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An ex gf of mine
She's an aries...what do you think 😉
Posted by bluemoon9043834
Oh and one more thing... since she got the space to clear it all up to herself, you won't be getting any baggage from her previous relationship(s), it's all new... so enjoy.
Sweet!!! thank you, that def puts a smile on my face. i've thinking about her a lot since i ran into her that day, its been quite awhile since i've actually been able to court someone who reciprocates. we're hanging out next wednesday, how often should i contact her til then if at all? (serious question) i don't wanna annoy her with calling too much.
yeah, i can do that. thanks, i had already told her i can't wait for the day but that was only initially. i sent a text as well, but never got a response. i get the idea that she prefers the voice over words. i dont know the exact time she was born though, i think 12 noon is suitable for that.
ok, this is hers:
Sun Aries 7.29 Ascendant Cancer 22.47
Moon Pisces 27.00 II Leo 12.36
Mercury Pisces 9.48 III Virgo 6.05
Venus Pisces 0.02 IV Libra 5.45
Mars Taurus 24.38 V Scorpio 12.08
Jupiter Aries 6.15 VI Sagittarius 19.54
Saturn Sagittarius 21.10 VII Capricorn 22.47
Uranus Sagittarius 26.43 VIII Aquarius 12.36
Neptune Capricorn 7.58 IX Pisces 6.05
Pluto Scorpio 9.25 R Midheaven Aries 5.45
Lilith Cancer 14.01 XI Taurus 12.08
Asc node Aries 11.34 XII Gemini 19.54
Sun in Midheaven
Moon in IX
Mercury in IX
Venus in VIII
Mars in XI
Jupiter in Midheaven
Saturn in VI
Uranus in VI
Neptune in VI
Pluto in IV
Lilith in XII
Asc node in Midheaven
And this is mine:
Sun Capricorn 8.41 Ascendant Aries 14.32
Moon Cancer 11.53 II Taurus 21.37
Mercury Capricorn 28.15 III Gemini 16.34
Venus Capricorn 22.26 IV Cancer 7.51
Mars Aquarius 16.00 V Leo 0.24
Jupiter Sagittarius 0.56 VI Leo 29.53
Saturn Scorpio 2.49 VII Libra 14.32
Uranus Sagittarius 6.52 VIII Scorpio 21.37
Neptune Sagittarius 27.13 IX Sagittarius 16.34
Pluto Libra 29.13 Midheaven Capricorn 7.51
Lilith Capricorn 21.27 XI Aquarius 0.24
Asc node Cancer 4.11 XII Aquarius 29.53
Sun in Midheaven
Moon in IV
Mercury in Midheaven
Venus in Midheaven
Mars in XI
Jupiter in VIII
Saturn in VII
Uranus in VIII
Neptune in IX
Pluto in VII
Lilith in Midheaven
Asc node in III
I was never sure what any of these meant other than Sun, Moon, Venus, and Ascendants.
ok, this is hers:
Sun Aries 7.29 Ascendant Cancer 22.47
Moon Pisces 27.00 II Leo 12.36
Mercury Pisces 9.48 III Virgo 6.05
Venus Pisces 0.02 IV Libra 5.45
Mars Taurus 24.38 V Scorpio 12.08
Jupiter Aries 6.15 VI Sagittarius 19.54
Saturn Sagittarius 21.10 VII Capricorn 22.47
Uranus Sagittarius 26.43 VIII Aquarius 12.36
Neptune Capricorn 7.58 IX Pisces 6.05
Pluto Scorpio 9.25 R Midheaven Aries 5.45
Lilith Cancer 14.01 XI Taurus 12.08
Asc node Aries 11.34 XII Gemini 19.54
Sun in Midheaven
Moon in IX
Mercury in IX
Venus in VIII
Mars in XI
Jupiter in Midheaven
Saturn in VI
Uranus in VI
Neptune in VI
Pluto in IV
Lilith in XII
Asc node in Midheaven
And this is mine:
Sun Capricorn 8.41 Ascendant Aries 14.32
Moon Cancer 11.53 II Taurus 21.37
Mercury Capricorn 28.15 III Gemini 16.34
Venus Capricorn 22.26 IV Cancer 7.51
Mars Aquarius 16.00 V Leo 0.24
Jupiter Sagittarius 0.56 VI Leo 29.53
Saturn Scorpio 2.49 VII Libra 14.32
Uranus Sagittarius 6.52 VIII Scorpio 21.37
Neptune Sagittarius 27.13 IX Sagittarius 16.34
Pluto Libra 29.13 Midheaven Capricorn 7.51
Lilith Capricorn 21.27 XI Aquarius 0.24
Asc node Cancer 4.11 XII Aquarius 29.53
Sun in Midheaven
Moon in IV
Mercury in Midheaven
Venus in Midheaven
Mars in XI
Jupiter in VIII
Saturn in VII
Uranus in VIII
Neptune in IX
Pluto in VII
Lilith in Midheaven
Asc node in III
I was never sure what any of these meant other than Sun, Moon, Venus, and Ascendants.
