Aries and Openess

First of all let me give my greetings to all my dxp friends who I haven't had a chance to chat with in a while...FA85,A.A,GemFox and everyone else that I had the pleasure of meeting on this board. Now on with the topic...

Does any other Aries have major issues keeping things in, I mean do we all have the habit of being so upfront and honest with how we feel. Sometimes it really is a major pain. Recently I've been doing a lot of soul searching and while others might find it difficult to face the harsh truth, I was wondering if it is so easy for any other Aries. The truth shall set you free is an understatement where I'm concerned. I've been facing some really deep dark truths about myself lately and it is really driving me nuts. It's like something is in me, compelling me to vent all of these toxic, false beliefs about myself and others and I can't stop. I wanted to get to know myself but even this is a bit much to bare. So fellow Fire Dancers, would anyone like to share their thoughts? Looking forward to the replies

Moon
Fire Goddess

I'm not quite exactly sure what you are talking about... are speaking of being too blatantly honest. Or are you speaking of... lol well to be perfectly honest, I don't know what you're getting at.

Do explain.

I do have this issue...and I mean it as an "issue", not something good. It can get me in trouble and I believe it's also why people have trouble getting me. I really try and filter it for the most part, but it can be difficult. I think this is a part of the Aries nature.
It would be nice to get together and just have a vent session! I need more Aries friends, I think.

its like we have 'word vomit' (terminology from Mean Girls lol) us aries are too honest. it is inbuilt and we are rubbish at being fake or putting up a mask. we just blurt out everything we are thinking because it feels natural. then afterwards you kinda wish you hadnt revealed so much of yourself to someone

Posted by cleopatra
its like we have 'word vomit' (terminology from Mean Girls lol) us aries are too honest. it is inbuilt and we are rubbish at being fake or putting up a mask. we just blurt out everything we are thinking because it feels natural. then afterwards you kinda wish you hadnt revealed so much of yourself to someone

Yes!

Maybe, it's just my Libra moon but I can keep things in pretty well, UNLESS I am asked to be honest about something, than it's very hard to lie... Or maybe it's my Asian upbringing, I remember I useto say whatever I wanted as a little kid and would get yelled @ so much😄.

"its like we have 'word vomit' (terminology from Mean Girls lol) us aries are too honest. it is inbuilt and we are rubbish at being fake or putting up a mask. we just blurt out everything we are thinking because it feels natural. then afterwards you kinda wish you hadnt revealed so much of yourself to someone"

I can relate to this completely as I have an Aries moon (which is awsome!) I don't view being honest as "word vomit" it all depends on the delivery.....which is an area I struggle with. There are times to be tactful and then there are times when you just need to say what it is you feel. My philosophy is "why keep it inside when you can let it out" 🙂 If you don't like what was said, tough, you will get over it. I like that I am an open person, all kinds of wonderful experiences come into your life when you are open. I will admit that I do have a tendancy to speak before I think, and then there are times when I think before I speak, then there are times when I just dont say anything at all........for me it all depends on who or what I am talking to or about. I happen to like that fact that I can blurt out whatever. Sure there are some people out there that will jump all over you and question every single thing that was said, but most of the time, it's pretty self explanatory.

Hi FA85, AA nice to hear from you guys and everyone that has contributed to my post. Well it seems that I have some explaining to do.

Toxic false beliefs: beliefs that I have about myself that are negative, attributes that were contributed to me that are negative, non productive and hindering to my development to becoming the person that I am meant to be. I'm referring to dream-killers, you know the people who purposelessly attack you to darken your inner light because they themselves are dwelling in misery and want to drag you down with them. Lately, I've been releasing toxic individuals from my life and have become a better person for doing it. I'm dealing with a lot of personal issues that has literally "weighed" me down and as with the weight, I've lost 15lbs so far, I've been shedding them (dream-killers) too.

AA, sorry I haven't been on in awhile, like I said I've been dealing with me and trust me I'm a hand full. So, what have you been up to lately? 🙂

FA85 please tell me, what has been going on with you and Mr. Aqua? Details, details. 🙂