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Aries man and his woman’s past
Ask him.
Posted by Ram416Ask him.
I said I have. You need to read a few more times. You know your Rams ass...nothing soaking in immediately. Lol
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Ask him.
I said I have. You need to read a few more times. You know your Rams ass...nothing soaking in immediately. Lol
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I mean ask him this.
"Just curious if that strong mind is strong or covering up vulnerability?"
Posted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Ask him.
I said I have. You need to read a few more times. You know your Rams ass...nothing soaking in immediately. Lol
I mean ask him this.
"Just curious if that strong mind is strong or covering up vulnerability?"
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I know he will say that past doesn’t matter.
But is this true? Are there men who honestly don’t want to know?
I think most are curious but kinda dont wanna know.
It's like imagine your guy doing what he does to you...to the other 10000 women he has had.
That's a lot of kitty to mouth action!!!...no thanks I rather not know
Aqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
Posted by alexscariesPersonally speaking if we are talking mainly about past relationships, I just find it vulgar. You've been together a while, but talking about past partners on say a first date is a turn off.
I honestly don't care how many partners a woman has had or the biggest dick she has had or the fattest. Who cares about that shit other than teenage boys? Curious probably.
If say he talked about the past and he licked his cum off a girl's face while a midget gave him a rimjob would you want to know? He's aries there will be some kinky stuff in there.
Also, he could possibly think he doesn't want you to be compared to other women from his past.
You just put me off my porridge, Sid
🤮
Posted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
That's not entirely true. They can be prone to jealousy just like any other person. It just takes longer for them to get to that point because they generally prefer to think about it first before reacting to emotions.
Posted by Ram416Posted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
That's not entirely true. They can be prone to jealousy just like any other person. It just takes longer for them to get to that point because they generally prefer to think about it first before reacting to emotions.
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Like my moon in Aqua astrologer friend says "Aqua moon doesn't known what the hell they feel"
😬
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
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That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
TBH and I'm happy to be told I'm wrong, but I do quite like that "trail of breadcrumbs" you get with Aqua anything.
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Been there done that...3 times
Lesson learned
Gimme a banquet 🎉 not breadcrumbs
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
TBH and I'm happy to be told I'm wrong, but I do quite like that "trail of breadcrumbs" you get with Aqua anything.
Been there done that...3 times
Lesson learned
Gimme a banquet 🎉 not breadcrumbs
... or all you can eat?
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Eat but not drink . . .
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
TBH and I'm happy to be told I'm wrong, but I do quite like that "trail of breadcrumbs" you get with Aqua anything.
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Would you elaborate on this for intellectually challenged please?😓🙄😂
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
TBH and I'm happy to be told I'm wrong, but I do quite like that "trail of breadcrumbs" you get with Aqua anything.
Been there done that...3 times
Lesson learned
Gimme a banquet 🎉 not breadcrumbs
... or all you can eat?
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Have mercy! Woman just lost her porridge...🙏🏻
Posted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
TBH and I'm happy to be told I'm wrong, but I do quite like that "trail of breadcrumbs" you get with Aqua anything.
Would you elaborate on this for intellectually challenged please?😓🙄😂
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Mixed feelings
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
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My worry is that is...
...what if my ambivalent bf who doesn’t know his arse from his elbow will find out about my decade affair at some point...would that be ‘dangerous’ to MY arse EVEN he said past doesn’t matter?
I know we all saying things but do we actually mean it when push comes to shove? 🤷♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
My worry is that is...
...what if my ambivalent bf who doesn’t know his arse from his elbow will find out about my decade affair at some point...would that be ‘dangerous’ to MY arse EVEN he said past doesn’t matter?
I know we all saying things but do we actually mean it when push comes to shove? 🤷♀️
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My ex Aqua moon was the most emotionally confused person I ever met.....still is, so it could go either way. Go with your gut....if he says he's not bothered, get it in writing lol
When Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
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We were incompatible in some ways, and I did say that to him that he was enough for a while, but eventually couldn't do that any more. He is a very emotionally confused man, sadly. Thankfully we are still good friends.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineAqua moon
Doesn’t get jealous
They do get ambivalent, which makes it harder for me to read them.
That is the perfect word to describe this moon
Don't know their arse from their elbow
Lol...
My worry is that is...
...what if my ambivalent bf who doesn’t know his arse from his elbow will find out about my decade affair at some point...would that be ‘dangerous’ to MY arse EVEN he said past doesn’t matter?
