For Sloan..~Aries Male!

Hi Sloan~

I came across this site and thought of you...hope it helps!

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The ARIES Man
He said, "I go my ways

And when I find a mountain-nil

I set it in a blaze ..."

"So either way

I'll get into the garden,

and I don't care what happens."

That creature over there making a phone call-is it an electrically charged dynamo? Is it a flaming torch? is it a bird, an explosion-or is it Superman? Well, practically. It's an Aries male, which is pretty close. Let's hope you know what you're looking for. Should it be excitement, an Aries man will provide it by the bushel, with seldom a dull moment to blur the sparkle. But if you're looking for the security and contentment of a soothing love, you're in the wrong telephone booth.

Aries can overwhelm you with passionate ardor one mintue, and be as icy as a polar bear the next. Insult him or lose his interest-either or both-and that warm, im??pulsive Mars nature will freeze instantly. To ignite it again may mean starting all over from Act One, Scene One.

Aries men are fairly bursting with ideas and creative energy. Keeping up with him may be tiring, but keep up you'd better. At least mentally. Aries has a way of leaving the snails behind and not glancing back. He'll probably look and act younger than springtime, which is all very delightful, but his youthful aura may carry over into his mental and emotional attitudes until he's matured, which won't be early in life. The Aries man is impatient with slow pokes, bold and confident, always ahead of others, and sometimes ahead of himself as well. He can be the soul of generosity, giving his time, money, sympathy and possessions by the carload cheerfully to strangers. But he can also be exasperatingly intolerant, thoughtless, selfish and demanding, when his desires are delayed, or he's forced to be around negative people.

When it comes to love, his heedless attitude is abso??lutely amazing. He'll plunge into an affair, positive that this is the only true love ever known by any two people ever born, with the possible exception of Romeo and Juliet. When it breaks in half, hell pick up the pieces, and try every angle he can think of to salvage the dead romance. If it's beyond repair, hell start all over again with a new Juliet, and it will be like the very first time. No matter how many romantic mistakes he makes, the ram is sure his true love or soul mate is just around the next dream. Unless you're a Scorpio female, the Aries man is as passionate as any woman could ask. There's little left to desire. He's so idealistic and susceptible to sentiment, he'll squeeze all the tingles, sighs, ectasies and poetry it's possible to squeeze out of a relationship. Aries isn't capable of going halfway. He gives all of himself to the burning interest of the moment.

You may be involved with one of the quieter sheep. Don't let him fool you. He's still ruled by Mars. He doesn't talk much right away? He's not openly exuberant and pushy? Yes, I know one, too. But take my word for it, if you could see inside that hard head, you would discover that his brain is spinning at approximately two hundred revolutions per second. Any time you meet this kind, one who doesn't at first appear to have the typical Mars drive, check the present record of the business he's conducting. You'll soon be convinced you're dealing with an Aries. Then ask his ex-girl friends. They'll probably answer with a giggle. "Him? Bashful? Timid? You must mean someone else." After a while, you should begin to get the picture. That quiet demeanor is a mask for a fiery heart and a tough business drive. Naturally, it's easier when you're in love with a plain, simple ram, who makes it obvious just how enthusiastic he is about everything from potato chips to moonlight and motor trips.

No other Sun sign can be so scrupulously faithful as Aries when he's really in love for keeps. Hi

Frebird.....
THANK YOU!!!!!!! I will print this and keep it. Thank you honey!! You're the best!

Boy is she. I am very impressed with Freebird to type for so darn long for you sloane. In fact, all you gorgeous ladies impress the heck out of me. . . got to hand it to you Freebird. What a dedicated friend you are. There is honor in your efforts for a friend! We all should be so lucky to recognize such friendship, and at outrageously long distances !!!!

You are so very welcome, Sloan..glad I was able to be of some help to you.

Polaris...I wish I could take all the credit that you are giving me sweetie but..I played detective and found this really cool site and copied the above info. Thank you for your wonderful compliments Polaris. By the way...you intrique me with your writing and playfulness. Glad you are here sparking up the place!