thank you, i really appreciate the advice and everything. i def will ask again if i run into anything i don't under stand or need advice on. 🙂 my other aries friend is a really good one too. she even let me borrow her credit card. lol
Posted by champranger
Yes, Capricorns make great friends!
But UsernameTaken, let me insert a piece thought here. The Capricorn's pace and Aries's impatience may become a problem at some point. You may need be super patient about her impatience or her need to ... know or do it right away.
oh yeah, I've def taken that into consideration. i figure as long as there is mutual respect to compromise and pick our battles, we should do fine. that's what I've done with another Aries female friend that i have. she's done plenty that would normally get under my skin if gone unchecked, but I've found just as long as i don't involve myself too much in her personal affairs, at least to the point where i'd have a hand in it, everything's pretty much kosher. we've had arguments, and i usually just give her her space after the dust settles. there haven't been that many arguments though, we get along nicely. as for the girl i'm going to see, we've dated before so i'm hoping it'll be a fresh start to a new relationship. i figure it's a 50/50 chance of a one nighter or a relationship, i haven't discussed this with her or anything cuz its way too soon. idk if Aries ladies typically do one nighters, but i'm definitely opting for the relationship.
listening is what i do 😉 no issue there haha. the fiery temper i kind of like. i'm not quite sure how to explain that. and it's that whole "mysteriousness" that gets me every single time. i love it.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by champranger
Capricorns are very patient by default. I've let loose with my firey temper with Cap men and they stay quiet and focused and they respond in a subtle way. They don't easily get riled or intimidated by it. They're fatherlike about it. 🙂
I've annoyed a Cap before. 😛 Accidently of course. But that Cap guy had the patience of a saint. xD Super patient with me. But keep in mind though, just because they stay quiet doesn't mean their impression of you won't change, and it certainly doesn't necessarily mean they're not angry or unhappy with you.
Very true. I have been on the receiving end of a couple of Cap men's tempers, too. And they have one heck of a temper... maybe that is why the Aries woman's temper doesn't rile or intimidate them that much?
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yeah, we do have some pretty bad tempers. it usually takes a lot to get to that point though, unless you know how to push our buttons, in which case we fly off the handle. we're real strategic in our fights as well. we'll know just what to say to get under your skin. my temper used to be real bad til i finally learned to control it. as mentioned above, i pick my battles. i usually only argue when i know i'm right, something i truly believe in, etc. etc. ppl always get surprised or even scared when i would flip in the past. it's prob cuz i'm usually such a nice diplomatic guy lol 😛
oh, no i got what you were saying. i know you didn't mean it in a domineering way. you meant to basically just keep my ear to the ground and make sure i pay attention to her emotional needs and actually listen to what she says and means. Although you Aries ladies can be quite cryptic sometimes. especially when it comes to getting information! whew, its like pulling teeth with my one friend lol! i'm def a man of my words. what i say i mean, there's no stupid little games or mind tricks here. usually when i'm being straight up with someone they think i'm bullshitting them, which is kind of amusing in a way, but more often than not annoys the shit outta me. its like ppl expect a lie when they hear truth or something.
i was just thinking, i'm probably just second guessing myself as usual, but what if there's an off chance that she just wants to be friends? obviously i'd be friends with her, but, i guess what i'm asking would she do anything different as far as setting this "date" if her intentions were just to be friends? you know what i mean? and then would it play out differently if she just wanted a FWB or relationship? even though she initiated things, it seems one sided. i know she's a busy girl with work, school and a daughter but wouldn't she call me to talk or something? or perhaps she's waiting til she sees me? idk, sorry, insecurities and all.
