Aries making excuse not to hang out :(——

So we've been on about 7 dates.I live in NJ,he lives in NY.We don't see eachother often cause he works all day and night an only has the weekends off so I see him once a week 😢 He works A LOT 😢The last time I saw him was this sunday for a few hours,we went to watch a movie.I really want to see him this weekend but yesterday he tells me he can't hangout cause he wants to start painting 😢 He's an artist and he just moved to a new apartment and he hasn't painted in a long time so he wants to start.But I feel like he's just making an excuse not to see me 😢(((((((((( If he truly wanted to see me he would,He could paint any day!There were a couple of times in the past we didn't go out cause he wanted to be on his own at home.Guys is he just making an excuse or does he actually want alone time to paint? I feel so hurt 😢(((((

You're a nut job

I just went over your post history.

Seriously, stop the crazy bitch talk. He isn't all that into you based on what you've shared and you've become a neurotic mess, on the hunt for the tiniest sign he's into you.

You sound desperate. Knock it off.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're a nut job

bwahahahahah rofl.


no for real, chill. got get a hobby

I take it you didn't read up on Aries males before posting here.lol. You should??ve??_you really should??ve.
First off he's an Aries, if he didn't want to see you or be bothered he just wouldn't. The reason I told you to read up on this sign for males, is because you would??ve known they are famous for needing breathing room, and at times they go off on their own and wont be bothered by anyone, not even their family. They take that time to re-group and plan, and when they come back they are ready to execute that plan.
You are already starting off wrong, by being too clingy. If you know he works a lot, and all this and he still makes time for you not to mention you live in different cities, even though they are right next door to each other, it can still be a hassle for a busy Aries to even attempt to make it work, so when they do you need to acknowledge it. You have entirely too much time on your hands it's starting to show. If the aries so much as THINKS you will be the clingy naggy type he will run as fast as he can.

Posted by pinklibra
You have entirely too much time on your hands it's starting to show. If the aries so much as THINKS you will be the clingy naggy type he will run as fast as he can.

She probably does. When you have too much time on your hands, your mind focuses too much on crap like this and you get all paranoid.

In her case, I think she's made like 3 posts in the last week or two about this guy, obsessing about who he is.

"So i started dating this guy who has Venus in aries,moon in cap and mars in taurus and im soooo afraid to continue seeing him because of all the bad things I've heard about venus in aries men ,that they are players and chat,etc.I've been in 6 dates.with this guy and we talk mostly everyday but there are a fee red flags He always talks about other women in front of me and that he has been with many women.He usually wants to come over my place at night.He has alot.of female friends "

"Im dating an aries with venus in aries,moon in cap,mars in taurus.I realized he talks alot about himself and doesnt really ask about me.For example he suddenly texts me after our date and says i just got home ,thabk god i didnt miss the bus.....but he doesnt ask if i got home,what im up to .Everything is seriously about him.He might ask about me and then in a minute the convo turns back to being about him:/Are aries men self centered and selfish?"

"We've been texting all week and he initiated this morning and we texted for a but he still didnt ask me to hangout and it's the weekend shiuld i ask him out or wait for him?im just afraid to ask him out because im afraid to get hurt and i wanna make sure he actually likes me."