Self absorbed, arrogant, Mister "I can have anything i want whenever i want" - 27 year old boy. Aries. Lives the ultimate life with dads money, sex drugs and rock'n'roll. He's got the looks, the cash, the attitude, the size. He's got the whole package. But its empty. Not the man you'd wish to be your husband. Not even your boyfriend. Maybe a friend, with few benefits if you're strong enough to handle his standing-tall and proud chickeny attitude afterwards.
I met him through friends on a night out. I immediately thought wow.. he's really good looking. Later on I got disgusted by his Richie Rich attitude. Ignored him completely the whole night. He was all over me, desperately trying to impress me. We ended up having a laugh, pissed drunk, directly to his flat.. having sex all night until the morning after. I walked the walk of shame home, regretting my drunkness, but thoroughly pleased. (detail: just got out of a 7 year relationship 6 months ago, he's the first i slept with after my ex in 7 years). don't ask me why him. it just happened.
A week after we meet again at a bar, he's with his mates. We speak but no sex. He asks my friend for my number, txts me at 5am - I didn't reply as sleeping. He leaves abroad. I forget all about him.
Two weeks ago i receive a text at 2am saying where are u? I'm back for few weeks. We meet at that night, have explosive sex, 3 times in a night. The following day again. And again. And it lasted the whole week. No texts in between, no sweet talks. Just animalistic, full-on sex.
After the last time we had it, he said he has never had such a beautiful experience, and asked what is he gonna do without me all these months abroad. He asked if i think it was an accident or karma that we met right before he leaves, and started these sweet talks etc. BULL BUTTER. My response to those was that Im sure he won't have trouble finding it elsewhere.
He txted me Thursday saying he had an amazing time, I said the same.
Friday we were at the same bar, he said clearly in front of his mate that we were having sex - DISRESPECTFULLY WORDED... i left the bar after while after with the girls texting "i wasn't expecting that from you" and he texted nothing back. Saturday - again at the same local bar - and guess what? he ignored me completely, didn't even say hi, pretended to not see me etc. His friends all said hi and later on they all moved right near to where we were sitting. Then they all left and that was it!
Found out that HE left ABROAD the following Monday and didn't even say bye.. etc. etc.
Am i mistaking in thinking that when you share great experiences with another person, you ought to say hi when you see them outside. You ought to say bye before you leave abroad. I need to get my revenge one way or the other.. so far I haven't been in touch. Pretended to not care that he disrespected me like that but it doesn't feel quite right!!!! He needs to understand that he can't treat people this way.