U guys don't like aquas?

I rarely ever read any post about taurus and aquas. Are we to eccentric for you guys? I have some questions, ok?
I met this taurus man online. We hit it off and we talked alot because he was telling me about his last relationship that turned turmultuous. He told me he was looking for a serious relationship and doesn't want to play around, cool. Anyhoo we met we went to his sister's 34th birthday party. It was a different first date, but I didn't feel pressured or anything since his parents weren't there just his brothers and sisters and their dates.
Next day he calls and tells me that one of his sisters said that I seemed "nice" and he wanted to ask me out again to hang out with his older sister whom I did not meet the previous night. This time we go to a club and we dance and enjoy the music. he is holding me and touching me stating "I'm very affectionate do you mind?" no. So after that we go to a quiter place and talk some more about what life what we want and what we are willing to give in relationships and I'm thinking, YES! I have found the one!He says he likes a woman to come after him and be possessive of him. said he likes "Bossy" That night out of no where he layed the most luscious kiss on me! I never enjoyed a kiss so much!
Next day he calls again and says what are you doing tonite, lets watch a movie together. Why not? so he's there and the wine is poured and we start making out and I'll just say that I heard taurus men were great lovers, but that wasn't his case. Could it be he was tired? It has potential but I'm not sure I wanna keep taking that chance. Anyhoo, the next day he stayed until I went to work. At work he texted to say thanks for everything and he had fun.
I like the way taurus guy follows up, I'm not sure if its just not a subtle form of possession because one night he called while I was busy just watching a tv show and getting ready for bed. I told him I'd hit him back in 10. He sounded like Yea alright whatever. this is a man that stays up late (a self proclaimed nite person) he proclaimed in earlier conversations that he was neither a light nor heavy sleeper. Anyhoo, I called hi within 7-8 mintues and he would not pick up the phone. I know he was not sleep I called twice and left messages. The next day I got a text saying he felt "shuffled" by me last night so he went to sleep. My thing is that why did he want me to feel as bad as he did when he could have just expressed himself to me when he felt it.

Can aqua and tauro make it? He's already talking about what we will be naming our children. I get the feeling he is definately sizing me up. I want better sex definately, Is his ego strong enough to handle my honesty.

"U guys don't like aquas?"

Should we? 😛

sorry, some part of me wants to laugh this. you are in for the ride of your life, congrats you've met the taurus male, straight forward and to the point.... until 'blah' happens. everyone has potienal, so dont worri about the sex i've never heard anyone complain about a taurus in bed, we know what we're doing. Next on the aqua / taurus thing... eh i've dated a couple aqua boys, i think i was more confused then i was enjoying our moments. try having an arguement over sigman froid rather than making out when we finally got 'alone' time. As for the female half.... i've met a couple they were all pretty ok, but the last one i met was a horrible wreck of a woman (still recovering from a aries relationship). she dated a taurus and she found his possesive nature and wanting 'kids' a little to pushy.

those are some examples, but otherwise theres a reason you dont hear about this relationship very often.... because it doesnt happen for long, but hey feel free to give it a shot.

wow should I bail now? I like the family oriented nature of the taurus. Well I took down my profile from the dating site. I told him that I wouldn't be willing to date someone who has an active profile on a dating site. I went to the site to see if he's still there and I saw that he took his pics down and deleted his greeting and some personal info. So thats a step! I didn't mention it to him though. Well guys from the responses I've gotten it seems that you guys don't really care for aquas. I will keep you posted and let you know if we vary from the script.

very difficult match..i was dating an aqua and just recently decided it is not worth the confusion it brings,,maybe it is better for male taurus and aqua female!!!good luck

Yea it's probably better when its a aqua girl and taurus boy. I'm not saying its a bad idea, or that u shouldnt go for him, nor am i saying i hate aqua's. I'm actually very fond of the sign, but not personally for dating. Taurus men are always very relationship oriented, if he introduced u to the fam, ur in! I'm just letting u kno ahead of time, we're stubborn and bad with change. So since you're the sign that has a lot on ur mind, it might bother you. but regardless of all that go for him, hes already introducing you to the fam, so lifes good.

Not really my cup of tea.

Well lets see Iam a female aqua and he is a male taurus. I very much appreciate his relationship/family oriented style . We are both no spring chickens and ready for something real. To me right now he is so complex because I'm not sure if he's still interested or if he just sees "friend" potential in me. How do I know if he introduces everyone to his family or not? Ya know? I just don't wanna waste time. We talk everyday but I must say that this process is slower than what I'm used to. he's not expressing any feelings to me. So I don't know how to act. But I will be patient because he is currently in a child custody battle. I totally see him as a serious relationship guy. Its either all that or nothing!
Stay tuned...

and what I really want to know is what is the best break up style for taurus. It is still early. Should I just stop calling/taking calls or should I just tell him I don't think its working out. I think he's great, but something tells me that he's holding on to me while holding out for "bigger better" and I don't do "cold and luke warm" In the beginning stages I think you should spend as much time together as possible, but we don't. he says time is not an issue to see me but he makes no plans. Friday is his birthday and he's all talking about the week like like nothings up and I can't wait around for him to make last minute plans.
phoenixblaze, your right aquas are very adaptable to change...and I am ready if this taurus man does not show any passionn for me.