I know we all saying things but do we actually mean it when push comes to shove? 🤷♀️
My ex Aqua moon was the most emotionally confused person I ever met.....still is, so it could go either way. Go with your gut....if he says he's not bothered, get it in writing lol
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Well...I wasn’t thinking about that at all because I just took his words but last week when my new phone service provider were sending me inane texts about shit and my phone ‘pinged’ a few times...he just said something I’ve never heard before.
He asked if I need to leave and I said no why?
He said if you do - you don’t have to make up stories like you meeting your daughter for lunch to see your other boyfriend...
I simply just showed him list of my texts which were from him AND my daughter. Peacefully and quietly...
BECAUSE!
Now when his ex actually has one day per months visitation rights - she is texting about that meeting with their son. And when I’ve heard his phone ‘pinging’ on weekends I was...ambivalent!
I could ask but I didn’t. Then he told me himself and I was relieved by this knowledge.
So these 2 episodes awakened my arse AND my elbows and took me peaking outside of my comfort zone...just in case.
I’ve been telling myself I’ve relaxed too easy too soon. 🙄
Posted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
You didn’t! 👀
Did you?🤦♀️
How dare you? 🧟♀️(tell me how dare you...💃🕺)
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
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Was she supposed to lie?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
You didn’t! 👀
Did you?🤦♀️
How dare you? 🧟♀️(tell me how dare you...💃🕺)
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Because i care about him and respect him, so would not go behind his back and we were parting ways Gem.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
We were incompatible in some ways, and I did say that to him that he was enough for a while, but eventually couldn't do that any more. He is a very emotionally confused man, sadly. Thankfully we are still good friends.
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What does it mean? Like now I love you...now I don’t?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
Was she supposed to lie?
No of course not, but he could secretly be fishing for a compliment or to see where the relationship was going.
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He said she should had tried (?) another man...
And she said she did and he flipped out but now she didn’t...
You 2 brainiacs are destroying my brain crumbs!!!🧟♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
We were incompatible in some ways, and I did say that to him that he was enough for a while, but eventually couldn't do that any more. He is a very emotionally confused man, sadly. Thankfully we are still good friends.
What does it mean? Like now I love you...now I don’t?
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Maybe....my ex’s true love i felt has always been his work, thats when he’s the happiest and most animated.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
We were incompatible in some ways, and I did say that to him that he was enough for a while, but eventually couldn't do that any more. He is a very emotionally confused man, sadly. Thankfully we are still good friends.
What does it mean? Like now I love you...now I don’t?
Maybe....my ex’s true love i felt has always been his work, thats when he’s the happiest and most animated.
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So you said when it happened he flipped.
WHAT has happened? Another man? Or am I projecting...🙄
I was also told a months ago in the best possible serious manner he could say that...if I have a secret I better don’t tell him that because I am not leaving the room unless I told what IS that...
I’ve translated it in Gem language - keep your shit to yourself!
Is it wrong? What’s lost in translation?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
We were incompatible in some ways, and I did say that to him that he was enough for a while, but eventually couldn't do that any more. He is a very emotionally confused man, sadly. Thankfully we are still good friends.
What does it mean? Like now I love you...now I don’t?
Maybe....my ex’s true love i felt has always been his work, thats when he’s the happiest and most animated.
So you said when it happened he flipped.
WHAT has happened? Another man? Or am I projecting...🙄
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I met a man on line and talked to him and then we met.....just once...it was all out in the open..no deceit
It was many years ago Gem, water under the bridge..
Posted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
Was she supposed to lie?
No of course not, but he could secretly be fishing for a compliment or to see where the relationship was going.
He said she should had tried (?) another man...
And she said she did and he flipped out but now she didn’t...
You 2 brainiacs are destroying my brain crumbs!!!🧟♀️
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Haha at Braniacs
Richard Hammond would be proud ... @alexscaries...are you up for it?
Dxp celebs 🌟🌟
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
Was she supposed to lie?
No of course not, but he could secretly be fishing for a compliment or to see where the relationship was going.
He said she should had tried (?) another man...
And she said she did and he flipped out but now she didn’t...
You 2 brainiacs are destroying my brain crumbs!!!🧟♀️
Haha at Braniacs
Richard Hammond would be proud ... @alexscaries...are you up for it?
Dxp celebs 🌟🌟
Call the show Brain Crumbs?