I have the same Sun, moon and merc as this girl. Yes Aries can be starightforward , but the moon and the merc in Pisces makes me evasive and secretive at times. YOu may or may not be able to get a straigh answer out of me depending on my mood, if you have hurt me or if I'm hurt period. I don't like fwb at all because I either get attached or the dude does and it just gets messy.
Posted by bkbella86
I have the same Sun, moon and merc as this girl. Yes Aries can be starightforward , but the moon and the merc in Pisces makes me evasive and secretive at times. YOu may or may not be able to get a straigh answer out of me depending on my mood, if you have hurt me or if I'm hurt period. I don't like fwb at all because I either get attached or the dude does and it just gets messy.
that makes sense. hopefully the same applies to her. i'm seeing her tomorrow nite, can't wait!!
Good Luck! and be romantic
ehhhhhhh..... idk what it is but i feel as though i'm getting stood up tomorrow. she hasn't called, no return calls, texts, voice mails, and i haven't even called or tried contacting her more than 4 times. i got a hold of her once, and it seemed as though she missed the fact i was calling just to say hey, and it seemed at least to me like she couldn't get me off the phone fast enough. ugh...idk what to do. taking myself off the playing field of dating comes to mind.
Posted by UsernameTaken
ehhhhhhh..... idk what it is but i feel as though i'm getting stood up tomorrow. she hasn't called, no return calls, texts, voice mails, and i haven't even called or tried contacting her more than 4 times. i got a hold of her once, and it seemed as though she missed the fact i was calling just to say hey, and it seemed at least to me like she couldn't get me off the phone fast enough. ugh...idk what to do. taking myself off the playing field of dating comes to mind.
im confused when is the date? tonight or 2morrow?
One thing you don't want to do is smother this girl. Don't call her too much or seem too available. Be consistant but not too eager, until your sure how she really feels about you.
im confused when is the date? tonight or 2morrow?
Wednesday night (tomorrow) at 9pm or so. i basically followed what bluemoon suggested above. I called her a total of 3 times in the span of a week, with a fourth earlier tonight asking if we were still on for Wednesday. i called her the first day but that was to give her my cell number as she had requested. a couple texts commenting on how warm its been lately and in the one of the voice mails i left i told her i was excited to see her and that i didn't want to wait. i'm pretty sure that isn't smothering. i would have liked to call her more, or set an earlier date, but i'm leaving that in her hands. i just can't wrap my head around the fact that if you make plans, her being the one who suggested it, why wouldn't you follow through? i do remember back in the day when we were together, she was real self conscious about things and would think i didn't want to call or talk to her, even when i was on the phone with her. there was also a lot of effed up shit going down back then, so i don't think that's a factor. i even got a hold of my other Aries female friend and even she's dumbfounded. this girl knows what type of category of guy i fall into, and she knows or at least has some idea of what type of person i am to date. i'm a nice guy, real respectful and diplomatic. I've always treated all of my past girlfriends like a queen, whether they deserved it or not. i just don't see any logical explanation as to why it feels the way it does.
i guess this is that stubbornness/patience that you guys mentioned above. :/
She hasn't had a chance to follow through. Speaking for myself I tend to go with the flow and leave things up in te air in terms of dates or plans, you have already set a date and it hasn't arrived yet so wait and see what happens.
Also since I have been hurt in the past I am super suspicious of men and there intentions. Even if a guy is interested in me, in the back of my mind I always think that he's trying to play with me head heart or both. That leads me to putting in little or no effort or just enough to keep the ball rolling but not enough to be in the game.
LMAO! Whowwww
Posted by bkbella86
Also since I have been hurt in the past I am super suspicious of men and there intentions. Even if a guy is interested in me, in the back of my mind I always think that he's trying to play with me head heart or both. That leads me to putting in little or no effort or just enough to keep the ball rolling but not enough to be in the game.
Me too, except vice versa. although i've never hurt this girl in an emotional manner or anything like that. but, others have. thanks for bringing that up, cuz i didn't take that part into consideration. i know i'm not trying to play her or anything like that, just got feelings of nervousness/excitement to see her. me getting stood up is just the worst case scenario that plays in my head. idk why it happens, prob just a defense mechanism left over from all the times i've been hurt. i second guess myself before shit even goes down although most of the time my gut feeling turns out to be right. i just hope its wrong this time.