Freebird, you deserve the compliments. I love to speak from the heart. I really dont know how I found this site, but, I got to say, it is an eye opener. You girls flip me out with your openess and apparent honesty. There has been a couple of times I got wound up reading what you ladies have wrote. For me, I can write what I honestly feel. There is no reason to be fake or BS here, and if I can make someones day, I will, cause that makes me feel good. There is only one of me ! I just wish this was one of those sites where we could all talk at the same time. Everyone seems to be in a different time zone or not available when anyone else is. Say, have you ever been to the Kingston Drag Strip ? Any of the go-kart tracks where they race, Goldsboro, Rose Hill, or Roseville — Just wondered. I lived down there for almost 4 years. I have some excellant memories from there.

Wow Freebird,

That was Aries to a "T". My ex was an Aries and You nailed that personality, it takes my breathe away just reading it.

Sloane, don't take this wrong, but be very, very sure you want to start this one up! It could be a lifer!!!

Take care,

C-girl

C-Girl, is lifer bad? In the military, lifer wasnt good if you were a radical.

Sloane, are you so smitten, you no longer print much? R U OK — Ya know it is spring time, frogs are singing, birds are fluffing, geese are flying. . . . hey, speaking of geese, does anyone know anything about "hummingbirds" (this is a serious question btw) as in the little ones heading south and now back north? Do they ride on the backs of geese— Somebody has got to know this one, . . .please?

Hello all,
Firebird that was true to the "T".
Sloan, what is your sign. Just curious I'm new.

I'm a Libra.

freebird...do you have that info for capricorns and scorpio's as well?

Okay, today..I got into a slight argument with my Aries man at work. I wasn't pulling in enough sales so I got sent home. I brought up my greivances with the head boss and cuitie aries stepped in to give his now usual mantra which I find irritating. "You must of done something wrong"...seems to be his motto and this irks the hell out of me when I have a perfectly viable excuse. Maybe perhaps I could of done a better job but I've noticed he has a perfectionist streak in him. He's the kinds guy that expects you to get it right the first time. My close freind who has the same birthday (month and day only) has the same charachteristics!! I hate it!!

Any thoughts?

I just wonder if this is going to make me hate him...

Hi Sloan~

I hope you don't mind a female Aries P.O.V as I would like to throw some things out there....I know the male Aries is different than the female but...impatience is one thing that we are to work on in this lifetime. My mom ALWAYS said to me..."patience is a virtue" I never knew what the heck she was talking about and I really did not care as I was having too much fun "playing with life" (somethings never change)...anywho ---- Sloan, yes we can be perfectionist and maybe once one realizes that is in our nature one may not take it personally. I used to be that way but not as bad as the guys...I know some Cappy men that are worse! I have learned to let things go and all will be fine. He is not on that path yet and may not ever be..who knows. So, we cannot change a person but WE can change how WE deal with it. It seems to me that you really do like him...is it possible that you can share to him how you feel? Aries are so open to that an he will admire you being honest with him. He may not even know what he is doing (I have been quilty of that myself, who hasn't) Work with him...communicate...tell him how you feel and don't expect anything maybe just express your feelings for YOU....and then let it go. I'm thinking here that we are put into situations so that we can grow from them. Hope I am making some sense here...bottom line, share yout thoughts with him and how it makes you feel. What can you lose?

Those are my thoughts....to ride life with an Aries can be so much fun and it can also be...hmmmmm "different". So I have been told.

Let me know what you think Sloan...my best to you..

Hi Pato~

Were you looking for the male or female of those signs or both?

hi freebird, cap female, scorp male. thanks!

hi sloane, i have friends...she is libra, he is aries...they've been married over 20 yrs. can't imagine them with anyone else, but each other. he does seem to put her down alot though.. she laughs about it. they have 2 great kids. it can work. best of luck.

