Aries girls! Act distant problem!

Hey all aries girls! Have you ever been complained by ur partner saying that u act distant??
My partner always complained I have this "distant" problem.... but i don't even know how and what I did exactly lol Help!

It happens a lot, true, but for me it's not due to being overly busy. Maybe after a while I distract myself w/ numerous things, but it's never bc I just have so much to do, not that it's the case for every Aries female. I purposely distance myself from my s/o (and sometimes other people), especially in the beginning of a friendship/relationship, because I don't want to be too clingy, or feel like I'm coming on too strong. I love to be missed! It makes the union that much more special the next time I see that person, especially since us Aries natives can be get over people and their face rather quickly lol. It's kinda hard doing that once you're married though, but I still try and give myself things to do outside of the house, since my husband loves being inside playing the game. Even then, HE STILL notices when I've been gone for more than 1 hour. So all in all, I have been told I was being distant, but it's because I make myself distant. I hate being too close to people bc I don't want them to end up feeling how I feel most of the time, bored or stagnant!

On my Facebook page under the "about me" section I have put right at the beginning "this page is about me...but not ALL about me" and this is true; I never give 100% of myself to anyone. Different friends have and see different parts of me.

I have also been accused of being present but distant if that makes sense.. Like there is soooo much going on in my head, so much to do that I actually find it quite hard focussing on the present situation or whoever is in front of me. I act distracted and then I'm accused of looking like I don't care.

I've even been known to stop mid sentence with someone because something has popped into my head about something I have to do lol. Drives people mad!!