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Posted by brandypAll of the Aquas I know are messy... Forever saying "I'll put this away just now".. And never do it
My aqua is not messy. I do know one aqua hoarder though who won't even throw away a newspaper
Posted by PlutoMars44
Every male Aqua I know is messy and will only clean when someone helps them or they have company coming over.
not my ex aqua. I think he was a 6th houser packed. because was OCD about cleaning.
I remember it so well.
he was like full of energy and wanted everything so spotless. he showered 2x a day sometimes.
he was a lot of cardinal in his chart. even square, so it was difficult for him I bet.
Posted by brandypoh my god, someone who is different and has experienced differently!!!
My aqua is not messy. I do know one aqua hoarder though who won't even throw away a newspaper
my ex was not a hoarder but the ex aqua I knew was too much anal-retentive cleaning.
my aqua has ocd he cleans after me. .. He is my mirror when I leave the house and makes sure not even 1 hair is out off place. .. I am the messy 1... But when I'm around he doesn't clean unless I go to work. When I come back the house is spotless. .. Oh and he enjoys cooking for me. .. The man I know and the man that people know totally different. He's respectful loving and funny. His workers are so scared of him it's not even funny. . They say his icd at work is even worse. .. It seems to be working because he never runs or out of contracts
Posted by brandypSo is mine and he's a neat freak too. 🙂Posted by lisabethur8Lol I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. He is Virgo rising so that is prob why.Posted by brandypoh my god, someone who is different and has experienced differently!!!
My aqua is not messy. I do know one aqua hoarder though who won't even throw away a newspaper
my ex was not a hoarder but the ex aqua I knew was too much anal-retentive cleaning.
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Posted by PlutoMars44Same with me.. ALLL of them are messy and it's annoying
Every male Aqua I know is messy and will only clean when someone helps them or they have company coming over.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI have YET to find a clean aqua... But maybe it's just my standard of cleaning that makes me say their messy.. but Jesus.. I hate dishes, dirty clothes, unmade beds.. & idc how late I'll be somewhere.. I HAVE to clean after myself... & With the Aquas I know.. They'll leave their space a MESS & clean it only if someone is on their back or when they feel like it & that is days later
my aqua has ocd he cleans after me. .. He is my mirror when I leave the house and makes sure not even 1 hair is out off place. .. I am the messy 1... But when I'm around he doesn't clean unless I go to work. When I come back the house is spotless. .. Oh and he enjoys cooking for me. .. The man I know and the man that people know totally different. He's respectful loving and funny. His workers are so scared of him it's not even funny. . They say his icd at work is even worse. .. It seems to be working because he never runs or out of contracts
Posted by brandypHe does. Taurus moon and Saturn are there too. I don't see a violent death with mine, but he didn't think he would live past 30.Posted by sultrykittyDoes your aqua have Aries in the 8th too? Be I read that 8th house is house of sex and death and having Aries there means a violent death. I am so worried about my man sometimes over this thing I read.Posted by brandypSo is mine and he's a neat freak too. 🙂Posted by lisabethur8Lol I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. He is Virgo rising so that is prob why.Posted by brandypoh my god, someone who is different and has experienced differently!!!
My aqua is not messy. I do know one aqua hoarder though who won't even throw away a newspaper
my ex was not a hoarder but the ex aqua I knew was too much anal-retentive cleaning.
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All the Aqua men I know are slobs. My younger bro is messy. My father was super messy as well and if it wasn't for my super clean mom, the house or their room would be a pig sty. Now that my younger bro is married, his wife cleans up after him. My Aqua cousin is also a slob to a point he doesn't even care about his appearance. What a shame because he's actually a good looking guy.
The Aqua women I've known are the opposite.
The Aqua women I've known are the opposite.
I guess mine is a selective neat freak. If it belongs ro him or an area he's responsible for, it's spotless. Like his shop, bathroom and bedroom. Extremely organized, and when he cleans it includes baseboards, walls, everything. It can take him 2 hours to clean his bathroom.
In areas that are my responsibility like living areas and kitchen, he's a slob. Dishes piled in the sink, empty milk cartons on the counter. He claims to pick up after himself and me, but it's not that common. I usually do it.
So I know he's capable. Before he lived with me, he vacuumed constantly and was extremely tidy.
In areas that are my responsibility like living areas and kitchen, he's a slob. Dishes piled in the sink, empty milk cartons on the counter. He claims to pick up after himself and me, but it's not that common. I usually do it.
So I know he's capable. Before he lived with me, he vacuumed constantly and was extremely tidy.
Posted by aquarius09I know one aqua female.. & that's my aunt.. she's pretty clean.. when I was a kid I use to go to her house alot because she didn't & still doesn't have children.. So I was like her "child".. & so I agree the women are opposite...