OOooooo, Pato...I could never be with someone who 'puts me down'. That would piss me off. BUT, I always have read that Aries and Librans are cery compatible..esp..with a male Aries and female Libra.

Thank you Freebird for your input!!

I thought all day about him and decided to not fight him. He has too much pull in the company. He also has SCORPIO IN HIS MOON!! (yikes...watch out)

Pato....I posted your request on the Cap and Scorp board...hope it is what you are looking for.

Sloan, you are so very welcome.

I have this wonderful Libra male friend who has been my friend for many years. He has shared with me so much of his past life, his girlfriends and whatever else. Last spring we began walking in the park together and sharing our stories. I find him very soothing to my soul..a quietness about him. For the past few weeks he has been distant and I thought that I had said or done something as this is so not like him. I called him one night and he said, no I did not do anything. Okay, I thought...days went on and he still seemed far away...I let him be and thought when he is ready, he will come. Today he came up to me as his friendly self and said that I never did anything and he could never be mad at me. He also asked me to walk in the park with him when the weather warms up. For the first time in a long time....my heart smiled and it emerged from my face and there was no hiding my feelings. YIKES>>>>>> no!!!! I cannot be falling for him, he is MY FRIEND. He is in a relationship but it has never been a good one, she was cheating on him and he went back to her...silly him. Didn't mean to yap so much..Aries and Libras do have some sort of an attraction...it is that "opposite" thing that connects us...ya know like positive and negative energy—? I will close for now....

Hi Sloane, sorry to see you had a bad time today, I am sure you did not deserve that "automatically its your fault" type of attitude. Obviously, the boss dosnt believe in "Participative Management" which only serves those who are good at finding fault and someone to blame. Not that I know anything, but, I have been there, a few times! I agree wholeheartedly with Firebird, and I dont know how anyone else would bring it up to him, but, myself in this case, I would first go to him or both for that matter,and start out with something like " I really need a moment of your time if possible, as well as some input from you." When they say, sure, then you say, "I am really sorry about yesterday, is it OK if I say what I think so you will understand ?" Chances are they will again say sure, then you start your next sentence with "I think " and you can honestly say what you think out loud. You dont have to be abusive, and naturally you want to keep your language under control. Once you have permission to say what you think, you can say anything you think, to get your point across. Like, . . ." I think I was treated unfairly when you said this or that. I was hurt, and shocked to think that you thought whatever when you said whatever. I think you treated me in a disrespetful manner, especially when I thought we were a TEAM. I want our team to be successful, and if I am doing whatever wrong, then instead of assuming the worst, I would sincerely appreciate your input as to what I need to do differently in the future. I care about our future, and I try to treat everyone like I want to be treated. I am not perfect, by any means, but, I would like to think that in your place, I would at least look at both sides of the line, get a feel for what other team members are feeling, before I say something negative. Give me positive input to build on. I care what our team members think, is it wrong for me to think you should care about us?
Now I am sorry I am longwinded, but, you are a libra, you are intelligent, who better to put forth thoughts on what is fair or balanced. Think everything through before you make your speech. Weigh your options. Now if after you have bent over, and he still treats you crappy, then go to phase II. Put exlax in his coffee ! If he dont drink coffee, then make some brownies with exlax, put them on a plate (preferably paper)with a note, hope you like these as much as I like working with you, signed, An Unknown Admirer. You should not hate him or them, but, I think it is OK to hate what they do !
I know I am a bad boy, but, if I dont get treated fair, I find some way to get even so I can LMAO. Of course, you can always just turn your cheek, consider this some kind of lesson for future references. . . . Or, crazy glue his pen to the desk, or his mountain dew. . . . Or, . . . find the right phone he will be standing near, put white grease on the ear part, have someone page him to that phone, and watch his face when he realizes he has been nailed !
I probably did not help, but, I hope you at least got a smile thinking about doing things you shouldnt. And who knows, next week, you will be treated with respect, and you will forget this other business. You have got to be a nicer person than me. I am just someone who has had too many lessons in life on how to bend over, and the only way to feel better about myself, is to have a tiny bit of payback,, . . . . .sometimes. . . . . .Just dont burn any bridges you may have to cross again sometime.

