What the heck this behaviour mean from a man,an aries man.
Aries
What the heck this behaviour mean from a man,an aries man.The first bet would be that he is an idiot but lets see if there are other options.
On our discussions he said might be afraid i wont like him.We planned a date he said one hour before he has something business related and we cancelled,next days same,excuses...i blocked him and hurt his ego with some heavy Words!After 2 weeks started talking and he mentioned that i dont listen to him,i dont obey type of thing.And since then to make it short he plans then cancels it,when i say lets agree he doesnt have time etc.I am just looking at his behaviour which is terrible for 40 years old. Is almost incredible.He says i confuse him,i might be...now this is my first interaction with an aries and i dont understand nothing 🙂 help

The 1st time he cancelled an hour b4, you should have blocked him.
He tried you.
Tell him what you want. Exactly. Its up to him to step up to the plate. If he cant do the right thing by you, move on.
He tried you.
Tell him what you want. Exactly. Its up to him to step up to the plate. If he cant do the right thing by you, move on.
Exactly at 41 years old!
Posted by DMV
The 1st time he cancelled an hour b4, you should have blocked him.
He tried you.
Tell him what you want. Exactly. Its up to him to step up to the plate. If he cant do the right thing by you, move on.
I blocked him afterwards...probably thats when i should have done it! He brainwashed me a bit,i am a gemeni.What do u mean with he tried me? 🙂 thanks everybody for the answer!

Have you met him face to face before? Cause this sounds like textbook catfish behavior

Posted by AnastasiassPosted by DMV
The 1st time he cancelled an hour b4, you should have blocked him.
He tried you.
Tell him what you want. Exactly. Its up to him to step up to the plate. If he cant do the right thing by you, move on.
I blocked him afterwards...probably thats when i should have done it! He brainwashed me a bit,i am a gemeni.What do u mean with he tried me? 🙂 thanks everybody for the answer!click to expand
He tried you.
Means that he throws bad behavior at you to see how much you can take and when you'll blow your lid and how much he can get away with.
Think of him like a toddler. Toddler try your patience all day just to see what they can get away with.
Toddlers appreciate structure and authority.
As with Aries they respect power.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you met him face to face before? Cause this sounds like textbook catfish behavior
No,I haven't.Catfish behaviour?
But he is whom he claims he is,he has a good position socially so i could check on these details.
Posted by Phantum
"obey"
Obey...he did told me i dont obey...but what to obey when he is behaving like this!
Posted by DMVPosted by AnastasiassPosted by DMV
The 1st time he cancelled an hour b4, you should have blocked him.
He tried you.
Tell him what you want. Exactly. Its up to him to step up to the plate. If he cant do the right thing by you, move on.
I blocked him afterwards...probably thats when i should have done it! He brainwashed me a bit,i am a gemeni.What do u mean with he tried me? 🙂 thanks everybody for the answer!
He tried you.
Means that he throws bad behavior at you to see how much you can take and when you'll blow your lid and how much he can get away with.
Think of him like a toddler. Toddler try your patience all day just to see what they can get away with.
Toddlers appreciate structure and authority.
As with Aries they respect power.click to expand
Well I am a Gemini but I do have Venus in Aries so I guess I gave a bit of authority...🙂
Let me tell you guys the latest behaviour of the toddler:
I went on a holiday and on the 7th day of my departure...he textes me...have you returned from the holiday? 🙂 I responded after one day,yes i have returned. He then vanishes for 2 weeks.
I text him saying I want to meet him in the next 7 days,to see eachother face2face. He says that this week is moving house but we should definetely meet.he sends a picture with his apartament.two hours later i receive a notification that he sent a photo on whatsapp that he deleted before i managed to see it! 😂I didnt wrote anything for one week than i reminded him i prefer to meet in 7 days to see what he will say...he didnt put a seen on the message for 3 days....honestly now?
Posted by Sassysailorscout
Funny my Aries did this too on our second date tho. Saying he's sick or allergies or something.
Canceled an hour before. I called him and cussed him out.
"This is really disrespectful. I was excited and getting ready. Your acting like a child and it's not attractive. Blah blah. .. "
Kept it short. ( I still went to a restaurant though with a girlfriend)
He apologized. Later that day and asked if he could see me that weekend. I said no.
He keept trying ...
Hahahah the good old days ! Before I became a sucka
☺ yes,this is a good aproach!
Sun  Aries
 Moon  Virgo
 Mercury  Aries
 Venus  Taurus
 Mars  Leo
 Jupiter  Cancer
 Saturn  Leo
 Uranus  Scorpio
 Neptune  Sagittarius
 Pluto  Libra
 Lilith  Cancer
 N Node  Libra
This is his chart if helps in a way...decoding this.

Dont ask him to meet up anymore. He thinks you're desperate and longing for him.
Act like he doesnt exist.
Make him earn your attention.
Act like he doesnt exist.
Make him earn your attention.
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