Green321721
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Aries guy advice?
Arent you both using each other for sex?
Yes technically we are but I want it to be more than that
Aries and Leos make a great match.
Without divulging your feelings, ask him if he would ever be interested in being more than fwb?
Without divulging your feelings, ask him if he would ever be interested in being more than fwb?
Posted by ImTheRamGive her a suggestion to find out if hes into her or not 🙂Posted by DMVNot..a..good...idea...
Aries and Leos make a great match.
Without divulging your feelings, ask him if he would ever be interested in being more than fwb?
He will read into that in a flash.click to expand
If it starts as sex with Aries, in my experience, unfortunately, it tends to stay that way... unless he's got some more grounding influences in his chart. Most Aries men get bored quickly, or so I've found, especially if it's an Aries/Sun or Aries/Ven you're dealing with.
Hahaha sooooo true. I dated an Aries briefly, and it was either XXX Porn-Grade sex or let's go play some Fifa on the xbox and yell at each other.
But oddly enough, it doesn't seem that way with an Aries Moon??
But oddly enough, it doesn't seem that way with an Aries Moon??
Posted by 000sillylion000Yep. The Aries guy I know from campus told me just that about the women he's slept with.
If it starts as sex with Aries, in my experience, unfortunately, it tends to stay that way... unless he's got some more grounding influences in his chart. Most Aries men get bored quickly, or so I've found, especially if it's an Aries/Sun or Aries/Ven you're dealing with.
Posted by LillyPetalBut screw that (pun intended.) Do your own thing and see what happens. Honestly, what have you got to lose?Posted by 000sillylion000Yep. The Aries guy I know from campus told me just that about the women he's slept with.
If it starts as sex with Aries, in my experience, unfortunately, it tends to stay that way... unless he's got some more grounding influences in his chart. Most Aries men get bored quickly, or so I've found, especially if it's an Aries/Sun or Aries/Ven you're dealing with.click to expand
Just wondering, how old is he? does he have any kids from his previous marriage? this might complicate a litlle what is going on on his mind.
Otherwise, I'd just agree with Arieslovesaqua, just enjoy what you have and stay in the moment.
Otherwise, I'd just agree with Arieslovesaqua, just enjoy what you have and stay in the moment.
Posted by ArieslovesaquaHi , no we both agreed I said it first because I have had fwb before and didnt get emotionally attached but I just really fell for him.
Even the most non committal man will go after the woman he wants. If he's not bringing it up, it's not in his head.
Can you just enjoy what you have? It seems pretty nice. Sex twice a week, cuddling, drinks with friends.
Also I'm curious, you said you both agreed to fwb but did you really both mutually come to this agreement? Or did he say it and you went along with it in hopes that it would eventually become more?
Posted by LouStrasse
Just wondering, how old is he? does he have any kids from his previous marriage? this might complicate a litlle what is going on on his mind.
Otherwise, I'd just agree with Arieslovesaqua, just enjoy what you have and stay in the moment.
To be blunt, it seems he just wants the great sex. Who doesn't? And he's not thinking much after that. You're lookin' for a little bit of a commitment, but this Aries is ecstatic with the freedom you've given it already. Aries don't like to be tied down, so if we don't have to be, we're outta there.
Aries like a challenge, and we view sex as a something to be dominated. We're in it to make sure both sides are havin' a grand ol' time, and make sure you remember us as some of the best bangin' you've ever had. 😉
Have you already checked out his and your Mars/Venus signs?
Aries like a challenge, and we view sex as a something to be dominated. We're in it to make sure both sides are havin' a grand ol' time, and make sure you remember us as some of the best bangin' you've ever had. 😉
Have you already checked out his and your Mars/Venus signs?
Posted by SoldierOfMarsHey no I havent but I like your answer that was what I kinda thought in the back of my head.I guess Ill just go with this situation for now and try to make him love me ...then maybe pull back like was mentioned before (giggles) and see what happens.
