they realize they've hurt someone. it takes them a while to admit it to themselves first though.

aquas do apologize if they are in the wrong, but the apology may not come right away. they need time to think about what happened first, and then they may realize that they were wrong and apologize....if that is the case.

as a cancer, i am a BIG TIME crier...and unfortunately i cannot help it. i am very sensitive and i am also a very passionate person...so, i will cry through bad times and good times. i just cry a LOT!!! and my aqua used to hate it and feel really uncomfortable around it...but now, he is used to it and he has accepted that it is part of who i am and there is no changing it. so, even when i cry after a fight he will still apologize for being wrong on his end, even if i had started the fight and created unnecessary drama. he puts up with a lot of my emotional BS that's for sure, so i gotta love him for that!!!

hey tammy...how are you? good to see you here 🙂

hey moon! i'm doing well! how are you?

nice to see you too 🙂

"aquas do try to make amends when they realize they've hurt someone. it takes them a while to admit it to themselves first though."


Thanks Tamara.... This gives me hope....

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"one thing I know about them and have seen is that they are straight shooters"

-yes HLG, they definitely are straight shooters. they don't let the opinion of other sget to them, or sway their own opinon. they see things just as they are also. they don't tend to analyze or look into the meaning of something. they take things at face value.

but taking things at face value is not always a good thing. 😢

i say this because things aren't always what they seem. an open-minded person tends to question, to challenge, to be curious.

most of the aquas i know are quite open to solving such puzzles and understanding why things happen the way they do.

hey kitten 🙂

hrrmmm interesting topic - i hate emotions and all that too! ill always apologise but on my own terms not if i feel its forced or iam in the right. problem with aquas though is that we can be stubborn - for me that means iam always right... but i hurt when i know ive hurt people i care about and will do anything to make it better... 😛)

Hey Sadge whats your take on Aquas. I also being a Sagg hadnt had much trouble with my Aqua until the 7 month in to te relationship. We are differnt Saggs openly exprss feelings. Aqurs would rather show it.

"aquas do try to make amends when they realize they've hurt someone. it takes them a while to admit it to themselves first though."

This is true. When I'm wrong and I know I'm wrong I always try to correct the situation and mend my mistake. The Leo in my moon, however, makes me stubborn sometimes =P. But 9 times out of 10, if I know that I'm wrong, I willingly apologize especially if I've hurt somebody whom I love.

Spachtel couldn't have express it better, my 2 cents 🙂