Aquarius lists

Hi everyone.


I'm wondering around about something.

I,ve talked to my Aquarius ex today. We broke up may 2004 because i couldn't stand her chaotic and attention- seeking behavior. Now we hadn't had much contact since this morning when her father and she picked up they're trailer because they are going on holiday next week.

So my ex and i talked about old times. She live's on her own( student chamber) and she asked me to come visit her to bring up old times. I said i would and i would love to bring up old things too. She didn't hate me anymore from breaking up and i had no hard feeling against her too.

So this is the dillema : i'm thinking that she is inviting me to her chamber because she want's to get laid with me again. She was the first one to me and i also was the first one for her. I actually don't mind firing her with my fire.

What would you do in this position ?

- go visit her and take the upcoming consequences later.
- totally let her go and don't visit her..

If she wants you . . . go for it.

I'd leave her alone. When I'm done.. it's done.. there's reasons it ended so I leave it alone. There are so many outcomes from this that could happen.. are you sure you would want her potentially back in your life.. maybe it might affect YOU in som eway you wouldn't expect it to. I would just really think about it first.. Weigh out the different outcomes.. see what you can deal with and what you can't. But this could really be innocent and she just wants to reconnect.

hey there.

i don't know all the details of your situation...but...it sounds to me as if she is wanting to reminisce about old times for a reason.

i know it's really hard to let go. i have been through horrible, gut-wrenching break-ups myself. sometimes the worst thing you can do is re-live the past. if you want to continue on with her, then go. if not, then be careful. it sounds as if she may use remembering the good times as a ploy to get you back.

just my perspective.

always be aware of emotional manipulation!

- go visit her and take the upcoming consequences later.

you're a guy, and not as emotional as girls get. take it for what it is - just another shag. if you dont get her pregnant, you wont have any bad consequences.

"if you dont get her pregnant, you wont have any bad consequences."

LMAO

Let her go. You deserve more than that unless that is all you are looking for.