In LOVE W/ an Aries Male

Gotta mad, mad crush on a very good looking Arien guy. Anyone have any tips on how to entice him? Or what to avoid?
Thanks.

You can entice him easily if he thinks you believe he is good looking. The only arien guys I know are stuck on themselves. !

Hi everyone!!!

Hmmmm. Well Polaris...that doesn't sound good...that sounds more like a Leo trait to me but then,,Aries IS a fire sign just like Leo. This babe I am infatutaed with is very confident in himself which I like. He has the same birthday as my very good freind whom I have known for 14 years and that's a good sign I think. Any more input or ideas—

Chances are, he loves a good prank! He definitely likes the teasing department, and I am not talking just physically. He likes an intelligent woman, who at times appears to know she is an excellant catch, if she is interested in him. He probably likes electronic games or some card games. Sometimes, he is opinionated, and you need to tell him the truth about what you really do think or feel, but, . . only when you know he thinks something that is untrue! Think about your friend of 14 years, and the things you have fun doing together. You like car,motorcyle or snowmobile races? Chances are, he does. Be honest,. . . how bad do you want him— Come on tell us !

What is his birthdate? What is yours? How close are you already in age? (Not that age matters that much when it comes to the heart) Unless you are too young!!!

Sloane, you are so interesting. Some of things you write are funny. Obviously, you and Libragirl would get along in an excellant fashion. You are certainly not boring! You seem to have an awful lot to offer your friends. Maybe you should open up more. You can have an exciting time with your friends, think of the possibilities! Hey, dont limit yourself. In fact, you are one of the neatest people I have read about here the last few days. I am new to this stuff, so, it is great. I lost my job to Mexico, and now am in the throws of job shopping, and I am definitely over 40, so, guess what, it sucks getting out there again!

Sloane, you are so interesting. Some of things you write are funny. Obviously, you and Libragirl would get along in an excellant fashion. You are certainly not boring! You seem to have an awful lot to offer your friends. Maybe you should open up more. You can have an exciting time with your friends, think of the possibilities! Hey, dont limit yourself. In fact, you are one of the neatest people I have read about here the last few days. I am new to this stuff, so, it is great. I lost my job to Mexico, and now am in the throws of job shopping, and I am definitely over 40, so, guess what, it sucks getting out there again!

Well , his birth date is 4-14-79--he's a youngin'..but I don't care...Gawd..he's so damn cute!!!! And sexy and smart and magnetic and confident. I'm definately older than him..almost ten years but you know what? I don't care. Life is short. You gotta take what you can get. You are certainly right about the teasing department--I think he is the type that likes that. And I can see him being into electronics. There's only two downsides if you wanna call them downsides...he's really slender...I mean, he's a skinny puppy. he could put on 20 pounds. But when you see that face and those big, gorgeous adorable brown eyes....oh you just melt. Second...it's in the workplace. Gotta be careful...you know?

PS...I found out he has Scorpio in his Moon sign. I have Saggitarius in mine. Hmmmm, water and fire...not a good match but if you know anything about moon signs..please elaborate!

Hey there Sloane,

I bet he has a swagger in his walk!!! Aries and Libra's are dynamic.

Candlegirl

What do you mean by dynamic ? Is that a good thing? As a Libra, I try to walk as smooth as I can. I am a people watcher, and I try to melt into the background, because I would rather watch others. I know, sounds weird, but, even in restaurants, I like to be in the corner, facing the room or doors, cause I like to watch people. I certainly dont want anyone to look at me because of my walk. . .at least not anymore . . . . . . .!!!!!

Hey Sloane, what is going on with you. . .Did we strike gold? Are you too busy having fun?

You know like a pirate. Picture Johnny Depp!

Anyway I to am a people watcher, only I choice not to be in the background.

Take care,

Candlegirl

Oh I'm around CG---just busy as hell with this job of mine and eyeing this damn cute and sexy Arien guy. I found out he drives a massive sized SUV--black of course...not at all what I thought he would drive. What does that tell you? When a guy drives a big SUV??