Aqueen, the slow and steady approach is an earth sign quality. I'm dealing with a Taurus. He expressed his feeling for me two and a half years into the friendship but I knew the moment we became friends he liked me. Now I'm having a hard time getting rid of him.

They're very slow people (from my experience).

I can understand that however I am no waitress. I cannot wait around for him to make up his mind about me. I'd rather be free to do what I want when I want and with whom I want. I have enough male friends. What I don't have is a man. When he doesn't have his son he's working and last night after he took his son home he said he was going out to play pool!? At this point I just think we should be spending time getting to know each other. Now I tried to put a bug in his ear and tell him that he needs to make time for me. I also told him that that was extrtremely uncomfortable for me to say because I beleive people make time time for what they want. With that being said. I've made plans for the weekend with my girlfriend. I'm used to men coming hither not chasing. Sat. is his b-day. After that I will certainly know what I want to do. So again whats the best way to break up with a taurus man?

"Now I'm having a hard time getting rid of him."

i don't think you people are very creative. here's what you do. you make a big t-bone steak. set it on a bed of lettuce on a plate, a bit of wild rice or couscous, 2 large plum tomatoes, with a quartered and diced cucumber. make sure he sees it. go over to a window. open the window. throw it out the window. it makes perfect sense!

"plum"
that is, cherry tomatoes.

"i don't think you people are very creative. here's what you do. you make a big t-bone steak. set it on a bed of lettuce on a plate, a bit of wild rice or couscous, 2 large plum tomatoes, with a quartered and diced cucumber. make sure he sees it. go over to a window. open the window. throw it out the window. it makes perfect sense!"


that is soooo funny!!! lol

lol@ip_freerly!

I know just telling him would be best. I will try to be somewhat patient now knowing that these men are slow. My brother is a taurus and he had a good woman but he thought she wasn't going anywhere and took his time while and played the field a little and dilly dallied and this virgo woman up and left his azz lonely broken hearted crying on the phone to me about him still wanting to be with her, the kids yada yada. This is my bro and I love him but I'm thinking "you had your chance and YOU blew it"!

lmao, so you got my joke too aquaen 😉 well at least he wasn't dealing with a sexy steamy scorpia! =X could you imagine the devastation

Skunk

To see a skunk in your dream, suggests that you may be driving people away or turning people off. Alternatively, it indicates that all is calm about a certain situation but you do not necessarily like it or agree with it.

WOW!
I just looked this up on a dream inpterpretation site because sat. nite me and taurus was sleeping and I had a dream of being sprayed by a skunk. I got up with my heart pounding wondering "what does this mean" I'm just gonna calm down and let the chips fall where the may.
ip_freely you got anymore of those hilarious scenarios? too too funny!

I think that the Taurus sigh loves touching they love it! they love to touch, love to feel, love to smell > especially their lovers Taurus is very attached if they are typical of their sign they are very attached to thier lover's body and Aquarius is different from this obvously cox they don't like to touch people.

Taurus is like that it needs that tangibility I'm like I have a very strong dense earthy vibration if I miss someone especially their body I can become extremely agitated Taurus is touchy like not Aquarius not if they are typical Aquarius does not like that touchy feely ness they might just give you a giant squeeze bend you over give you a nip and toss you in the swimming pool but that's it.

Yeah it goes back to the entire nativity.

Actually even with my own nativity I prefer the ladies with Masculine suns I think my threshold is not bad but I don't know how tolerent I am.

people, people, i don't mean to alarm you but i fear we are becoming drastically off topic. this thread is about aqueen and her insecurities. now if you wouldn't mind proceeding in that direction...

thanks ip!

you guys swear you know us. I absolutely LOVE touching and being touched. I like giving massages and just holding on to my man for no reason. My x hubby was a scorpio. My family used to be like "we know thats your girl, could you keepn your hands off her for a second?" gosh! tauro already told me he is very affectionate. Last time we were together he's got his hands in my pockets, just wants me to lay on top of him, mushing me in the face...I lOVE that! what are you guys talking about?

Taurus and Aqua can actually be quite compatible because both signs value stable relationships and loyalty.

BUT.... they go about it in different ways, especially in the beginning of the r'ship. Aquas tend to fall hard and quickly whereas Taurus is usually a lot slower to make up their minds. Aqua is an air sign, so they need to know where they stand in the r'ship (need for information/knowledge). Taurus with its earthy influence is more practical, so they take their time examining everything from every possible angle before making a decision (need for stability/security). If you can get past the awkward beginning, you can make a cute couple.

I agree with some of the other posts, Aqua girl and Taurus guy are probably more compatible than Aqua guy and Taurus girl. Even better if both have other influences in their charts to tone down or balance some of their stubborn personality tendencies. Good luck!

