what to do with my cancer please help

Guys I want your advice my story begun when I was with An aries women she wasnt good with me I broke up with her but we wasn't sure about the broke up so we were in touch calling and texting During this period I Met cancer female and while we starting to fall in love we discover that my ex and my cancer know each other and in real they dont like each other.. after 1 week my ex aries descovered that am with cancer female and she felt jealous and asked me to come back to her and becaouse I loved her and we were togther 2 years I did and then she asked me to not talk with cancer female and I did for few days but I couldnt becaouse the aries didnt change she dont call me that much and she dont care that much because of that I started to talk with the cancer female by sms and we fall in love and we met aloot for 5 months so I have 2 girls in my life aries dont call alot and I dont see her and cancer I talk to her 24 hour and we love each other sooooo much but after all of that my cancer started to fel jealous from aries female and she feel bad when aries call and she started to not treated me good because of that and she asked me to choose 1 and she want me leave the aries female and I told her just wait i will but after her birthday I cant broke her heart while she celebrate her birthday And I told her that my aries asked me to see her in our anniversary and I refused because I dont want my canser to become sad and now she want me to see her in her birthday and I cant refuse bacause i cant refuse 2 times we will celebrate in hotel she become upset and she broke up with me before I met my aries and I tried to talk to her text her without any respond from her she just read without an answer and she said am lier and y u want to go I told her that I will not sleep with her but she didnt listen even when I told her I will not go she dont want me any more as she said .
I tried alot to return her back to my life but I couldnt and she fall in love fast with other girl.. it took me maybe 10 months until I forgot her I love her so much .and now after 1 year she took my pin from her friend and she invite me via blackberry massenger and I accept her but she dont talk at all am wondring why she add me while she dont want to talk I wrote her name on her conv. She saw it without any respond what can I do now how should I treat her delete her or what and by the way I want her back to my life what can I do and I dont think that shez still with her baby and when she broke u

Well you need to get rid of your Aries & be with the Cancer. I think the Cancer lady really cares for you & only wants you. It's tearing her up inside to see you with & talking to another woman. So if i was you, i would quit messing around. One thing i will tell you is, Cancer Woman will not compete with another woman just for drama. That Cancer lady has treated you 20x better than your Aries has. I think the choice is very obvious here on who to pick. But it's up to you.

Either way, this Cancer lady isn't going to stand for 2nd place. It's either you gon be with her or not. You talking to another lady isn't making her feel secure. I say do the right thing man. Don't mess out on the best Lady/Wife of your life.

So what can I do now and how should I talk to her and why she add me without talking to me

And by the why am nit with the aries I broke up with her and I quess When she know that am not with aries she add me in bbm

Is there a chance here ti win her back plz tell me how to win her am not with aries

Well you choose her over the Aries. She probably don't think you care anymore judging by your past actions towards her. I would just find someone else to be honest. Once you hurt a Cancer woman or pick someone else, she's probably gon have a hard time trusting you. The only way you can win a Cancer woman back is with actions, not words. First apologise for everything & show her why you change & why you choose the Aries over her. Judging by her reaction or actions, you'll know if she wants to continue or not. So uses your actions

Black indean _— waiting for more opinions guys

You had your chance. What did you do? Nothing. Cancers can't stand cheaters. A BIG NO NO. Only one bf/gf at a time. You know she is jealous of your aries ex yet you still contact her. Maybe the cancer girl is waiting for an apology, closure, a clear explanation or just wanted to say hi and see how you are doing.

The fact that you agreed to meet the aries at a HOTEL for her bday because you "couldn't" refuse her twice makes you seem weak, flaky, indecisive and a potential cheater. I'm not surprised that the cancer left you over that. You agreed to meet the aries there despite knowing how the cancer would feel about it. How did she find out that you were going to go to a hotel to celebrate the aries birthday? What's your sign?

As for fixing it...I'm not sure. Depends on how much of a connection the cancer had with you and if she wants you in her life. Going just on what you told us I'd say it's not looking good but the fact that she contacted you a little.....maybe just maybe there's a tiny chance.

I told her about the hotel cus even if I didnt she will know cus my aries and my cancer have the same friends so yeah ..my sign is leo
.. there is no chance she told me that when she restore her list she found me in her list she is a lier cuz after we broke up i changed my phone many times itold her that if you restore ur list my old pin will appear not my new and I asked her about her life and I told her its my pleasure to have her again in my list she said I told you what happened and now I cant keep you in my list I will delete you I said why and she didnt answer she deleted me _??_

Ah ha! I've seen this with another leo, the not being able to tell a girl NO when she's pressuring him for his time and attention but he already has a woman he's in a relationship with. Interesting, actually! So, you screwed up royally. The friend who had this similar thing done by her leo bf I told her to dump him. She didn't listen and they got married and he chronically cheats on her. She's a backstabber, though, and a bit of a cold fish so I can see why he looks for attention elsewhere. All in all they're both miserable with each other and won't end it. SMH

Ok, back to YOU. Your cancer seems immature with the game playing. Either she's confused about her feelings and still has them for you OR she's trying to give you a dose of your own medicine and this is payback. Yes, we do go for revenge sometimes.