Polaris, what excellent advice you have given..where were you when I needed you about 2 mos. ago? I did something that I have NEVER done before in my life. I had this friend (thought he was a friend) and he lied to me (this is what set it off but there were many other things buried that apparently errupted all at once for me) I had emailed him a note that said, "you are not the man I thought you were and I do not need your friendship in my life..do not call, email or come by my home. I do however wish the best for you in life."

He did some stalking which scared me, played mind games, was very selfish, did not keep his word, not my type of man. Anywho...your line, "Just don't burn any bridges you may have to cross again sometime." hits home for me. I suppose now when I look back I could have done things a little bit different....he hurt me to the core in many ways. I do know that I will not say this to anyone ever again and I will deal differently in this type of situation should it happen again...naw, let's hope it does not or if I begin to see "red flags" I'm flying outta there quick as an ostrich running on a lit gas line. I cannot go back and change what I did...I can only forgive myself and move on. They say time heals all wounds but we don't forget the words that were said to us....oh well...this bird will eat worms!

Freebird, time does heal the wounds, and we all would love to go back and do something different than we did. BUT, . . If this person hurt you that bad, did the stalking thing, it looks like maybe you did the right thing there, even if it hurt like crazy doing it! There is nothing worse than being hurt to the core by someone you love and trust. I think the older we get, the more we realize our parents said some pretty smart things that we did not listen to until it was too late. You obviously learn from mistakes. I have burned some bridges like no ones business, and even when I knew I was burning a bridge, I refused to back up and start over. There was more times I was sorry for that, than not, I can tell you. What is the deal with the Life Savers ??

BTW You were up late today! And you are absolutely right, Aries and Libras do get attracted to each other alot. . . and for all of the right reasons !!

Good day my friend, Polaris....and what might those "right reasons" be? may I ask——

just a wondering...oh, you wanted to know what Life Savers meant. Hmm...well, let's see here. They are colorful flavored candy that comes all wrapped up and is for sucking on. They are round with a hole in the middle.

Larger size models of these are used on boats for saving lives however, they are not candy. So, do I now have you totally confused or what? what is up in your world today—?

Hi Freebird, dont you hate it when you hit the wrong key and wipe out everything you just typed? I just did that again, and it sucks cause I thought I did a good job. My right reasons are kind of selfish on my part, but, I get along so good with aries. The ones I know have a lot of my favorite traits, loyality to a friend, we think alike when it comes to what we think is cool, we usually agree on things readily, but, we know it is OK to disagree, and we have. As my friends, I know them to be forgiving, they know me to be honest. When they talk about being so "good looking" I love to give them crap about being stuck on themselves, in a fun way, not harmfully degrading. They like alot of the same things I do, so, why would I not think Aries and Libras attract? Anyway, just my personal observation.
Life savers, . . .I love em and I love their popsicles excellant taste, and I am very picky. I just had a hint that I maybe missed something about lifesavers, like a joke or something, yet, I dare not say anymore than I wikey too.
As for today, I did some job shopping, finding out, checking on an interview I have been waiting for. Picked up another small carpentry job to pass the time, make a couple bucks. My favorite thing to do, would be to own a decent restaurant. I am such a picky eater. Arent you ? Not confused yet, close sometimes, but patient, and waiting for my teacher.

SLOANE, . . . .where did you go ?? You are officially listed as MIA. Give us a sign that you are still alive and well. Helllloooooooooo —??

Yes, Polaris...it does drive me nuts when we put all the time, energy, and ourselves into a piece of quality work and then....*poof* just like that it has disapeared into the unknown...never to see the light of day...go figure. Oh well.... this post is quite interesting by the way. I agree with you that Aries and libra do get along very well....there is a "balance" there along with respect for the other person. Hold up a sec...gotta get some milk choc. chips..BRB. Ahh...ever experience heaven on earth—? I am right now 🙂 Life is good my Libra pal.

