Aries Men/Cancer Women

Okay I have an Aries friend whois very sweet...but he is also very forward...me being a Cancer, this makes me a little uncomfortable. Well he doesn't live in my area and has proposed to come and see me or vice versa and I told him I was unable to right now for certain reasons and that probably later on this Month would be better. Anyways I tak to him last Sunday and Tuesday of this week. Well the last time I talk to him he sounded irritated. I told him to call me back because he sounded tired and he snapped and told me "no, when I want to get off the phone I'll tell you" he said that ac ouple of times, but I could tell he was irritable.......So the next day I text him and tld him that he should try to get more rest because he seemed very tired lateley and etc.....Well he hasn't called me or anything since then and I was wondering if maybe I might have done or said something that might have turned him off....or maybe he is just busy...Can I get some advice on ARies men...

Hello softy, and welcome.

is this an online thing? Did you guys meet in a chat room- er something like that?

The on-it's-face opinion I have for you is, something wrong when a guy snaps at you when you show concern for his well being. However, he may have thought you were trying to blow him off. In cases where you feel you're being butt of his emotional issues, then just say, "hey, I'm a bit tired, and I gotta run." That way, you appear less like you're making a decision for him, and more like you're ready to end the conversation.

Anyway, if he's that bent out of shape-- and he doesn't call you, then I wouldn't call him either. Doesn't seem like a big deal to mess up a good friendship over- also, ariens love a chase... and if he senses that you're tripping over your feet to keep him happy-- he'll label you as a "no challenge" and move on.

At least this is how my ex was. The minute I stopped trying to get his attention, he was all over me.

Good luck.

Thank You STD.....I met him when I was out of town for leisure. I haven't called him since and he hasn't called me...I had atrted to give in to his advances a little..so that have been it..I don't know...it may be nothing...but I am now officially backing off.....

how long ago was this?

This was Tuesday

hmm.. I dunno. Sometimes people need their space. What you described in your post doesn't seem like a reason to stop talking to someone, but everyon reacts differently.

Well when I talk to him on Tuesday he was really tired and his job is very very physical,,he also sounded a little depressed...Being a Cancer I sense other peoples moods immediately..even if they are trying to hide them....He was telling me how sometimes he just feels like passing out after work...and he was complaining quite a bit....so hopefully he just needs some space. we didn't talk every night anyway....but just realized that I was starting to like him more and maybe thats why I am feeling the way I do...