Well...I'm married to a bull. Been with him for 10 years now. It's tough for us as we are opposites. I'm loud, he's quiet....in pretty much every realm of our lives together. But, I have to say, at times, it's nice to be with an opposite. I get him excited, he calms me down. Over the years, he's come to realize just how to treat me, comfort me and love me. When he does this right, all is quite well! When he doesn't...well ya know. You know how stubborn they can be and exactly how us rams can be right back! But, he's the type of man whom everyone loves. That can be really nice to have. They are homebodies. It can be tough at times to get him out of the house. They can be very set in their ways and moving their mountains can be impossible. They are very calm, but if you push, push, push, watch the fuck out! It's true about the bull...very true. I've only seen it happen a few times and it can be scary. It's a nice combo in the way that they can appreciate an independent women. Aries is that woman! We do NOT need to be with each other 24/7. Just keep in mind it may take him a while to show you his true feelings. It took him 7 years to marry me! 7 years ladies! But, in the end, it was better. I would have never wanted him to take the plunge unless he was ready. As ready as you could be for marriage that is. Just show him a lot of affection and kindness. Being a nature and animal lover is a plus too!
I vowed to myself I would never throw on an apron again, since I gained little to no appreciation from my previous boyfriends. That's probably one of my other choices of career if I had had more passion for it... I even applied to attend the Le Cordon Bleu in Orlando, but in the last minute changed my mind.
So, I met this Taurus at my cousins wedding, at no coincidence; we were thrown together by his cousin (the grooms sister). He's cute... blonde hair, blue eyes. He's 29 and he's a doctor... so I suppose we should have a lot in common ๐. The only qualm I have is that he's really shy. I tend to be attracted to men that are a little bit more aggressive... I guess less shy?
I don't know, not quite sure about him yet... but he has piqued my interest. I guess we will have to see how it unfolds ๐.
Shy is common...my husband can be shy until he gets to know a person. They can be very reserved people. I know what you are talking about though. I too like a more aggressive guy. It took a while to get used to it. I basically had to take the lead which is pretty natural for us Rams. Order him a drink and watch the shy melt away before your very eyes!
Awww!!! I wish I would have seen this earlier xtina! A bull? He sounds cute! Well.... my bestest male friend is a bull and all I gotta say is they are HOMEBODIES. He hates going out and doing anything. When I hang out with him it's always at his house just chilling out. He'll occasionally ask me to go grocery shopping with him (seriously) and that's it. Yes, shy and laid back. Very simple in a good way. No drama. The bull you met sounds like my Aries old roomie. He's a cutie too and a huge flirt. I love Taurus guys ... like brothers though. Must be my Taurus rising.
Gingerscorp is correct about the No Drama...which can be a huge relief when you yourself have drama in your life. My bull and I have a little tradition. I take a bath and he comes and sits down at the tub. We do this at least 3 times a week. I talk..talk..talk...he listens and most often gives me the best advice I could ever ask for. He's usually on my side and I love that ๐ They are very loyal people with big hearts who love very deeply.
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