Posted by bkbella86
She hasn't had a chance to follow through. Speaking for myself I tend to go with the flow and leave things up in te air in terms of dates or plans, you have already set a date and it hasn't arrived yet so wait and see what happens.
oooooh, i think i know what you mean. well, i'm not gonna not call her for a week and then expect a date with her, that just seems silly and rude. i've always had trouble in this area with the ladies up until the point that i actually get together with them. breaking the ice and getting together is such a BITCH lol
OP just be careful she doesn't take you for granted. You seem like a cool guy from the things you??re posting but since she has been in some fucked up relationships she probably doesn't appreciate your honestly, and the idea that you probably just might be into her. So take a step back for now and let her do some more of the work. Let her prove to you that she is really interested in you and going out on a date. When a Ram is in??_.busy or not we know how to make time even for a five minute call. We get just that excited. So until she proves to you she is just as excited just take a step back for a while and let her come to you. 🙂
Posted by Love366
OP just be careful she doesn't take you for granted. You seem like a cool guy from the things you??re posting but since she has been in some fucked up relationships she probably doesn't appreciate your honestly, and the idea that you probably just might be into her. So take a step back for now and let her do some more of the work. Let her prove to you that she is really interested in you and going out on a date. When a Ram is in??_.busy or not we know how to make time even for a five minute call. We get just that excited. So until she proves to you she is just as excited just take a step back for a while and let her come to you. 🙂
that is some damn good advice. i was thinking on that last night when i made those posts second guessing myself. i wasn't sure though, but it helps to hear that from another person. it just seems like she doesn't wanna take the time to call me, even though its been about a week since we saw each other. that seems like plenty of time to me, but she does have a daughter, job, n school. but at the same time, i'm holding a job and school and i have more free time than i know what to do with. okay, so how would you suggest i go about tonite then? should i just call and cancel? she prob won't pick up, as usual, or should i just let go of the reins and just let her call me and forget about the date? in the case of the latter, i'm gonna make her work so hard for a second chance, i feel its only right that she would make me wait a week only to find out i'm not seeing her.
I would remain neutral. Don't have too much expectation.
As far as who calls...blah! I would call an hour or two before the date and confirm. Don't ask her shit. Just confirm the date??_.sort of like I will be at so and so at this time and can't wait to see you. That's it??_end of conversation.
I mean I wouldn't go to the extreme of making her work sooo darn hard because we will lose interest. The relation should be a give and take??_.balance. I hope it works out. 😄
As far as who calls...blah! I would call an hour or two before the date and confirm. Don't ask her shit. Just confirm the date??_.sort of like I will be at so and so at this time and can't wait to see you. That's it??_end of conversation.
I mean I wouldn't go to the extreme of making her work sooo darn hard because we will lose interest. The relation should be a give and take??_.balance. I hope it works out. 😄
ok thank you, i'll def do that. yeah you're right about making her work really hard, it prob would just backfire. that was my irritation talking. i certainly hope that it works out as well. i know she's a great girl, just difficult is all. i kinda wish she was more like my other Aries friend, she's an awesome and loyal friend and supportive most of the time. i get along with her beautifully, but its just friends with me n her and i'm perfectly happy with that.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by ilyb
lol, you are not a cappy, you pretend to be one tho
Oh geez. Here we go again... lol!
