Aries girl with a Cappy guy.....

Have any of your Aries women ever been involved with a Cappy man? How did it go for you. I seem to find them very frustrating for some reason yet I am attracted to them. HELP!

In reply to your comment--I am an aries woman and have been married to a cappy man for 16 yrs..and it was a long struggle at times and still is....he is good in alot of ways-but we just do not see eye to eye on alot of things and he tends to be un-adventurous and dull --which is too calm for me wanting some excitement....being your typical aries.!! I wish you better luck...but aries and caps are supposedly uncompatible --but if patient....could work out.

take care...!!🙂

thank you for your insight. I have been friends with this guy for about 10 yrs. At times he seems to withdraw and I have no clue why! He has a great sense of humor and he lights my fire! I hear that when they get older that they "free" themselves up some. He has also described himself as boring. I suppose he knows himself better than anyone else.

Yes, we Aries do thrive on excitement, I know I do and I love it. I was married before and have been divorced for 4 yrs. (that was with a Gemini).

Thanks again sister, Aries! 🙂

Hello again, and I am glad if I have helped you in some way concerning cappy partners. Actually, it is hard to say how compatible certain partners can be together, since there are other things to consider--such as a birth/natal chart showing other planetary influences at the exact time of birth. My cappy does withdraw alot to himself also...and I am not sure why either--and it makes me feel very distant from him. He is not very open about discussing certain things, and he seems to be a bit too secretive and I have caught him in alot of lies at times--which has led me to not trust him so much anymore.

I have also been married before...but to an aries..like I am--and that was a disaster!! We were too much alike and he was very jealous which led to alot of problems. Now, with this marriage to cappy-I don't know how much longer it will last....since I am always feeling alone and needing some attention and excitement which seems to have gone from our relationship...and much too dull for me. Need to still have some fun out of life!!

Take care, and best wishes and luck to you sister aries....!!

I am so glad that you said what you said. I needed to hear those words and they confirmed my feelings. (about the cappy and aries) I ran into my cappy friend today and I sensed something, didn't feel right to me. I think a lot of time he likes me in his life as I bring "fun" to the relationship but it can be very hard being the "funmaker" all the time. I have chosen to honor my feelings and not go in the direction of the cappy friend. Yeah, he may light my fire but so can someone else!

I know how you are feeling about being alone. I am so very sorry. Us aries need surprises, the thrill of life, excitement. And yes, you are right, life is much too short to not have that. Do you ever wonder why others don't see life that way? I do.

I appreciate so much you responding to my post. You have really helped me. 🙂

I wish you the best too!

I probably can give my opinion from the Capricorn perspective. Yes, Aries and Capricorn are similar and different in many ways. Being a male capricorn, I find that I have many female Aries friends and we do hang out alot. However that is as far as it goes, company. Intamacy, I can,t even imagine. Aries females are far too demanding for Cappy guys, in romance, as their minds seem to move pretty fast. This said they are fun to hang around for some time until the Cappy guy needs some breathing space. All the best.

Friend of Aries.

Thank you for your opinion Mr. Cappy.
Different is good...maybe that is what attracts me to the cappy species. I enjoy discovering what makes them "tick". There does not need to be any result, just learning. Do you feel that you can be intimate with your Aries friends—??

Of particular interest is an Aries girl I hang out with sometimes, like five days a week, after work. She appears to have infinite energy, especially when it comes to partying. Being a thirty five year old Cappy, amazingly these days I am able to take it. When I was younger I would have thought too much partying is irresponsible. But again she may want me to accompany her to some party or the pub always and I can't take it and she finds it weird. But the company is great and in many ways we get along. About being intimate with her, it just has never crossed my mind, though we do discuss many intimate things about our lives. Infact alot of people think that we have an affair. Another thing is that I am kind of a big brother to her, though we are about the same age. She is thiry two.
Cheers,
Friend of Aries

Thank you Mr. Cappy. I have had people in the past ask me if my Cappy friend was my husband! I will take that as a compliment 🙂 I am so glad that you have an Aries friend to hang out with. I think you might miss her after awhile....I am also glad that you shared your thoughts with me.

Aries girl....

Mr. Cappy,

I have a question for you....and please be honest with me, I can take it. What would be some reasons that you would avoid a female? If you like her do you run away, not talk to her? why? my cappy friend has done this to me many times yet I know he cares for me. This I do NOT understand...or maybe I am totally off base here. I have even asked him why he is avoiding me or that it seems as if he does not want to talk with me....he says I am wrong and that is not so, he has just been busy. What gives? thanks in advance for your answer.

Aries again....

To the Aries girl...

Over the years I have gone through some character transformation which some refer to as maturity. I am more at ease with my environment and people around me - Which they say happens more to people with a Sun Sign of Capricorn. When I was younger I was a worry freak, even in my relationships and this would make me withdraw even if I had deep feelings for somebody. What were my worries...you may ask. Sometimes it would have to do with security of time I have invested with my partner, fear of getting hurt, being rejected after some time etc, really silly things now, but were important at the time.
I have just recieved an email from my Aries friend and she wants to visit me, as I have been out of the country for the last two weeks on work. Probably I should invite her to this board.
Have Fun
Mr Cappy

Hi Mr. Cappy!

Thanks for expressing your thoughts with me. I know there is nothing that I can do with my cappy friend as far as getting him to express his feelings. He will in his own time. Hey! another Cappy friend of mine called me out of the blue yesterday 🙂 I thought he had moved and he didn't. It will be so nice to catch up with him. I think you cappies are real neat folks. Interesting species you are

aries girl. actually...this girl is a woman now.

Hi Aries girl...er... woman,

Interesting species you say, I wonder who is more interesting...Capricorn men or Aries women..I can place my horse on the latter.

Cheers,
Mr Cappy

I can tell that you have a great sense of humor. So, you think us Aries are more interesting huh? Yeah, maybe sometimes we are, just because we are different. I like the stability that the cappy has to offer...he just needs to loosen up and not worry so much. My friend worries about things that never come to pass. I tell him he is wasting his moments of life. Ya gotta a moment, heck....just enjoy it and then hopefully the next moment and the next come along and then you know what? You have created your very own life made just for YOU! 🙂

My next book will be titled, See Jane Run

I sure do appreciate all of your help in discovering a male cappy. I know that you are not like ALL of them as each of us is a very unique individual and I am sure you are very unique. Hoping you are having a great day!

Aries...er, ya WOMAN!!!!