ARIES,how do you deal with WATER signs?

I had a hard time communicating with water signs..when I study my family chart..I found out that most of the people I consider "difficult" and "emotionally provocative" in my family where water signs, like my mom and brother. Also some aunties and the land lady where I live.

DATING A WATER SIGN
Anyways, I have taken some notes..regarding dating a WATER sign..(Pisces,Cancer,Scorpio)..
I'm currently dating a Pisces now..(he lives in another town, 2 hours flying from mine) and a Capricorn in my city (people say Capricorn has the most water traits among the other earth signs).
Nothing overly serious yet..I am studying their characters and also learning about myself as I interact with them.

From my experience so far..
Pisces will always be there..LOL and the messages will come morning..noon and night..yup they are caring and attentive
Always keep guards up, don't invest emotions..and don't take things seriously..that's how you proceed with Pisces (based on my experience with a Cancer-also water sign)

Water signs have a natural way of invoking your emotions and stirring emotions..stay grounded & logic..it's hard but it's attainable.
Once you can keep your emotions grounded, you won't bother the Pisces-water antiques

Capricorn is more predictable, we talk on fixed schedules..but I notice water tendencies in his behavior/communication patterns as well. I am still learning & taking notes..,but this is what I get so far.
I want to know your experiences. Let's share & compare notes!

My conclusion is..WATER signs tend to stir your emotions and provoke your emotions..leading you to emotional situations..this is like a TEST.
Don't get caught in it! stay grounded & logic.., stay calm, stay balanced..don't flip! it's hard but it's attainable. It's some sort of a TEST because once you show your emotional side and explode..they lose interest. So you have to maintain your balance always..😉

Noosie---sometimes..once in a blue or purple moon perhaps..the fish come back 😄 LOL

I used to date this fish back in 2008. He was sexy as hell, a hot surfer. Damn. We had amazing memories in paradise LOL so to speak.
He was at this island with me..enjoying the sun, fun and surfs for weeks ACTUALLY TO ESCAPE reality. He later told me, he can't deal the situation with ex his girlfriend dying of a terminal disease. I was a bit shocked when I heard his confession.

I was infatuated at that time (mainly by his looks-physical), but I wasn't really feeling things on a deeper level.
So as soon as I left the island, the infatuation dissolved and I got caught up in daily routine. He kept in touch with me and told me he stood beside her until her last breath,after that...we never communicate anymore.

Last week..(it's been 3 years) my phone rung. It's HIM and he wants to connect again.
Anyways we never have arguments and things have always been light and fun between us. No jealousy, no drama.
I guess this is why he came back in touch with me. Because, I was basically grounded all the time when we're together.
That's my analysis.

I haven't seen him in 3 years though..he could lose his hot looks and gain a pot belly LOL. Who knows, but I stay nice.

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Posted by kristalaries
My conclusion is..WATER signs tend to stir your emotions and provoke your emotions..leading you to emotional situations..this is like a TEST.
Don't get caught in it! stay grounded & logic.., stay calm, stay balanced..don't flip! it's hard but it's attainable. It's some sort of a TEST because once you show your emotional side and explode..they lose interest. So you have to maintain your balance always..😉

So, you??re saying that when a person shows their emotional side to a water sign they are no longer interested?

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Yes, exactly. Based on my observation, experience and also reading on the water forums..
Waters..they run deep..you can't predict what their intention is based on their actions/words/behavior. They are good at hiding it.
Fire signs are more obvious..but water..is a whole different world.

Noosie--yes they are..all of them have similar traits..it's a water thing --> Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio
It's like this crazy paradox..they are emotional..very emotional actually, but they CAN'T HANDLE an emotional partner..albeit constantly testing and trying to put the partner into an emotional situation.

Pisces2008 man cried when talking about his dying ex-gf..but I stayed calm.
Don't take them personally. It's hard. I failed the test with my Cancer2011 ex. He was stirring my emotions constantly talking about marriage, settling down etc.
Constantly displaying jealousy and the need for exclusivity, while himself..still goes flirting on Facebook..what a paradox.
When I got emotional and confronted him on that inconsistency..all hell broke lose.

Had I kept it "foolish" and play along with his antiques..not taking it seriously..he might still be here now but I won't be on this board LOL and I won't learn anything haha.

Posted by Noosiekins
I actually agree about the lack of confident!

Ex Cancer was really secretive... his "friends" are what I would consider acquaintances...

My brother is a Cancer with Scorpio rising..
He is very secretive..emotionally provocative and..exactly..the people he consider as "friends" are merely acquintances
I had a difficult time communicating with him all these years until I look up his charts because he always boast that he is a Leo well..he's not. He's a Cancer with Scorpio rising. Heavy water there.