Username is liked and well received by Aries women, he's practically surrounded by them. On the other hand, you are hated and reviled by Aries women and have yet to figure out why. Your Aries ex even hates you and "lies" about you as you asserted before. Yet, you still talk about her from time to time... let go of your Aries ex and move on. Move onto another zodiac sign. 🙂
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awwww thanks bluemoon! i appreciate that 🙂 I blocked that idiot, he posted the same "you are not a true Cap" in another post i had commented on. i'm not even gonna entertain a response to someone who can't come up with something witty to say in the first place. BORING! haha. In other news, Bluemoon, I followed your suggestions practically to the T and for the whole week i didn't get a response. NOT ONE. I'm really mad at her right now and I'm contemplating on giving her another chance if it ever comes up. I am rather sensitive at times but i don't feel as though I am now. A solid week and no call backs just to say hey or whatever? Fuuuuuuck that! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you did anything wrong, you gave solid advice which i really appreciated 🙂 What went wrong is obviously on her end. Like one of the other ppl above mentioned, even if someone is juggling a job a child and school, one would think that they would take the time to call someone if they liked them. GOD, I'm fuming over this. It's the principle more than anything else.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by UsernameTaken
She flaked for some reason (her flakiness may not have anything to do with you, so you may not be the reason for it), but the next thing to do would be totally back away from her, stop contacting her, and wait for her to come to you. Just stay busy with your life, friends, and whatnot... 🙂click to expand
yep, that's exactly what i intend to do 🙂 I ran it by my other Aries friend and she said the exact same thing. thanks for the advice on everything despite the turnout 🙂
Posted by UsernameTaken
yeah, we do have some pretty bad tempers. it usually takes a lot to get to that point though, unless you know how to push our buttons, in which case we fly off the handle. we're real strategic in our fights as well. we'll know just what to say to get under your skin. my temper used to be real bad til i finally learned to control it. as mentioned above, i pick my battles. i usually only argue when i know i'm right, something i truly believe in, etc. etc. ppl always get surprised or even scared when i would flip in the past. it's prob cuz i'm usually such a nice diplomatic guy lol 😛
Oh yes, the words from an angry Cap can really sting. How do you guys do it, haha? 😛
idk man, call it a gift and a curse lol. when people push me to the point that i'm fuming, i usually see red and just start with the first thing that pops into my head. usually its something that will bring down the person's emotional or mental capabilities/self esteem/self confidence. and they NEVER see it coming either, cuz us Caps are always so quiet. so i think its a combo effect of unrelenting anger and shock. you guys mentioned Aries tempers. Aries, to me at least, seem as though when they get mad, which is surprisingly quickly, they seem to blurt out whatever is pissing them off without thinking about what they are actually saying until after they're done saying it. its more often that they flip out than a Cap, and sometimes its over little things that one wouldn't expect an argument from. for example, my Aries female friend, she'll flip shit on her boyfriend over use of a toaster or something (true story) but as she's yelling, it seems as though she ad-libbing whatever's she's screaming about. she'll trip over her words or there will be a pause if she loses her train of thought. Aries' tempers would probably be a lot worse to deal with if you guys flipped out less. cuz to me, it seems like a bunch of little hiccups that keep happening, therefore making it easier for, say a Capricorn to adapt to the flippant behavior. its not so easy with Caps, since you never see it coming. This was all just opinion and observationally based, didn't mean to insult anyone if i did. i think that all makes sense. lemme know what you guys think. 🙂
Posted by champrangerPosted by ilyb
but this guy is probably an aries who pretends to be a cappy who has been hurt. we move on and dont care, we cut you off just like that like you never existed and dont give a fuck as wheen it comes to aries they will come after your ass if they get hurt.
Does it say ANYWHERE that UsernameTaken had cut ties with this girl before and they met up again? Unless they're really angry with the person, Caps wouldn't necessarily entirely remove all ties with them. It doesn't look like UsernameTaken has done that. He just moved on.
Another thing, UsernameTaken seems to take many things into consideration (i.e. "idk what it is but i feel as though i'm getting stood up tomorrow.") before anything happens. Caps does that, not Aries. We hardly considers the pros and cons before jumping in, and when jumped in, we push ALL THE WAY. No room for second thoughts until a catastrophe happens.
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That dude ilyb is still talking? i blocked that idiot and he's still stalking me through multiple posts to make a pointless point that i'm not really a Capricorn. SHUT UP AND GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU EMASCULATED LOSER!!!
Another thing, UsernameTaken seems to take many things into consideration (i.e. "idk what it is but i feel as though i'm getting stood up tomorrow.") before anything happens. Caps does that, not Aries. We hardly considers the pros and cons before jumping in, and when jumped in, we push ALL THE WAY. No room for second thoughts until a catastrophe happens.
Any who, i did move on. i'm not wasting time with a girl who doesn't give back equally to what she receives, i.e. calls, interest, emotions, etc. When i said i felt i was getting stood up, it was because of a gut feeling i had. they're usually surprisingly right. i should listen to them more often.
Posted by champrangerPosted by UsernameTaken
That dude ilyb is still talking? i blocked that idiot and he's still stalking me through multiple posts to make a pointless point that i'm not really a Capricorn. SHUT UP AND GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU EMASCULATED LOSER!!!
