Aries Man dating multiple people....

So I had a “what are we talk” with my Aries guy last week. He let me know that though he likes me, but he’s seeing other people and we’re just chillin. I let him know that if that’s the case, we should just reach out to each other when we want to have sex
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  • Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    This sounds like a pain in the ass.. why do you still want to be around him? Do yourself a favor and move on. Find someone who wants to make you number 1.


    It is annoying me lol I’m just trying to decide if I should do a slow fade or let him know how I feel....
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    Whichever makes you more comfortable. Telling him makes it more final though. Slow fade is keeping the door open.
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  • This sounds like a pain in the ass.. why do you still want to be around him? Do yourself a favor and move on. Find someone who wants to make you number 1.
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  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Tell him when he reaches out for sex again that you are seeing your other fwb
  • Hahahaha that’s the typical relationship between aries and gem when trust issues come into the game. It happened the same with my aries. How do you know he didn’t really fall asleep? And if he didn’t what’s the problem? I mean you were ok with being treetrunk friends knowing he’s sleepig with other girls as well. You’re not no.1.
    He did exactly what my aries did. Mind games.”cause how you act sometimes” means because you’re confusing because you switch moods and pull a 100 on him and you’re inconsisten so he doesn’t know what to believe.

    You are getting attached. I mean you told him you’re ok with being treetrunk friends, he doesn’t want to sleep with you at that point, you get mad and stop texting him on purpose. Like for real? I think he is either getting bored or mad by your attitude because you told him you want to be fwb. I mean it’s ok to ignore him from time to time if you’re busy or whatever and say “hey you know im not in the mood tonight” but ignoring him on purpose when he was honest with you in the first place is not ok. You can either start being mature or loose him because eventually he’ll get bored of your games and so on.

    I mean that’s my opinion and that’s how I see it based on my experience. And that’s me being blunt and straightforward haha
    Posted by beebeeN
    Quick update....we were supposed to link up twice and he “fell asleep” both times... ever since then, when ever he texts me or snapchats me I read it and don’t reply. He contacted me and said he’s at a loss for words and when I asked why he said “cause of how you act sometimes”. I asked how do I act and he said “never mind” I’m figuring he doesn’t like being ignored....


  • Posted by Orange_dreams
    What an annoying situation I’ve been there...

    Read why men love cookiemonsteres and never bring up relationships again with a man.

    Try to detach and live your best life. You’re a goddess you’ll find someone better hunny.


    Started that book but never finished. I’ll have to revisit. Ugh, men are so annoying lol thanks for the kind word ❤️
  • Quick update....we were supposed to link up twice and he “fell asleep” both times... ever since then, when ever he texts me or snapchats me I read it and don’t reply. He contacted me and said he’s at a loss for words and when I asked why he said “cause of how you act sometimes”. I asked how do I act and he said “never mind” I’m figuring he doesn’t like being ignored....
  • What an annoying situation I’ve been there...

    Read why men love cookiemonsteres and never bring up relationships again with a man.

    Try to detach and live your best life. You’re a goddess you’ll find someone better hunny.
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Sounds horrible
  • Pandora101
    Sun Aqua, Moon Canc, Venus Pisc, Mars Aries, Mercury Cap, Asc Scorp
    female
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by Mutabull
    You obviously want more and he isn’t at the same place as you. Are you ok with him sleeping with other people at the same time as you? You are basically going to be a friend with benefits or a booty call with someone you wanted a relationship with... sounds like disappointment waiting to happen.

    Why would he pursue you? If you don’t give him sex, he has other options.. don’t hold your breath.


    I wouldn’t say I wanted a relationship cause it was too early to know that...but I’m okay with a fwb situation....I’ll date and get sex when I want 🤷🏾‍♀️ Only contacting each other for sex will keep it uncomplicated.
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    "but I’m okay with a fwb situation....I’ll date and get sex when I want 🤷🏾‍♀️ Only contacting each other for sex will keep it uncomplicated."

    Famous last words....

  • Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by Mutabull
    You obviously want more and he isn’t at the same place as you. Are you ok with him sleeping with other people at the same time as you? You are basically going to be a friend with benefits or a booty call with someone you wanted a relationship with... sounds like disappointment waiting to happen.

    Why would he pursue you? If you don’t give him sex, he has other options.. don’t hold your breath.


    I wouldn’t say I wanted a relationship cause it was too early to know that...but I’m okay with a fwb situation....I’ll date and get sex when I want 🤷🏾‍♀️ Only contacting each other for sex will keep it uncomplicated.


    As long as you think you will be ok with it... i couldn’t do that with someone i really liked, enough to have “the talk” with.

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    I felt myself starting to like him so I was like you know what? Let me see what’s going on before I allow feelings to develop....
  • Mutabull
    female
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by Mutabull
    You obviously want more and he isn’t at the same place as you. Are you ok with him sleeping with other people at the same time as you? You are basically going to be a friend with benefits or a booty call with someone you wanted a relationship with... sounds like disappointment waiting to happen.

    Why would he pursue you? If you don’t give him sex, he has other options.. don’t hold your breath.


    I wouldn’t say I wanted a relationship cause it was too early to know that...but I’m okay with a fwb situation....I’ll date and get sex when I want 🤷🏾‍♀️ Only contacting each other for sex will keep it uncomplicated.
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    As long as you think you will be ok with it... i couldn’t do that with someone i really liked, enough to have “the talk” with.

  • Yeah don’t do it girl.

    If u needed this talk after 2months u probably should have not slept with him before a relationship talk.

    Oh well lesson learned.
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