All the Aqua men I know are slobs. My younger bro is messy. My father was super messy as well and if it wasn't for my super clean mom, the house or their room would be a pig sty. Now that my younger bro is married, his wife cleans up after him. My Aqua cousin is also a slob to a point he doesn't even care about his appearance. What a shame because he's actually a good looking guy.
The Aqua women I've known are the opposite.
Posted by LeDominoesSee and you have experience with more than one.. So you know how messy they can be.. Ughh!!! its annoying.. Like they love to be so "detached".. So take that time to clean your space..
I had 3 aqua siblings. My oldest brother dresses up well but his home is absolutely revolting. He would complain about the areas with most traffic that they weren't clean but he would shower in a bathroom that hasn't been cleaned for over 3 months.
My younger brother and sister are very similar. But my younger brother has sense. Good kid. But his room reaks.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Why are Aquarius men so messy? Like omg they do not like to clean or have things in order UNLESS someone is on their back about it... WHY?
& Im speaking from the point where my dad, stepfather, bf, ex's, and uncles are AQUAS....
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My aqua is very neat and particular with his space. His Virgo moon might be the influence there, though.
Posted by lisabethur8LOL. Ex Gem was 6th houser packed as well and OCD about cleaning (and not only cleaning).Posted by PlutoMars44
Every male Aqua I know is messy and will only clean when someone helps them or they have company coming over.
not my ex aqua. I think he was a 6th houser packed. because was OCD about cleaning.
I remember it so well.
he was like full of energy and wanted everything so spotless. he showered 2x a day sometimes.
he was a lot of cardinal in his chart. even square, so it was difficult for him I bet.
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My Aqua is also neat and well organised and likes things to be tip top.
Perhaps it has more to do with his Cap rising...
Gem was Cap rising too...
Perhaps it has more to do with his Cap rising...
Gem was Cap rising too...
My Aqua good friend/ co-worker keeps his desk so messy and nasty. I put a strip of tape across the long marble desk that we share and I wrote on it in sharpie that said 'Do Not Cross". His mountain of papers don't slither over to my side as much.
Posted by PlutoMars44Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by PlutoMars44Same with me.. ALLL of them are messy and it's annoying
Every male Aqua I know is messy and will only clean when someone helps them or they have company coming over.
Two of them are hoarders who developed those traits from his mom who is a full blown hoarder. Regardless all of them are very anal about their hygiene but their living space is another story. I entered their place once and stuff is packed from wall to wall. I went home and started cleaning just from looking at it.
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Mine is the same way. Takes two showers a day! Yet he is 'too busy' to stay organised.
Posted by SnarHahaha.. Yes they'll keep their hygiene up but not their space and your LOL at you and your coworker.... I don't know how they can work in disorganization.. it drives me crazy...
My Aqua good friend/ co-worker keeps his desk so messy and nasty. I put a strip of tape across the long marble desk that we share and I wrote on it in sharpie that said 'Do Not Cross". His mountain of papers don't slither over to my side as much.
Posted by GoldigoldYea.. I see but how is it that their mind isn't telling them to organize their space? ??..
They work in their minds and less with their body.
Posted by cliqueyinteresting.
Aquarius is ruled by both Saturn and Uranus. When Saturn (having Cap moon, many Saturn aspects) is stronger in the chart, they are Saturnian Aquas that are similar to Virgo when it comes to order. But when Uranus prevails in the chart, they are more Uranian and thus naturally thrive in chaos. That's why Aquarians are more often than not at the extreme ends of the spectrum when it comes to order.
my husband is virgo dominant and he can be a OCD, but if he doesn't "see" it (which is very aquarian) and he has NO aqua, he won't mind.
so it has to get cleaned before he sees it. lol
for some reason my husband acts aquarius and he has no aquarius. so weird.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SnarHahaha.. Yes they'll keep their hygiene up but not their space and your LOL at you and your coworker.... I don't know how they can work in disorganization.. it drives me crazy...
My Aqua good friend/ co-worker keeps his desk so messy and nasty. I put a strip of tape across the long marble desk that we share and I wrote on it in sharpie that said 'Do Not Cross". His mountain of papers don't slither over to my side as much.click to expand
I had to take a picture. LMAO. Guess which side is the aqua side.
Posted by SnarHaha the side with the papersPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SnarHahaha.. Yes they'll keep their hygiene up but not their space and your LOL at you and your coworker.... I don't know how they can work in disorganization.. it drives me crazy...
My Aqua good friend/ co-worker keeps his desk so messy and nasty. I put a strip of tape across the long marble desk that we share and I wrote on it in sharpie that said 'Do Not Cross". His mountain of papers don't slither over to my side as much.
I had to take a picture. LMAO. Guess which side is the aqua side.
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Posted by aquanibWhere you going?!!!
