Why is it always everybody but you?!?!?!?!

So just curious. There is pages and pages and pages of threads about how to keep an aqua...how to not scare them away...
I don't understand why is it alwasy the person who loves the Aqua who has to make the sacrifice? How come we have to be patient? Why can't they hurry on? Lol

And if we dare disagree with the way they go about things we don't get them...maybe you guys don't get us...how about that Lol

I don't mean this in a bad way Im just curious...it always seems to be the other partner who has to comprimise more?!?!?!

Maybe but I rarley saw any of the Aquas I know actually comprimise the way the do things to accomadate anyone not in any real way.

"So just curious. There is pages and pages and pages of threads about how to keep an aqua...how to not scare them away...
I don't understand why is it alwasy the person who loves the Aqua who has to make the sacrifice? How come we have to be patient? Why can't they hurry on? Lol

And if we dare disagree with the way they go about things we don't get them...maybe you guys don't get us...how about that Lol

I don't mean this in a bad way Im just curious...it always seems to be the other partner who has to comprimise more?!?!?!"



funny thing is ... I noticed Scorps act in a similar way the Aquas do... except they're a bit more cynical then the Aquas (at least aquas are willing to admit when we are at fault).

yea de are but u have to find some way to convince them they are wrong first...dats teh hard thing...espeically emotionally....i jus dont understand everyone else has to keep their feelings to themselves in case the scare Aqua...but in fairness that can't b fair..just because they can't find a comfortable way to express emotion we all have to tip toe around them..oh don't scare the aqua....Don't get upset over something they've done...they won't want to hear it..so u have to keep it bottled up til u feel like screaming...More comprimise on their behalfs is definatly needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't really know about Scorps because Ive never really had an argument with one...

We don't ask you to compromise anything. It just seems that way. Just do your own thing and we'll come to. And what's the deal with all these "slow" Aquas that you guys keep running into? Every time I see a thread show up it's always "they is so slow lyke come on what eva... I dun hav tyme for dis ish." There are actually some of us out there who do things at light speed. Maybe it's just me but I just don't plain like wasting time at all.

Nah... trust me, It's easy to deal with an aqua. Just understand that we use our heads more then our hearts. The only problem is the traditional way people deal with people ordinarily is mostly emotional. Aquarius (us men preferably) deal with situations logically instead of "showing how it makes us feel". The job gets done quicker that way IMO.

However, when it comes to relationships, often rational doesn't take us aqua men very far, and so we find ourselves in un-familiar territory... because we're so used to responding to everything rationally. Which explains why seeking a relationship with us is such an enduring (and at times confusing) process, we literally have to teach our selves to get out of our heads and "feel".... via emotion *quivers*.

But I always believe once you understand something you learn to love it

well no my aqua is quick as lightening when he wants something....and he always gets it...i hate him lol

Look, if it doesnt come naturally and you feel your putting more effort than receiving. Discuss the issue. If there is still no turn around, then leave.


You can only be someone else for so long...

Ummmm interesting...I can't see any simularities between the scorps and aquas I no in fact they don't see eye to eye at all...they never tried do ya think since it's a competition thing...both wanting to b the alpha male of the group?

geminis well piss me off my three best friends are two gems and a sadge and fucks sake sometimes I cud murder the geminis...talk about selfish without even realising they are!!!

Oh about aquas thanks Phil found what u said quiet helpful actually altho Ive known alot of this before I find it hard to always filter wat I say to make it acceptable to Aqua when I don't think he filters when talking to me...My feelings get hurt...he cant understand...then i get mad cos he doesn't which he doesn't understand...and round and round we go Lol

Take it from an Aqua male.... ^^^ she's right

....unfortunately.....

I think Aqua (Male)+ Pisces (female) is a good balancing match provided both are willing to take the time to understand where the other is coming from and find a means to communicate efficiently. All hope is not lost...

The experience will atleast toughen the fishes skin and the aqua will learn to be more open with their emotions even if it doesnt work out.

Thanks so much Electro Aqua so many people on here don't bother explaining they just say no never work blah or say you have to basically do what the aqua says and mimic them for any lasting relationship. You have quiet honestly told me what problems Aquas face rather then tell me to change myself. I have seen alot of that first hand with my Aqua. I don't think he understands how I can be such an emotional person he is terrified/ bemused/ angry about the fact that I can actually think the things I do.


I really wish I hadn't ever fallen in love with an Aqua because to be honest because it has been very confusing for a long time for us both. It doesn't work but we can't leave it alone.

Aquas don't compromise ? WRONG I'm very adaptable and whenever I don't want to compromise I don't force anyone. I always discuss and if there's no agreement I'd probably do it alone or sthg. And btw DON'T compare me with a scorpio >😢 I know we have some common traits but we're very different and scorpios are evil.

"So just curious. There is pages and pages and pages of threads about how to keep an aqua...how to not scare them away...
I don't understand why is it alwasy the person who loves the Aqua who has to make the sacrifice? How come we have to be patient? Why can't they hurry on? Lol

And if we dare disagree with the way they go about things we don't get them...maybe you guys don't get us...how about that Lol

I don't mean this in a bad way Im just curious...it always seems to be the other partner who has to comprimise more?!?!?!"

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Aquarius' are stubborn about making any changes and emotionally are quite hidden behind walls. They resist. Their naievete (look ou the full meaning of that word, because it does not mean "stupid") makes them quite self-centered. Most people in this world want what they think they cannot have and so pursuing an Aquarius is appealing. All signs in their own way, represent good natures of some expression; Aquarius' is linked to the mind.

Yes the non-Aquarian partner must generally compromise more, but not because the Aquarian is such a magnificant prize or in any way more worthy or more valuable. But this is also true of a fixed sign such as Scorpio or Taurus.

But so much one-sided compromise comes to an end when you talk with the Aquarian and make it clear that while you are willing to go slowly and be friends first, you are not going to be emotionally neglected and starved.

I speak as a Virgo woman who is with an Aquarian man and who is the child of an Aquarian man.

My very independent, aloof Aquarius father made my mother wait a long time before he married her, then he was VERY Aquarian and cold to her in the marriage; I was the only person in our entire family upon whom he lavished open affection and heaps of attention. You would fall off your chair if I told you all the things he would do in a week with me 1-1. You'd have thought he was a Leo, heehee. But he so Aquarian cold-shouldered my mother that he almost lost her (and me). Once he realized what the loss meant, he "straightened up and flew right". LOL.

I do not pussyfoot around with my Aquarian. I talk straight, demand radical honesty and I do not hesitate to be clear about equal affection. He knows I view us as friends first so we work well together as boyfriend and girlfriend. I love him from head to toe and I feel secure in his love for me. He also knows I will walk away from him and break ties forever if I feel unequallly treated. I thi

That pisces sun coupled with a leo moon...this will NOT be easy.

This thread SCREAMS resentment all over it....which is never a good sign.

I agree; we never force anyone to do anything. We always leave it up to your decision for good reason....the only one to blame is yourself in the end 🙂.

Yea I won't even lie of course I'm resentful I gave my everythinG and felt I got nothing in return...what sain person wouldn't feel resentful about that?


Still cest la vie

That must be a first decan thing. My lil sis who is aqua is the same. She takes a long time to get out of bed. She takes an even longer time to get into the show...then a long shower...it goes on and on.




I on the other hand wake up with no problem, get dressed quickly, etc. Im pretty much a dude in this sense. Im always punctual unless due to extenuating circumstances I cant be.