Aries gal and virgo guy

Any aries ladies out there involved with virgo men or trying to get involved? How does this combo work? I feel such a strong connection and the sexual chemistry is RIDICULOUS!

hmmmmm.......I have been dating a Virgo for the last 2 months.I have had some of the same issues that I have seen many others here complain about. He is hot and cold..... wants to know everything about me, but only tells his private life when/if he wants to. It has been fun and we get along for the most part since I don't like clingy and he is never clingy. I let him initiate most of our contact also since I know he likes his space. We had our first issue this weekend when we went out to celebrate my birthday and he invited one of his male friends along and became offended because I apparently gave his friend too much attention by making small talk with him. From my experience, Virgo men are hard to read. I would have never guessed he was jealous because he tries to hide all emotion. It didn't come out until he went into a rage about it... He is still not talking to me right now because of this. I guess we will see how this turns out. One thing, the chemistry IS off the charts and that's what keeps us coming back for more.

Geez this is exactly what I have experienced so far. We do alot of texting and he gives very short answers while I go into depth. I feel like he likes me but he seems to be holding back for whatever reason. Oh well, just gonna see how things go from here.

Haha. Yep!!! Even when he starts the text conversation
with me, he will still only give 2 word answers while
I go into depth. Sometimes he doesnt say anything
in return at all. I'm thinking, why did you bother!? 😛
Not sure if its out of sheer boredom or he's just
checking in to see if I'm alive!!

Good luck girl and if you want to date him, patience
will be a virtue!!

Thanks gonna try and hang in there.....my patience is very thin these days...Lol! I will give you an update as things go on...good luck to you too :-)

sounds like my virgo lol.he is hot and cold too and gets jealous if i even bring up a new guy friend i met today. but he is extremely affectionate with me and will go out of his way if i need anything.he can be fun and he is extreme perfectionist.

The best relationship I'd ever been in was with my Virgo guy. We'd still be together, but my aries out-going nature made the worst come out in him. He wanted all my attention 90% of the time, and when he didn't get it he'd get insecure about my love for him. He'd accuse me of cheating, when I wasn't and wouldn't. When the relationship was good, he was loyal, so much fun, and the sex.... He was protective of me, and would do anything for me. He knew how to love. Haven't found anyone close to him in 2 years.

Well ladies I have given up on mr. Virgo. He is totally playing with my emotions and I cannot have that at all. I told him that I am letting go and if its meant to be things will come together. He is constantly giving off mixed signals and seems really inconsistent with his actions. I have had enough because it is draining my energy and I have alot going on in my life right now. Its official Im shifting my focus.

awwww dang yeah virgo men will do that to you they can be extremely confusing.

I hear you all Aries ladies!!!! Me and my Virgo guy are like that (from my point of view at least).
He messages me when he wants to and poofs when he wants to. Sometimes, I feel neglected. Well, he gives me a lot of reasons like his phone or Internet connections.
And when we talk, I feel like he's not interested in me since he just gives me yeah. ok. Lol as answers when I give him an essay!
He also likes me opening up to him but he rarely opens up to me. I barely know anything about him. 😢
It exhausting, actually. And sometimes, I feel like I'm letting go..but then, I think about him and assess myself since I'm really happy with him just being by my side.
He also makes me smile whenever I'm down.

So, idk now. If he stops the hot and cold thing and starts to open up then maybe all's good!!!

I hear ya'll Aries ladies. I'm having the same problem with my Virgo guy. He is too reserved and distant. He messages me when he wants to and poofs just like that.
He has a lot of excuses. Internet connection, he's old phone, etc. and I keep up with him. He also gives me that one/two word answers when I give him an essay. Sometimes, I feel like
he's not interested in me and just shuts me off. I hate it when he says 'ok' all the time!!!! It's frustrating. And e knows that but he's still doing it. 😢
He also likes knowing everything about me but I rarely hear about anything about him. He doesn't open up much. I think, he gets jealous of men around me too because
web he jokes he wants threesome I tell him, 'okay' but with another guy, he said, he'll kill the guy. But he 'jokingly' wants a threesome with another girl (we haven't done it but he constantly
teases me about it because he said he likes teasing me and me getting mad).

I don't understand his hot/cold treatment as well!!! Gosh. It kills me. Sometimes, I feel like giving up on him but when I think about it, I tell myself, I can't
And I just have to be patient with him and he'll come out of his shell. (Until when, idk) . Being with a Virgo guy as an Aries is really exhausting, it requires as lot of patience and determination to make things work.

Who's with me?

I'm certainly with you, Ariangirl! I'm just getting started with a Virgo guy, and I'm having the same results. But I really want to make it work! (: because an Aries loves a challenge. Well, to a point. If there is something of an indication that he is not worth my time, I will retreat.

Posted by trueariesatheart
Any aries ladies out there involved with virgo men or trying to get involved? How does this combo work? I feel such a strong connection and the sexual chemistry is RIDICULOUS!

IKR..... making it work is the tricky part... -_-

Posted by Lobo

Posted by trueariesatheart
Any aries ladies out there involved with virgo men or trying to get involved? How does this combo work? I feel such a strong connection and the sexual chemistry is RIDICULOUS!

IKR..... making it work is the tricky part... -_-

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So, what do you suggest to make things work for an Aries-Virgo relationship?

I'm the last person to ask.. as I'm living your problem right now on the V guy side of it.... sry....😢

Posted by Lobo
I'm the last person to ask.. as I'm living your problem right now on the V guy side of it.... sry....😢

What do you mean? Like what kind of problem?

just a long childish back n forth with neither want to be vulnerable why trying not to give in to all the sexual energy... sooo... yeah wrong guy to ask.... just saying..

Hey Lobo this is going on with us too. You can tell that neither one of us wants to give in.....but oh the sexual energy is off the chain! I AM TIRED of trying to be patient, qhich is hard for us aries to do. I feel like I have expressed my feelings enough.....actually felt like I was chasing but I just wanted answers that he refused to give. I have retreated because I will not make a fool of myself anymore.

Posted by trueariesatheart
Hey Lobo this is going on with us too. You can tell that neither one of us wants to give in.....but oh the sexual energy is off the chain! I AM TIRED of trying to be patient, qhich is hard for us aries to do. I feel like I have expressed my feelings enough.....actually felt like I was chasing but I just wanted answers that he refused to give. I have retreated because I will not make a fool of myself anymore.

Yeah. This is a typical Aries-Virgo chase. I am exactly the same way with my guy and he pulls away all my energy from me trying to get into his life. He never opens up. When I ask him something, he never answers me and shifts to another topic. I know he's avoiding serious questions which is very frustrating! I get very impatient a lot of times too and most of the time, I wanna give up on him but once I have decided, he just pulls me back!!! He's the only guy who has made me realize I have patience! Lol.

Aries-Virgo just aint meant to be together. Its the ultimate sexual fantasy -----------and thats all it is.

Posted by wgamador2
Aries-Virgo just aint meant to be together. Its the ultimate sexual fantasy -----------and thats all it is.

Ain't meant to be together but could happen. Just needs a lot of adjustments and compromise.

Posted by wgamador2
Aries-Virgo just aint meant to be together. Its the ultimate sexual fantasy -----------and thats all it is.

Hey buddy been a long time!!!😄

And not always the case my home girl is married to a fellow virgo... And they're pretty tight knit...