The irony of me reading this while sort of cleaning the apartment before i go on vacation. LMAO.....
Posted by aquanibThe Palace of Knossos!!! I'm so jelly. It has gorgeous ancient art.Posted by GennieCrete...
Where you going?!!!
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Posted by DeeLovesRedThe first Aquarius guy I ever met had OCD. So don't know what you mean.
Why are Aquarius men so messy? Like omg they do not like to clean or have things in order UNLESS someone is on their back about it... WHY?
& Im speaking from the point where my dad, stepfather, bf, ex's, and uncles are AQUAS....
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I have Aquarius moon and 8th house too. I clean too.
It's my Taurus bits that contradicts the cleaning abilities like ok I'm so tired right now, I'll do it in a minute. Lol
Posted by lisabethur8Duh, in the morning and coming home from work/before bedtime. Isn't that what most ppl do?
he showered 2x a day sometimes.
Posted by brandypThank you, interesting!Posted by sultrykittyWas looking today for that link on Aries in the 8 th house and found it: http://astrofix.net/2010/01/22/aries-through-the-houses/Posted by brandypHe does. Taurus moon and Saturn are there too. I don't see a violent death with mine, but he didn't think he would live past 30.Posted by sultrykittyDoes your aqua have Aries in the 8th too? Be I read that 8th house is house of sex and death and having Aries there means a violent death. I am so worried about my man sometimes over this thing I read.Posted by brandypSo is mine and he's a neat freak too. 🙂Posted by lisabethur8Lol I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. He is Virgo rising so that is prob why.Posted by brandypoh my god, someone who is different and has experienced differently!!!
My aqua is not messy. I do know one aqua hoarder though who won't even throw away a newspaper
my ex was not a hoarder but the ex aqua I knew was too much anal-retentive cleaning.
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Some of those things don't describe my guy but some do. He's had a lot of injuries. One he was in a coma for 6 weeks due to a head injury, another he almost lost his foot riding a dirt bike through the woods. All this happened up into his mid 20's but past that point after so much risk taking, he became much more mellow.
I'm intrigued by dark subjects and things like surgical documentaries, he's very uncomfortable with them.
What is this shit.
We're as clean as... wait *rummages though the floor drobe* as this grime infested whistle.
We're as clean as... wait *rummages though the floor drobe* as this grime infested whistle.
I like feeding preconceived notions.
Anyway, my floordrobe does exist.
I work a lot in hospitality and I hate mess that involves things rotting, strange smells, and unshiny surfaces. My home's not super clean, not by a long shot but yeah things are organised and clean.
You know, oh here's a pile of tshirts, here's a pile of jeans. don't mess with my piles and you're good. and for the love of god keep your food shit in the kitchen.
Anyway, my floordrobe does exist.
I work a lot in hospitality and I hate mess that involves things rotting, strange smells, and unshiny surfaces. My home's not super clean, not by a long shot but yeah things are organised and clean.
You know, oh here's a pile of tshirts, here's a pile of jeans. don't mess with my piles and you're good. and for the love of god keep your food shit in the kitchen.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I think I get what you mean. I clean for a oouple hours, laundry, dishes, sweep floors then I sit, and once I sit, i'm there for a couple hours. lol work hard, rest hard.Posted by DeeLovesRedThe first Aquarius guy I ever met had OCD. So don't know what you mean.
Why are Aquarius men so messy? Like omg they do not like to clean or have things in order UNLESS someone is on their back about it... WHY?
& Im speaking from the point where my dad, stepfather, bf, ex's, and uncles are AQUAS....
Lol —
I have Aquarius moon and 8th house too. I clean too.
It's my Taurus bits that contradicts the cleaning abilities like ok I'm so tired right now, I'll do it in a minute. Lol
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by lisabethur8Duh, in the morning and coming home from work/before bedtime. Isn't that what most ppl do?
he showered 2x a day sometimes.
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lol well I can totally see that with men working in construction or outdoor handyman work, or gardeners, sweating and sweating.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428My Aries moon is in 6th house... So this causes me to be restless at time.. & cleaning is something I do often... More so b/c I like to stay busy... SOOOO to share a space with an Aqua who is messy.. Just makes me angry and causes me to lash out b/c I feel like I'm cleaning and their just messing up..Posted by DeeLovesRedThe first Aquarius guy I ever met had OCD. So don't know what you mean.
Why are Aquarius men so messy? Like omg they do not like to clean or have things in order UNLESS someone is on their back about it... WHY?
& Im speaking from the point where my dad, stepfather, bf, ex's, and uncles are AQUAS....
Lol —
I have Aquarius moon and 8th house too. I clean too.
It's my Taurus bits that contradicts the cleaning abilities like ok I'm so tired right now, I'll do it in a minute. Lolclick to expand
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