Aries man, Scorpio woman and confusion.....

I am a Scorpio, my man is an Aries. He never says "I missed you" but "I missed you...maybe...a little" complete with a sly smile. It took us dating for 6 months before I finally was awarded the title of girlfriend. He knows I love him but he always says he isn't quite there yet and to give it time. Is this typical Aries behavior? I have never dated an Aries before but he is all that I have ever wanted: exciting, highly sexual, manly, and self confident. I am always frustrated because I want to be the most important thing in his world (I can admit I am rather selfish like that) but I always feel as though I rank considerably lower. 😢

I feel as though I should back off a little, but my overly compulsive nature....let's just say it's a battle without end.

I would rather he be the way he is right now then to declare his undying love so early on..I think its cute how he's saying it!..I wouldn't believe anyone who utters those 3 words without any substance...I think your expecting way too much too soon...go with the flow..enjoy every minute of it..he will stick around...

Don't have expectations, less chance of being disappointed. If you expect to be his "be all and end all", your heading for a breakdown..The only person getting hurt in that scenario will be you...Just take it in your stride...I am with an Aries and although he hasn't declared his undying love (6 months on)...I totally know that he cares and I trust him..which is very rare for a Scorpio (as you know).

But otherwise...Awwwww totally enjoy it!

🙂

Run.

They fall out of love just as quick....Easy come easy go as they say...

"They fall out of love just as quick....Easy come easy go as they say..."

MM...love comes in different forms. There was a time when I used to love myself...then I started loving my friends. For a long time I loved my scorpio soul mate till she decided to rewrite my destiny. Now I love my nation, my mom, dad and sis, and my people on and off. I also love my ideals. But I don't know what shape my love will adopt tomorrow.

Your right Gaurav, theres all kinds of love...however, what I was referring to was the kind of love you feel for your partner (as I am sure you are aware)..I guess the phrase "easy come easy go" applies to infatuation...Love is slow to grow...you can start with infatuation and then it eventually grows into something stronger I don't know....all I do know is that pull between Aries & Scorpio is truly magnetic..I wouldn't have ever believed it..but it really does pull at the heart strings..Your heart literally aches for that person to be with you..You can't last two minutes in the same room yet you can't bear to be away from each other either...so surreal, yet so nice..

Its very hard to define love in this day and age..the word is slightly downtrodden and has taken a beating over the years..

* He never says "I missed you" but "I missed you...maybe...a little" complete with a sly smile.

He is flirting with you.

* He knows I love him but he always says he isn't quite there yet and to give it time. Is this typical Aries behavior?

Believe him. I have a funny feeling that he doesn't feel accepted. He seems more playful and you want him to be serious. i.e. YOU want him to say "I miss you" but his way of being is more playful. He is playing with you and teasing you when he says, "I missed you ... maybe ... a little". Instead of a cute come back like "Maybe ... I missed you .... a little too .... or maybe not" then give him a huge hug delighted, you feel upset and let down.

There maybe a fundamental incompatibility here and both of you may be feeling misunderstood and feel as if your needs are unmet.

"how can you love people on and off gaurav?"

They rotate places in terms of priority.

"and how is it possible that your ex 're-wrote' your destiny........was she it's author??"

Important influences have shaped my psychology and my behavior shapes what I do in life.

"love can only emanate from a person that loves themselves."

What if certain events teach U to love Urself ?

"the word is slightly downtrodden and has taken a beating over the years.."

I agree. But I would still blame a scorpio for that 😛

Gaurav: "I agree. But I would still blame a scorpio for that"

LOL..Of course naturally you would have to blame someone..why not a Scorpio..afterall we don't live in the dillusional sense of the word..lol 😛

Roxi: Oh Rox...lets not always be bitter about the Aries experience...please always refer to the good experience you had rather with one than the bad one...for my sake..I need some kind of solace..lol. And you are right it can apply to all relationships..but not every one of them..certainly not for me..

Yes Roxi..lol..that is fine...I can't go overboard with the whole affections thing..not my style ..he isn't the best things that walked the planet..and I would never tell anyone they are..we'll leave the flattery to the fire signs and Libra!..LOL..he's just a man....and an adorable one at that..as I am sure other men can be too..

Deivil....Poor baby in a dilemma..do whatever you feel like doing..

"He knows I love him but he always says he isn't quite there yet and to give it time. Is this typical Aries behavior?"

Hey Merc,

With me personally, I am not very quick to fall in love or to express my feelings (me thinks it may have something to do with my Cappy moon) I take my time, I will be with a man for awhile and see who he really is before I share my feelings. I also will not say anything if I do not mean it. When I say it, I mean it. Words are important to me, not something I throw around for kicks. Not really sure about your guy and his reasons...I do agree with LS and him possibly not feeling accepted.

When it comes to serious relationships....us rams do not mess around.

Hope all is working out for you M!

Freebird is the female version of my man....Cappy moon and not quick to declare his undying love..I prefer that method..I cannot stand people who start saying I love you the minute they see you..I would just tell them to go screw themselves..It's just soo fake..

Aww...bless...Well a month had passed..come on..Scorpios can make up their mind about someone at first meeting...so that combined with Aries impulsiveness..lol..bobs your uncle as they say! But I am generally not fond of those kind of declarations..and I would question it till he proved it via actions..not words...and I guess in your case he did...