Well, guys I did it. I broke it off and with good reason shoot!
Wednesday he calls me as he's getting dressed says he's going to play pool thats when I told him he needed to make time for me. Thursday didn't hear from him at all. Today I texted " hey how are you" he's like hey whats up. Its friday afternoon and he is still not making any plans with me. I cannot accept this from a man that I'm trying to get to know. I'm not gonna wait around for the day of for him to make plans with me. It just shows that he's just not into me. I told him I thought he was a great guy but I'd rather be alone and lonely than feel unwanted. I told him no one is the blame. Just do not call me anymore. My feelings never lie to me I know when a guy is interested in me. He played super interested inthe beginning. Calling in the morning to say good morning. Hanging with me all weekend long. I don't wanna have to wonder if someone is gonna call. Life is short. Its better to do it now so that it doesn't hurt in the long run.
Thanks for the imput guys. Back to being Ms. Lonely. sigh

Hey remember this from my first post...
"I like the way taurus guy follows up, I'm not sure if its just not a subtle form of possession because one night he called while I was busy just watching a tv show and getting ready for bed. I told him I'd hit him back in 10. He sounded like Yea alright whatever. this is a man that stays up late (a self proclaimed nite person) he proclaimed in earlier conversations that he was neither a light nor heavy sleeper. Anyhoo, I called hi within 7-8 mintues and he would not pick up the phone. I know he was not sleep I called twice and left messages. The next day I got a text saying he felt "shuffled" by me last night so he went to sleep. My thing is that why did he want me to feel as bad as he did when he could have just expressed himself to me when he felt it."

Well after I got home I got a message saying "cool I won't be "shuffled" anymore."
There is that word again "shuffled" I almost was afraid to read his message because something told me he was gonna come back with something arrogant. I told him "I'm not sure what that means but don't think that way, I really wanted it to work out so its not COOL with me. If you felt that way then that means you were just going through the motions, I picked up on that vibe and now I know I did the right thing. This is why
a. That aries woman really tore his butt up. The story is too triffling for words, lets just say he's still going to court to this day. You know an aries will go to war! I know its hard for him to trust
b. The evening I told him I would call him back he started remembering that hurt from his ex, that distrust, thinking I could be remotely like her. He sat back and watched me get frustrated with him. Instead of expressing what he felt he went in to "revenge mode" So after that I'm sure he was telling himself "don't get too close to her"
Thats why the phone calls and the intimate conversations stopped, thats why no plans to spend time were being made. I can't be dealing with that. Mama knows when a man is truly interested! Don't try to keep it light and friendly when it didn't start out that way. Like I'm not supposed to know the difference. i don't need another platonic friend I need a man! I am so sorry for ranting, but I'm excited it hurts too now don't get me wrong, I know I sound tough, but it blows because I just KNEW we had some connection in the beginning. I'm gonna miss him.

AQueen,

Having read your last few posts I can really relate to what your talking about, My Taurus guy also has very similar traits! Its so annoying! But just like you I've had enough now with his 'indecisiveness'....I can't really say that he is not into me but at the same time certain things that he does do suggest otherwise, I wish I did have all the time in the world to figure him out, but you know what...I don't! and I think I just have to let it go now no matter how hard it is so that eventually one day when he wakes up in his bed he is gonna realize that he had a good thing! Aside from that I've run out of patience, as an Aries i think I deserve some credit having been seeing this guy for the past 9 Months!!!

Ferdy, those are really good questions! If you ever get an intelligent answer, let me know... 🙂

I agree with you on that theory Ferdy.
Passion8 I miss him and theres a part of me that wishes I'd kept my mouth closed. But it was either him or me.Hopefully one day he'll wake up but like Ferdy said he won't be contacting me. He'll just be replacing me. So I must get a replacement sooner!

That's like admitting they made a mistake.... guys NEVER do that! well, some do and they come back. usually when it's too late. yes, the male EGO. the source of many of their problems... 🙂

Sigmund Freud would have a field day on this message board.

Well I'm not really like the rest of you guys who have had long term relationships with these men. My fling was very fast, record breaking! He has no reason to miss me. He doesn't even know what to miss! Also I left no doors open. I told him not to call me. But if he has any inkling of a brain and likes me as much as he said than he'd realize if I took the time to explain myself and my feelings to him then I must like him alot. Telling him not to call was a bit harsh but thats just how I was feeling at the time now I can't go back. I know if anything he's probably glad he probably thinks I'm a mean byotch for breaking it off a day before his birthday. but I did wish him a good one. I am no longer attracted to drama filled relationships! and I mean it! When he's ready to "get real" I'll be here. I'm thinking about just sending him a happy fathers day text when the time comes just to show I'm over the issues, but I'm prepared to be ignored.

Yea i guess i oughta just let sleeping dogs lay and leave it alone. That is best. Thanks. No text on fathers day or any other day is necessary.

oh wow...the same thing happened to me...then when i showed him that I didn't appreciate him canceling twice (he was with his family but he could come here after coudlnt he? if you want something you make time for it) i haven't heard from him in more than a week. Keep in mind...we had a thing a year ago...then he made me mad I broke things off....after that long he asks me to be together again and commit...but even so...he does these little games...he was always calling and txting first 2 months...then sometimes i wouldn't hear from him 2-3 days. He gets mad that I get mad at him....lol i wish i would just meet someone else and forget him.