An Aries trying to cope with pain.

Aries is supposed to be all firey and lively and similar to that, but what if when they were younger they lost someone who ment more than life to them. And they feel like the failed massively and its their fault that that person is dead. At the time the aries just put armor over the bloody flawed scar and tried to ignore the blood stains and pain. But now the aries has realized that they need to heal but they dont know where to start. They just end up crying every night. What do you recommend for the Aries?

Sun: Aries
Moon: Libra
Rising: Pisces

This sounds more like your rising Pisces. I have also a Pisces rising. Sometimes you feel like going through hell of feelings. And you can't let go easily. And you keep blaming yourself for things that have happened. And you keep crying.
I would also recommend to write it down. Every feeling that gets through your mind. Happy memories, bad memories, things you can't let go of, just everything.
It will take some time. But one day you'll start to heal.
Wish you strength!

Thank you. This means a lot. I dont like asking for help, i just tank through most of my problems but you cant protect yourelf from something that is a part of you. Even thought we were not biologicaly connected, she ment more than anything to me. To hear her voice or see her smile would turn a day around. I tried to protect her from the people who just plain picked on her and tormented her for no reason. All i hope now is that i helped make every day bearable. And after all this time i still remember her comming down the hallways saying the nickname she had for me crystal clear. So just thank you. 🙂

I agree, this is a part of you, a part of who you are, and it's all part of a higher plan, a higher purpose. What you have to remember is there is a time for sadness and a happiness and you need to balance it out. And don't be so hard on yourself, feeling like you've failed is an Aries trait, but you probably did your best at the time and with the information you had, it's very easy to look back and say you should have done something differently, but you have no idea what would have happened if you had.


Reminds me of an ex, Aries with Pieces too, the pieces means you are emotional and the Aries means you beat yourself up for mistakes. Just remember who you are and forgive yourself, love yourself, sometimes we had to do what we did in our past.

Actually my ex read a book which made her feel better, I can't remember it exactly, but it was about soul mates and how souls can be reborn in other people, and about how people chose their life knowing they will die. I didn't read it, but she told me about it and she said it explained things to her, I know it's not everyone cup of tea. But I have no doubt now, that just over a year ago, she gave birth to a baby girl, and I 100% believe that this baby is who she lost when she was young. it might sound crazy but this was always meant to happen. (I know it might sound weird)