Okay, back to you...knowing that it is okay to disagree is such a wonderful feeling...to be able to have the freedom to express yourself without judgement and to work out whatever it is that needs working on. Yep, this is what I enjoy...the balancing, the creating of a great relationship...it is like creating life. Choices. Your personal obeservation is right on in my book...thanks for sharing 🙂 Us Aries sure are loyal to friends until they disrespect us and then it is all over...no looking back...the end. I have had people ask me how I do that...just let go and move on...well, respect is very important to me and I respect all of my friends and whomever I meet. I expect the same....now, if it is just an aquaintence and they disrespect me....then no problem, they will not become a "friend". Tough cookies are we not?

Good luck with your interview Polaris...I hope the best for you. Wow, a restaurant? Nice...I would come and dine there forsure ya know? What type of restaurant would float your boat? What are you creating in that intelligent mind of yours? You ask if I am a picky eater...heck NO....I love all kinds of food..however, I am picky about what I put into my body so that I remain healthy because my goal is to live to be in the 100's. Someone needs to be in charge of the wheelchair races ya know....Hey, maybe I will send a funny here...watch for it okay?

I hope Sloan is not located on the back of a milk carton...please, Sloan give us a holla!

Subject: A day at the nursing home
> >An old lady in a nursing home is wheeling up and down the halls in
her
> >wheelchair making sounds like she's driving a car.
> >As she's going down the hall an old man jumps out of a room and says,

> >"Excuse me ma'am but you were speeding." "Can I see your driver's
license?"
> >She digs around in her purse a little, pulls out a candy wrapper, and

hands
> >it to him.
> >He looks it over, gives her a warning and sends her on her way.
> >
> >Up and down the halls she goes again. Again, the same old man jumps
out
of a
> >room and says,
> >"Excuse me ma'am but I saw you cross over the center line back
there."
> >"Can I see your registration please?"
> >She digs around in her purse a little, pulls out a store receipt and
hands
> >it to him.
> >He looks it over, gives her another warning and sends her on her way.

> >
> >She zooms off again up and down the halls weaving all over.
> >As she comes to the old man's room again he jumps out.
> >He's stark naked and has an erection!
> >The old lady in the wheel chair looks up and says,
> >"Oh no-not the Breathalyzer again!"

OMG Now that one cracked me up. Can you imagine that one on tv — You really are a stinker, but, I do like stinkers, after all, birds of a feather, flock together, snow what I mean —

I'm here...just been real busy with work. That joke is funny. I love dirty jokes.

My adorable Arien babe and I are getting along just fine. Unfortunately he went back to smoking but I can handle that. He's so cute he makes me nervous.

Ever feel that? You're so attracted to a guy that he makes you nervous?

Sloane, honestly, the only times I had a guy make me nervous was once when a cop chased me with his lights on, I finally pulled over and he gave me a ticket. The other time, when I went into the military, they gave us a complete physical, and when the strange dude who acted like he was the doctor, was coming down the line, grabbing each guy and telling them to cough, . . man, . . I was so nervous, I could not hardly cough, . . . or even breath. . . . I thought he would never let go !!!!! Sorry, OK, I will be serious, . . . I have had that happen to me many moons ago, when I was around certain women on a couple of occasions. . . . whose looks and personalities made me so nervous, I could not crack a joke or carry on a normal conversation. All I could think of doing was making sure I did not say something stupid, or I would worry about my hair looking right, wonder if she liked the way I dressed, all the time, wishing I could just say what was on my mind. . .you know, stuff like, the things you notice that you really like about the other person. . .the way they smell, their hair, their hands, most people like to be complimented, but, in those few situations, I think I was so mesmerized with whom I was with, I was just enjoying being there with them. . . YOU KNOW and then afterwards, you kind of think, OH crap, why didnt I do this or that . . .