Aries guy want just be friend or something else?

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byfelicity
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I'm so confused, this guy is trusting me more and more, he tells me where he will always be and asked me to be honest with him in everything, sometimes he seems to be jelous, it used to be very cold/ distance andnowhe always try to touch me and it's so sweet.

We are friends with benefits and the sex was always really bad, he always looked for he's pleasure and not mine... Now he ask me what I want and he do everything I want (talking about sex) but still he insists that he does not want us to get attached to each other and that everything he wants is sex and be friends.

I don't wanna get attached to him because of that but he's so sweet and special with me now...

Any advice??It is possible that he don't want accept that he has feelings for me?
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byfelicity
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7 Years

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I'm so confused, this guy is trusting me more and more, he tells me where he will always be and asked me to be honest with him in everything, sometimes he seems to be jelous, it used to be very cold/ distance andnowhe always try to touch me and it's so sweet.

We are friends with benefits and the sex was always really bad, he always looked for he's pleasure and not mine... Now he ask me what I want and he do everything I want (talking about sex) but still he insists that he does not want us to get attached to each other and that everything he wants is sex and be friends.

I don't wanna get attached to him because of that but he's so sweet and special with me now...

Any advice??It is possible that he don't want accept that he has feelings for me?
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Posted by byfelicity

I'm so confused, this guy is trusting me more and more, he tells me where he will always be and asked me to be honest with him in everything, sometimes he seems to be jelous, it used to be very cold/ distance andnowhe always try to touch me and it's so sweet.

We are friends with benefits and the sex was always really bad, he always looked for he's pleasure and not mine... Now he ask me what I want and he do everything I want (talking about sex) but still he insists that he does not want us to get attached to each other and that everything he wants is sex and be friends.

I don't wanna get attached to him because of that but he's so sweet and special with me now...

Any advice??It is possible that he don't want accept that he has feelings for me?

Take him by his words. If he says that he wants friendship and sex that is what he wants. Aries are very straight. It doesn’t mean that it won’t develop into something more far into the future, but you shouldn’t get attached and want more. Let him lead.
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MizzzzM
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This Aries guy I’ve been talking to always tells me he wants more than that but flakes all the time. They’re so hard to read! I don’t believe in monogamy myself, but I definitely am down to hang with him and bang, but honestly I think that’s what Aries were made for. If you think you’ll get attached if you keep fucking him, you might wanna cut it off now
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He tells you where he's at bc he wants you to meet up with him but that doesn't mean anything he just wants to hang out we Aries know what we want from the beginning. Your the one who caught feelings if he wanted a relationship he would have told you in the beginning we don't change our minds. Talk is just for play for us and that's all it is it's just leading up to the sexual incounter. Don't tell him you have feelings if it's just FWB he will run for the hills and never turn back.
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IamTheRam
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I think he is starting to get feelings for you


Starting to get the hang out of this Aries thing, hey ? 😆

But thing is, and for this to *work out for her*...at the moment he is starting to get feelings for *you*...switch off and treat him like *trash* hehe

Any question regarding feelings, romance and rship now, will completly backfire...play *the bitch* now hehe 🙂

And if you are in the FWB thing atm, the odds are very high that he won't *ever* fall in Love (or very very hardly will).

OP you are free to have sex and do whatever you want with your body, that is your choise. But man rarely fall in Love with a woman through sex...especialy, most def, and out of all signs...Aries man.

The *biggest weapon* of a woman is the one between her legs...make him crawll for that...and before he realises...he is no longer chasing that...he will be chasing after you, as a person, as a Woman 🙂

Got to make him believe that there is no woman arround there like you, you know ?! Hehe ^^

You are free to do whatever you want, just be carefull with the choices you make in order to get what you really want 🙂

If you want feelings out of a man...you really need to be very strong and know your worth as a woman ^^

Men allways fall for that, allways ^^
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IamTheRam
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OP, going to give you a small story 🙂

Was talking the other day with a freind of mine, a tinder guy (just for reference lol), and he was telling me how much he was in Love with the woman he was with in a rship atm..."Love is so beautifull man !!!" Haha i was so happy for him, he is a good guy ^^

During all the convo, all that he was saying was.."how diferent she was from every other women"... ^^... "She is not like these other women i met, it took us months to have sex..she allways said no, even when we were sleeping togheter ! She really is an amazing woman !"...he was extremly proud of her choices and how she valued herself as a woman 🙂

And this is exactly what he said, i've got not idea about his or her sun sign btw, but this is also just like me ^^...the first thing i automaticly say to my freinds is..."How diferent she is from every other Women.." 🙂

Men really, really, like that ^^

I am not saying that you shouldn't do what you want to do or that is bad, because it is not...but above all and the most important thing is, knowing what you are doing and what it can lead to 🙂

Take Care and Good Luck !