aries guy hot and cold

just wanted to vent that it's pissing me off to the bone. I can't read him at the moment, he was very warm and now he's acting weird and moody, so the only thing I can do is give him his space.
BUT WHY DO THEY ACT LIKE THIS ? 🙂 explaination please.

You both are right.
This Aries is giving me another 'chance' or opening up lines of communication after I have betrayed his trust, he has cut me off and swore he'd never speak to me again. Yes, even I'm surprised that he's talking to me again, but now he is very hard to read. I want everything to happen naturally with us, I don't want to be pushy, even my own emotions need some gathering as well. I just don't want to loose him again since I got the chance I've always wanted. I've never thought he'd come back.

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Posted by amethyst2002
Hot and cold = not into you. Or they're immature. Or they have no idea what they want.

Regardless, don't waste your time on a guy like this. You're right to give him his space. Go live your life and do your thing. If he really wants to give things a try with you, he'll come around. If not, good, you didn't emotionally invest yourself.

OMG amethyst, I swear we'd be best friends! I read 'hot and cold aries' in the subject line and thought "ANY guy, not just Aries, just isn't into you that much."

Tis true.

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I think I didn't point out the most important part. We used to date before, I've known him for years , I broke his trust, he swore he'd never speak to me again, cut me off cold, and now he allowed himself back into my life.

Posted by amethyst2002
So why do you even have the balls to think you have any place to be pissed when you fucked up to begin with? Deal with the consequences and play the waiting game.

Because I won't be used as a doormat. Because I have feelings too. He didn't communicate with me properly and he still isn't which is how the whole situation of broken trust resulted.
I'm not going to dwell , he can trust me, I poured out my heart to him in a way I've never before.

Posted by dragonaries
amethyst is right, poor guy he prolly does not trust anyone in the world right now because he got blindsided by "the one", the only person he thought he could trust 😢 the thing i never like about cancer though i liked them is that they are peacemakers and show a caring nice, and calmness and what not, but then cheat emotionally when teir needs arent met instead of communicating them...aries may be impatient and what not not but deep down when we make someone the one and trust them we would never betray them period(loyalty till the end), which makes them loners because they drop everybody else to make time only for the one...unlike cancer which divides friends and so on and try to keep them in peace and so on...which in the long run will make the aries feel like their trying to compete and never really fitted in and ultimately run away with not many options since they dropped the casual for the "One"

You got me all wrong. He doesn't communicate with me, he keeps it all inside.
I don't want to come off as needy but at the same time I want to proove myself to him, I want to show him love, how do I do that ?
I'm a cancer with libra rising and libra moon.

I am going thru EXACTLY the same thing my heart is litreally broken cos I broke my Aries trust and he used to adore me and now he won't even be near me....But I know I was in the wrong and we just have to deal with it sadly : (

I understand how much I hurt him. I will do anything to gain the trust back.
I doubt he is settleing for me , he came back to me for a reason. I don't think he took that decision lightly.

Posted by dragonaries
just don't give up because he
expects u to after some time

I won't give up. I just don't want to push him away and come off as needy. Should I just tell him that right now it's best we stay friends because I want his trust first and foremost? I want to be there for him as a friend. How shocking is it for an Aries to come back like this, I've never heard of that before.

He doesn't seem the type to do that, he doesn't waste his time on bs drama, so why would he even put effort in trying to do that.

dragonaries, i really wish you wouldn't hide your posts! 🙂

good luck, beachkisses... 🙂

xoj

lol, will hide this one too!