Of course you're not a cap. 😛 😛 Why would we ever think you're a cap? 😛 😛 😛
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(kidding of course 😉)
Cap never lies about being a cap. Aries never lies about being an Aries or pretend to be someone else (Why would we want to be someone else? 😛).click to expand
lol true that, there's a one on every message board.
I forget what malice means at the moment LMAO, (its a tad early, i just woke up 😆) but i'll def agree with you that it does derive from vindictiveness. when you hurt a Cap, we want to hurt you back ten times over. we're thinkers and we dwell on a lot of things, so, when something comes along which hurts our feelings, we think like, "Why'd they do that?, what did i do to deserve this?" and so on. if we feel we did not deserve it, or cannot wrap our heads around it, then the frustration begins. i like the aries temper. it comes up quickly and dies down as quickly as it rose up. then all is forgiven like nothing ever happened without a grudge. i love it. try being friends with a nagging virgo. (hand me a gun, please.) my only question is, why get so heated over something where it seems like the end of the world, if you're just gonna act like nothing happened five minutes later? i just don't understand the ability to get that angry that quickly and calm down twice as fast. it's def something about Aries that you gotta respect. i do. thats probably why i get along with my one Aries friend so well. i noticed i keep bringing her up, it seems like its generalizing but i am using her behaviors as a baseline for my observational theories, which most seem to be pretty accurate. any way, i dont remember where i was going with that but i respect the Aries temper. you have to if you're gonna get anywhere with them ;P lol its just that she's let so many things go that would normally rile up any other friends. Aries women are truly interesting creatures. and i still get surprised as to how loyal she is even tho at times it feels as though she isn't. it's very refreshing. Like, Caps aren't supposed to get along with fire signs at all, but for some reason i do. i read that somewhere, idk how accurate that is. but other earth signs annoy me. water signs are way too emotional and don't get me started on air signs. (nothing wrong with air, i just don't understand them.) Sag and Aries women are always beautiful, as well as Leo, but Leo gets on my nerves sometimes and the arguments make me wanna pull my hair out. i'm done ranting, i don't even know where i was going with that in the first place lol
Posted by champranger
I love Capricorns. I know a number of them and good friends with 2 of them. Drove one of them crazy and I think now he disappeared from my life. 😢 Strange though, it is the only earth sign I like. I don't know much about Taurus, and Virgo. I know people who are of those two signs and somehow we don't exactly click as friends. Water signs are okay for me, but I just to got to know what and how to say certain things. I just recently started in look into Air Signs, they're not easy to figure out but they are usually nice people to talk to.
i do as well, i try to remain diplomatic at all times and remain the neutral person. i'm not a fraid to pick a side, just afraid when those two sides are 2 friends. yeah, Aries are mean! i've heard some really mean shit come out of their mouths that i would never dream of saying. I do recognize the feeling that probably comes along with the words, so i think i can def relate to that. its like a burning desire to physically rip someones head off. its nasty stuff. Cappie's are great ppl to have around and so are Aries. i love Aries as well, they're very desirable ppl. i just wish i could connect with them better so i could date one, cuz i would LOVE to date one. that saying "opposites attract" rings in my head. Aries have some really really good qualities that i like but just with anyone, qualities that i don't like. but, you love someone for their differences not the similarities, right? I used to think, earth with earth, water with water, fire with fire, etc. and thats the only way it went. Water signs are great in their own way and all but i find that they're not very challenging unless you like over-emotional drama, the ones i have dated have been like that. other earth signs seem to be a little on the loony tune side. i had a fling with another capricorn the other night for the first time and it was kind of boring. well, the girl was an airhead which is a huge turn off plus she said a lot of weird shit that you def should not say even joking on the first night you spend with someone. i had a fling with a Libra one time and that went nowhere, plus the conversation was very lacking. i've had a few fire signs in my past, only Aries or Aries cusp when i actually made a mental note of it. All in all, i'm def a fan of Aries. 🙂
Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by UsernameTaken
Agreed. I've said before, i think Caps are like inside out Scorps in a lot of ways. We don't get mad, we get even... we sting.click to expand
we will tear your heart out if you fuck with ours. Very vindictive, we'll take a piece of you with us when you get cut out of our lives. (figuratively speaking of course) i know that sounds really mean and heartless but that's what happens to us Cappies the majority of the time, i'd say.
the quote thing got messed up. what i said is on the bottom there. THERE!