To be blunt, it seems he just wants the great sex. Who doesn't? And he's not thinking much after that. You're lookin' for a little bit of a commitment, but this Aries is ecstatic with the freedom you've given it already. Aries don't like to be tied down, so if we don't have to be, we're outta there.
Aries like a challenge, and we view sex as a something to be dominated. We're in it to make sure both sides are havin' a grand ol' time, and make sure you remember us as some of the best bangin' you've ever had. 😉
Have you already checked out his and your Mars/Venus signs?
Thank you!
Posted by Green321721Oh, you little tease!! LoL
I guess Ill just go with this situation for now and try to make him love me ...then maybe pull back like was mentioned before (giggles) and see what happens.
Thank you!
Just be careful, as it may be a tight-rope walk. Maybe other elements [like my energy-scattering Gemini Mars] is what causes it, but I feel like even though I like a challenge as an Aries, if someone's not giving me the time of day, then I don't want to sit there and feel unappreciated, ya know? My Libra moon also makes me think of all elements of a situation, not excluding the idea that she's moved on, she doesn't feel the same way. That's just a total waste of my energy, which I HATE!
Not to scare ya, as your plan may very well work. 😛
Be upfront and honest with him. Tell him you care about him as a friend and are starting to develope deeper feelings and you can't continue the friends w benefits.
Then walk away.
If he cares about you beyond a fuck buddy situation he will come after you. If you continue to spread your legs at his whim you have no chance here. He needs to have time to miss you in his life.
And you need to be prepared to lose him in order to gain him.
Then walk away.
If he cares about you beyond a fuck buddy situation he will come after you. If you continue to spread your legs at his whim you have no chance here. He needs to have time to miss you in his life.
And you need to be prepared to lose him in order to gain him.
Sorry to be frank...i sure He like you.. But just like.. Not love.. If he love you. He will approach you. You don't have to make any move.
(but you really really wanted to be with him. Give you a suggestion. You can continue meeting him. But just stop having sex activities with him. You might get his attention) ‰
(but you really really wanted to be with him. Give you a suggestion. You can continue meeting him. But just stop having sex activities with him. You might get his attention) ‰
Posted by Green321721Will you be okay if it doesn't become more than that? I guess that's the real question, because it may likely not.
Yes technically we are but I want it to be more than that
Posted by LadyNeptuneI hear you and this advice im going to follow.I just need to be with him a couple more times before i do that but I will make myself...thank you 🙂
Be upfront and honest with him. Tell him you care about him as a friend and are starting to develope deeper feelings and you can't continue the friends w benefits.
Then walk away.
If he cares about you beyond a fuck buddy situation he will come after you. If you continue to spread your legs at his whim you have no chance here. He needs to have time to miss you in his life.
And you need to be prepared to lose him in order to gain him.
Posted by SoldierOfMarsSee I know that he knows I like him more than I should.If he knows that Ive fallen for him but at the same time if Im mature enough to say hey, its been great but I have feelings for you and I dont want to get hurt so im pulling away...its damage limitation for me..painful as it is and it will be a test for him.Posted by Green321721Oh, you little tease!! LoL
I guess Ill just go with this situation for now and try to make him love me ...then maybe pull back like was mentioned before (giggles) and see what happens.
Thank you!
Just be careful, as it may be a tight-rope walk. Maybe other elements [like my energy-scattering Gemini Mars] is what causes it, but I feel like even though I like a challenge as an Aries, if someone's not giving me the time of day, then I don't want to sit there and feel unappreciated, ya know? My Libra moon also makes me think of all elements of a situation, not excluding the idea that she's moved on, she doesn't feel the same way. That's just a total waste of my energy, which I HATE!
Not to scare ya, as your plan may very well work. 😛click to expand
Hes so addictive though..
Posted by lzaaun
Sorry to be frank...i sure He like you.. But just like.. Not love.. If he love you. He will approach you. You don't have to make any move.
(but you really really wanted to be with him. Give you a suggestion. You can continue meeting him. But just stop having sex activities with him. You might get his attention) ‰
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