Ah you cant imagine how am feeling now I just want to cry why she added me then deleted me she reminded Me about our Past

Astrology says that water signs, in general, do come back. But more times than not it's just for a peek a boo and a flip of the middle finger.

Sounds like she's just giving you some payback because you choosing to go to a hotel with an ex who she doesn't like and seems to have dubious intentions in regards to you (you're naive if you think she chose a HOTEL for a purely platonic birthday celebration and your gf wasn't invited) hurt her very deeply. Put it this way: how would you feel if some ex bf of hers asked her to hook up and then she agreed to go to a HOTEL with him for his bday?

Lol @Moonartist does have a point. An ex invites you to a Hotel birthday party and not invite your gf. That doesn't sound right at all

Did yall fuck? Yes i'm rude but it's important!And no lieing we cancers can see thru the bullshit

Scorch, good question! I'll add to it. Did you actually meet up at the hotel with the aries for her bday celebration?

hibas you silent dude... u wanted some advice or feedback you got it. So let's see, inquiring minds wanna know what happened at the 'hotel'.

She broke up with me before my ex birthday before 1 or 2 weeks and I asked her to answer my calls and messges and I will not go if she dont want I will not I will change my mind but without any respond and then I decided to go to her birthday cus I dont wanna lose 2 of them cus it sound that she started her lufe with her babe and she will not come and the cancer knows exactly what I did with aries because her friends told her every thing after a few days I send her sms telling her on this day we was talking with each other it was special and she told me y that day with ur ex wasnt special shame on you that is I know every thing u did with her if I were u I will be shy to talk with u

Ms. Cancer is better off alone. She can't stand sharing his bf with another girl. That's cheating.

k...*scratches head* still did not answer the question.just rehash of you meeting the aries...meh! Good luck buddy.. Guess u want a fuck buddy and a girlfriend.

SMH! Seriously, you KNEW she didn't want you to go and you went anyway because you didn't want to lose both. Well, that sealed the deal. She dumped you the first time before you went because you agreed to go and probably knew better than to do that. Then, instead of putting your energy into getting her to talk to you and trying to fix it you go ahead and go with the aries at the hotel. AND her friends give her the dirt on it all. Nice. That was a class A douchebaggy thing to do. Yep, you can forget about the Cancer. You completely blew that one. Aries likes you, though, and you're both fire, so good luck with that.

Sure I will go cus shez starting her life with her new babe so I will not get any benefit if I didnt go and she didnt answer my calls and she told me what ever u do I will not come beck its over and because of that a went.. now it has been 1 year we are not togther I forgot her why she added me in blackberry msngr whay if she dont want to come back and why she said I will delete u and she did omg if dont want me them dont add me

If she don't want me why she added me *

Posted by ReddmannScorch
k...*scratches head* still did not answer the question.just rehash of you meeting the aries...meh! Good luck buddy.. Guess u want a fuck buddy and a girlfriend.

+100000000

You will also find this BS on the Aries forum under:

"me leo and my aries ex broke up help aries females"

Mmmm..cancer or aries? cancer or aries? cancer or aries? Hell why not both!!!!!

typical player 😄 😄 😄

@hibas just move on man. She clearly has. Just work on you & find someone else. Just use this as a lesson learned

Hhhhhhh u dont understand me about the aries I just wwantthe aries to come back and I will tell her no I dont want you I just want her to feel guilty and i want to satisfy my self cus the reason she broke up for me is silly

Posted by hibas
Hhhhhhh u dont understand me about the aries I just wwantthe aries to come back and I will tell her no I dont want you I just want her to feel guilty and i want to satisfy my self cus the reason she broke up for me is silly

Nooooo, YOU don't understand you idiot.

Crawl away u moron, you clearly have NO FUCKING IDEA about Aries women if you think you can pull off this shit.

I didn't understand you any way this is not my topic am talking her about my cancer

No I will focus in cancer cus I really want her

Posted by hibas
No I will focus in cancer cus I really want her

My opinion, as a triple Cancer, is that you completely blew your chance of having the cancer gal back. If you had wanted her that badly then you shouldn't have gone to the hotel with aries, despite cancer breaking up with you. Cancer probably won't take you back. I think she added you on the contact list and deleted as a form of payback. Do expect a bit more stabby stabby from her until she's done making you hurt and pay.

Moon artist I love u thaaaank you soooooooo much now I understand every thing poor leo

The problem with "poor leo" is that the ego likes to be stroked too much and when one made you hurt you foolishly let the one you didn't fully want to turn your head. You can't play two unless they're both will and happy about it.

You know what in the beginning my cancer was happy about it she just want to be with me and she told me I will not let u choose between us I just want me to be with u but ltr on every thing changed .. I dont blame her even I dont blame me I really found it hard 4 me to choose between them I really tried I swear it wasnt easy for me to have them both .one of the I completed with her more than 2 years and she is my routine and the other I love being with her and talking with her and she loved me alot and she take care of me .please dont blame me guys its not by my hand I tried alot to have one of them only but I couldnt