Posted by Noosiekins
LOL speaking of CRYING! the ex crab cried watching "The Cove"

all I could do was hold him while he cried... it was endearing at the time..never seen a grown man cry over a documentary

LOL yeah it's a water thing 😄 They do cry..!
My ex Cancer2008 used to cry whenever he has to go back to his city (we live in different cities) and it's a 3 hour journey by car.
I got emotional too at that time because he did stir my emotions successfully and I was young.., I didn't know better.

dating a girl who has a water sign is fine, but water males, in particular scorpio males are hart to communicate with, yes

Posted by kristalaries
My conclusion is..WATER signs tend to stir your emotions and provoke your emotions..leading you to emotional situations..this is like a TEST.
Don't get caught in it! stay grounded & logic.., stay calm, stay balanced..don't flip! it's hard but it's attainable. It's some sort of a TEST because once you show your emotional side and explode..they lose interest. So you have to maintain your balance always..😉

dont be scurred of those emotions. water signs dont like superficiality. they want a deeper connection. if you love me, cry with me.

for fire, if you love me, play with me
for earth, if you love me, eat with me
for air, if you love me, talk to me

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Posted by kristalaries
My conclusion is..WATER signs tend to stir your emotions and provoke your emotions..leading you to emotional situations..this is like a TEST.
Don't get caught in it! stay grounded & logic.., stay calm, stay balanced..don't flip! it's hard but it's attainable. It's some sort of a TEST because once you show your emotional side and explode..they lose interest. So you have to maintain your balance always..😉

So, you??re saying that when a person shows their emotional side to a water sign they are no longer interested?

Yes, exactly. Based on my observation, experience and also reading on the water forums..
Waters..they run deep..you can't predict what their intention is based on their actions/words/behavior. They are good at hiding it.
Fire signs are more obvious..but water..is a whole different world.

EXACTLY??_they aren't deep they are hiding shit. Be honest and open and most don't because they can't handle that shit. If you ask me some of those water signs lack confidence. There is nothing deep about that.

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we all have our insecurities

Posted by ellessque

we love you or we hate you. no in between...and we always let you choose 😛

aint that the damn truth..although people dont see it like that.

The only pet peeve/irk I have is people here generalizing signs. You cant go by someone's sun sign alone. You have to see what their Moon, Mercury, Rising signs are. Add in the factors of upbringing and emotional maturity.

People who act like numbnuts in relationships are numbnuts period. Signs has less of factor, then say someone being an emotional retard.

Posted by kristalaries
I had a hard time communicating with water signs..when I study my family chart..I found out that most of the people I consider "difficult" and "emotionally provocative" in my family where water signs, like my mom and brother. Also some aunties and the land lady where I live.

DATING A WATER SIGN
Anyways, I have taken some notes..regarding dating a WATER sign..(Pisces,Cancer,Scorpio)..
I'm currently dating a Pisces now..(he lives in another town, 2 hours flying from mine) and a Capricorn in my city (people say Capricorn has the most water traits among the other earth signs).
Nothing overly serious yet..I am studying their characters and also learning about myself as I interact with them.

From my experience so far..
Pisces will always be there..LOL and the messages will come morning..noon and night..yup they are caring and attentive
Always keep guards up, don't invest emotions..and don't take things seriously..that's how you proceed with Pisces (based on my experience with a Cancer-also water sign)

Water signs have a natural way of invoking your emotions and stirring emotions..stay grounded & logic..it's hard but it's attainable.
Once you can keep your emotions grounded, you won't bother the Pisces-water antiques

Capricorn is more predictable, we talk on fixed schedules..but I notice water tendencies in his behavior/communication patterns as well. I am still learning & taking notes..,but this is what I get so far.
I want to know your experiences. Let's share & compare notes!

WATER DOUSES Fire...simple....The less developed water signs are boring which is a death bell to aries. emotion doesnt come into it. Its an eternal state of never ending flux & duality. Aries just vaporises those lesser water signs...into huff & steam !!

These less developed water signs have a low sex drive when the going gets tough. They are like clouds in the sky...momentary blips in our lives. A drop in the ocean of the sky....They have tears of crocodiles. Not the tears of Jesus. GIVVVVVVE ME A BRRRREAK !!!!


These less developed water signs are unethical, liars, CROSSING, DOUBLE AGENTS, too much sting & not enough honey !!

Man they should be managing a fish farm or goldfishbowl or summit...

The less developed water signs dont have morals & ARE TERMINALLY CONFUSED !!! Believe me !!

Your right they have deep hidden secrets but also seething unresolved inhuman unnatural hatred !!

Yes you have to look at all the planets, houses & interaspects !!!

But crucially the sun is your CORE VITAL INGRAINED Personality !!! Your will...to do good or bad !!

In life...

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Posted by ZenArcade
The only pet peeve/irk I have is people here generalizing signs. You cant go by someone's sun sign alone. You have to see what their Moon, Mercury, Rising signs are. Add in the factors of upbringing and emotional maturity.

People who act like numbnuts in relationships are numbnuts period. Signs has less of factor, then say someone being an emotional retard.

Good point. However, I have observed certain behaviors/actions/beliefs/etc from people who just end up being from the same sign. It could all be coincidence, but who knows...

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I think over the long run you can see the true nature of their chart(personality-childhood traits) emerge !!!

LESS DEVELOPED SCORPIOS are venomous as are less developed PISCES !!

Posted by Noosiekins
LOL speaking of CRYING! the ex crab cried watching "The Cove"

all I could do was hold him while he cried... it was endearing at the time..never seen a grown man cry over a documentary

lol

i'm ok with them.

Most of my friends are water sun signs but also water moons as well.

And it's not all sun signs is it lets face it, there's so many other aspects to one chart, life isn't that simple.