I really adore Caps. The ones I know are super funny and ambitious. I was watching Jeff Lewis's show the other day and I was cracking up and I said to myself he has to be a Cap and sure enough he is. He is so loyal to his team and so freaking hard working I really admire that. I would def date a Cap. I don't know why people say Cap are bornig because I havent met a boring one yet.
Posted by bluemoon9043834
@UsernameTaken:
We're ruled by Mars.... sometimes, I feel people draw our temper out of us as if they need us to stand up to them or something to stop doing bad behavior or something. That's frustrating.... because I would rather keep it under a self-control. Usually I redirect my anger through physical exercise (boxing and kickboxing mostly) and through other active means. I love the whole idea of tearing/ripping my own muscles (burning fat, too) and turning it into new muscle and tone.
Caps and Aries can have emotional conflicts because the signs square one another... but I think that communication is the key to making the friendships and relationships work for them.
As for Virgo anger, I cannot agree more with you. I got a new phone and new number to finally get rid of a Virgo once and for all.
i'm with ya on that, exercise is a great way to burn off stress. i kinda think of it the same way, ripping and burning muscle. the shooting range is excellent too, thats my number one right there. i agree, communication is key with anyone but i think with a pairing like this it should be the most important thing in the relationship. i've noticed Aries doesn't communicate with things that might seem important to others but not themselves. mainly little things tho, nothing too crucial. but, little things can add up to a bigger issue as well. yeah, my mom's a virgo, imagine how i feel lol. my dad's a taurus/aries cusp, too. maybe thats why i can't stand other earth signs. virgo's ARE total diva's. fact.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by cheekyfaerie
Agreed. I've said before, i think Caps are like inside out Scorps in a lot of ways. We don't get mad, we get even... we sting.
Caps can clam up and be real quiet, keeping it all inside their heads, too. 🙂click to expand
thats true too, but at least we're not as demanding as most Scorps 😉
Posted by bkbella86
I really adore Caps. The ones I know are super funny and ambitious. I was watching Jeff Lewis's show the other day and I was cracking up and I said to myself he has to be a Cap and sure enough he is. He is so loyal to his team and so freaking hard working I really admire that. I would def date a Cap. I don't know why people say Cap are bornig because I havent met a boring one yet.
i love making people laugh. i'm more funny when i'm not trying to be or when i'm serious. Cap's make excellent boyfriends. the only way i see us as boring is that we like routine. which i personally like to break away from. thats just me though. I like you guys, excellent input on this post!
oh, only about 5,328 different profiles. DOESN'T EVERYBODY!? JEEZ, GET WITH THE PROGRAM.
i love this thread. i'm a leo girl.
it encompasses all the good feelings that are felt towards aries and caps, and they both also happen to be my favourite signs! having dated an aries man and capricorn man before (1 yr and 3.5years respectively) there are so many things that i can completely agree with 🙂 such as the quiet, introspective, more skeptic mindset of the capricorn with a hidden rage switch that doesn't flip on as often as an aries. they bring out the good in each other, a cap provides the structure and groundedness to an aries and an aries can provide a fun ride for the capricorn ! 🙂
All i've ever heard about aries women is to let them do the chasing - if they like you, they REALLY REALLY REALY DO, and would do all the work because it's so exciting for them! and i can sense the frustration you must be feeling and the helplessness of the situation where an aries can really just leave you hanging, but you of all people are so strong that i'm sure you can busy yourself with more things in your life that are worth having. you could even throw the ball into her court, be blunt and say what you want, and take what she says to be the final yes and no. it'll help you proceed accordingly and would eradicate all the mental frustration you're going through because at least you'd have a direction 😄
ALL THE BEST!
it encompasses all the good feelings that are felt towards aries and caps, and they both also happen to be my favourite signs! having dated an aries man and capricorn man before (1 yr and 3.5years respectively) there are so many things that i can completely agree with 🙂 such as the quiet, introspective, more skeptic mindset of the capricorn with a hidden rage switch that doesn't flip on as often as an aries. they bring out the good in each other, a cap provides the structure and groundedness to an aries and an aries can provide a fun ride for the capricorn ! 🙂
All i've ever heard about aries women is to let them do the chasing - if they like you, they REALLY REALLY REALY DO, and would do all the work because it's so exciting for them! and i can sense the frustration you must be feeling and the helplessness of the situation where an aries can really just leave you hanging, but you of all people are so strong that i'm sure you can busy yourself with more things in your life that are worth having. you could even throw the ball into her court, be blunt and say what you want, and take what she says to be the final yes and no. it'll help you proceed accordingly and would eradicate all the mental frustration you're going through because at least you'd have a direction 😄
ALL THE BEST!