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🤓Genius🤓
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineWhen Aqua moon and I were breaking up, and after years of him saying I needed to be with another man, because he didn't think he was enough, when it happened, he flipped out
I think people need to be careful what they express ... words hold power
Do you think he wanted reassurance and you to say "yes, you are man enough" ?
Was she supposed to lie?
No of course not, but he could secretly be fishing for a compliment or to see where the relationship was going.
He said she should had tried (?) another man...
And she said she did and he flipped out but now she didn’t...
You 2 brainiacs are destroying my brain crumbs!!!🧟♀️
Haha at Braniacs
Richard Hammond would be proud ... @alexscaries...are you up for it?
Dxp celebs 🌟🌟
Call the show Brain Crumbs?
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They will be licking the screens with name like THAT! 😂💃🕺
Ugh you act as though we are always ambivalent... sometimes you fall madly in love & there is nothing ambivalent about it at all!!! Ever!
And Aries.. when there is a bond it’s not so easy to break.
It’s been a year.. how has it been too fast?
More like he can probably feel your doubts and that makes one question things. When there is nothing to question, love is an amazing beautiful thing.
Your past is entwined with that of your husband. I think it's lame that he has no interest in hearing stories about your ex husband, which are also stories about yourself (how did you act and feel, what did you think). Without them, he will never get to know you well, or it may take 100 x longer.
I'm not talking about sex...sex is a minuscule part from a couple's activity. Any idiot can fuck...
Low emotional intelligence quotient, I would say.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesUgh you act as though we are always ambivalent... sometimes you fall madly in love & there is nothing ambivalent about it at all!!! Ever!
And Aries.. when there is a bond it’s not so easy to break.
It’s been a year.. how has it been too fast?
More like he can probably feel your doubts and that makes one question things. When there is nothing to question, love is an amazing beautiful thing.
I’ve missed this how? Thanks
After all yesterday shit that flew I’ve got this
You've been there for me. Now the case is over. Let's have a nice life together. Love you😘
So yes! Love is a beautiful thing even if someone is stupid. Let’s not point fingers...🥳
Posted by HearttofTopazzAqua moon will get jealous, but you’d never know because they play it off well. I find they can be very possessive, even more so than all of my Scorpio placements combined lol. Aqua moons always give you the freedom to be yourself in the relationship and I realllyyy love that about them. Because I’m weird af lol!
So I think it’s a mix between the two. The Aries trusts you, but then there’s probably the element of he is also protecting his feelings and doesn’t want his imagination to run wild with details from your past. I wouldn’t worry about inundating him with details of your past. If and when he wants to know, he can ask.
Spot on what I am feeling. I can NOT imagine if he ever heard the story about Scorpio...that’s what bothering me. Like I am hiding it but I am not.
Going into THAT would not go well with him. I just know it. However I am afraid if he will ever find out and will think I was hiding it because I still am feeling something. This is the only part that unclear between us. No biggie but could be. 🤔
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by alexscariesIf say he talked about the past and he licked his cum off a girl's face while a midget gave him a rimjob would you want to know? He's aries there will be some kinky stuff in there.
Wholly Shhi t, that's not kinky.
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Are you midgetfob?
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by GemitatiPosted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by alexscariesIf say he talked about the past and he licked his cum off a girl's face while a midget gave him a rimjob would you want to know? He's aries there will be some kinky stuff in there.
Wholly Shhi t, that's not kinky.
Are you midgetfob?
No. I love them, I'm only a fob when people confuse sex with sickness.
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You are fucked up!
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by GemitatiYou are fucked up!
Majorly.
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Want to get together for cream and cookie?
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownNo, I was by your house like 40 minutes ago, but I came back home already.
Ok. I’ll eat the candle you’ve missed.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by GemitatiPosted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownNo, I was by your house like 40 minutes ago, but I came back home already.
Ok. I’ll eat the candle you’ve missed.
Save it for next time.
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Eating? Or candle? 🤷♀️
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I’ve once asked why doesn’t he seems care about my past and never questioning me about.
He said past doesn’t matter. Future is.
So I thought fine. I didn’t really wanted to awaken this subject. I am also do not want to past jump up in my face at any point of life and him being like...why didn’t you tell me?
So when men claiming that past doesn’t matter and not of an interest of theirs does it mean they aren’t curious as a person?
Don’t want to hear things due to possible jealousy?
Honestly don’t give a shit because it’s no more?
Any other reasons?
He told me about his past just because at some point it came up in conversation. So he isn’t hiding his so I can hide mine...
Just curious if that strong mind is strong or covering up vulnerability?