Posted by aliasidealist
i love this thread. i'm a leo girl.
it encompasses all the good feelings that are felt towards aries and caps, and they both also happen to be my favourite signs! having dated an aries man and capricorn man before (1 yr and 3.5years respectively) there are so many things that i can completely agree with 🙂 such as the quiet, introspective, more skeptic mindset of the capricorn with a hidden rage switch that doesn't flip on as often as an aries. they bring out the good in each other, a cap provides the structure and groundedness to an aries and an aries can provide a fun ride for the capricorn ! 🙂
All i've ever heard about aries women is to let them do the chasing - if they like you, they REALLY REALLY REALY DO, and would do all the work because it's so exciting for them! and i can sense the frustration you must be feeling and the helplessness of the situation where an aries can really just leave you hanging, but you of all people are so strong that i'm sure you can busy yourself with more things in your life that are worth having. you could even throw the ball into her court, be blunt and say what you want, and take what she says to be the final yes and no. it'll help you proceed accordingly and would eradicate all the mental frustration you're going through because at least you'd have a direction 😄
ALL THE BEST!
i like your use of the words, hidden rage switch, lol! i agree with what you wrote here. i've read that Caps like to do the chasing but that doesn't really apply to me. i like being chased, personally. thanks for the advice, much appreciated 🙂 i was upset for a max of 2 days, before i said fuck it, its her loss, not mine. i've got the capabilities of making her or some other lucky girl very happy. if she doesn't want it, there's certainly someone who does and is deserving of my love.
UPDATE: So, I was leaving my psychology class at school, last class of the day. I'm the first one out the door, and as I'm coming up the hallway I see someone who I swear is the girl this entire thread was about. As she had turned the corner I guess she saw me because it looked from my POV that she quickly tried to spin around and go in the opposite direction. Which was pretty fucking shady if you ask me. So anyway, I'm already walk generally in that same direction except I go down a different hallway. I turn the corner and I see the girl from behind, who is instantly recognizable. It was her. So I paid her no attention and actually tried to quicken my pace a bit, because I knew the hallway she took loops back around and would put us face to face, which I really wasn't trying to have. So I'm almost through the stairwell door and she rounds the corner. Eyes lock, she says hey, so do I and I continue on my way. she seemed to slow her pace a bit as if to stop and talk but at this point I don't think I'd give her the time of day because she flaked. This was also the first time I had seen her since that one day, as well as no contact between phones or anything like that up to this point.
well, shady or awkward. I think that was coincidental that we ran into each other. thanks again haha, although i don't think it's like that or at least doesn't seem like it.
Posted by UsernameTaken
well, shady or awkward. I think that was coincidental that we ran into each other. thanks again haha, although i don't think it's like that or at least doesn't seem like it.
how do you think it'll progress from now? and what are you going to do, or rather, not do?
i'm not calling her that's for sure. if anything, the ball's in her court and she'll have to show me that she's serious enough about dating me before i'd decide whether to give her another shot. i have a feeling that she probably won't try anything or call me, as she hasn't at all since i saw her the first time. i don't think i'd have anything nice to say to her at the moment right now anyway so i'm prob better off just keeping my mouth shut. i talked it over with my other Aries friend and she said to give her a snowball's chance in hell.
i'm not calling her that's for sure. if anything, the ball's in her court and she'll have to show me that she's serious enough about dating me before i'd decide whether to give her another shot. i have a feeling that she probably won't try anything or call me, as she hasn't at all since i saw her the first time. i don't think i'd have anything nice to say to her at the moment right now anyway so i'm prob better off just keeping my mouth shut. i talked it over with my other Aries friend and she said to give her a snowball's chance in hell.
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