He has POWER—— I know a guy who drives a huge SUV..he loves power. Or can it mean that he wishes he had power and is insecure and the big car makes him feel powerful? I don't really know...just curious. Aries are not usually insecure folks..at least you won't ever think they are.

Sloan, find a great practical joke and play it on him April 1st..Aries love that kind of thing..they love surprises big time.

That is so true. They love practical jokes. Be aware, he will probably get you back. Maybe he needs a big SUV with a big motor cause he has toys he pulls on a trailer with the suv ! Or, maybe he likes to ride in style and not cramped! So, . . .Candlegirl, you like being watched? You like the attention? I do agree with you, . .Aries are not usually insecure, . . . at least they never let you know they are.

Sorry Robin, I meant I agree with you.But. Had to throw that in there with CG. She probably enjoys good pranks too!

Hey Sloane,

A massive SUV Like a HUMMER!!! Anywho, Aries is the Sign of the Ram, and like the classic Ram, they love to run up the sides of mountains, so to speak!!!
Very headstrong as well. Manly men!!! So I guess the ride speaks for itself.

Be sweet with the practical jokes however!

Hi Polaris,

I was just commenting on your post, that you like to watch people but stay in the background. No I don't like to be watched but I don't mind singing Karaoke either, though I suck at it!!!

Take care all,

Candlegirl

Well, if he can afford a hummer, holy crap. Let him buy! Make sure you pick where you go out to eat! Cant wait to hear the rest of this story! And Candlegirl, what is your sign? Western and Eastern— And you are right, Aries do like a good challenge when it comes to motorized vehicles! He probably gets a great charge out of horsepower! Hey Sloane, do you like 4 wheeling? Maybe he is into that, but, then I dont know where you are located, is there snow? What other toys does he have or have you not got that far yet——————

Candlegirl, you have more guts than me. I could never sing in public, . . .unless I had 7 or 8 fuzzy navels and 5 or 6 Mikes Lemonade with a shot of grape pucker in each one! How do you know you arent appreciated when you sing Karoke? What songs do you sing—Come on, it is OK Tell us!!

Candlegirl, what kind of songs do you sing? I dont have the nerve to sing in public. I would have to get shotfaced just to get near the mike!

Haven't gotten that far yet. Kinda hard to do when the office is super busy and he's stuck in the middle of the frenzy.

Howdy Sloane,

Are you getting shy sweet girl—

Hey Polaris I'm a crazy LEEBRA with a Scorpio rising and a LEEBRA moon. What sign are you?

About the singing!! Actually my husband and I do a pretty good Sonny and Cher, "I got you babe". Mostly I like Joan Jett and Pat Benatar or Janis Joplin, so I can really belt out the song!!! HAHA My Hubby does a Mean Louis Armstrong!

Candlegirl

Well, Candlegirl, I too am a crazy Libra, altho, I have mellowed out in the last few years. You are kind of a mystery to me. I like mysterys. You are so cautious, and I can not figure age or where in the world you live. You certainly are not boring,and I get the impression you are a steadfast friend. So,. . . help me play Sherlock Holmes !

You know, besides being a "people watcher" I do sing like crazy when I am in my garage ! I lock the door and crank up songs like, Boston, Led Zepplin, Styx,Pink Floyd, Kiss, Foreigner, especially if I am waxing and detailing my ride. Now, dont get me wrong, I also like singing along with the likes of Michael Bolton, Rod Stewart, Eric Clapton when I am (again) by myself feeling romantic or melancholy (sad?) you know . . . I love music. Throughout school, I played percussion instruments, yep, . . you guessed it, just another crazy drummer!!! I like Pat Benatar, and Janis Joplin, wild ladies in general, but, I could never sing along as good as I would like! BUT. . .I only sing when I am alone. What I do sing, I think sounds pretty good, but, I dont have the nerve to sing in public !

hi sloane, when i read about this guy and that you work with him, i had to write about flings in the workplace. you probably remember my dilema with my scorpio. i think you sent a post or two. well, he is also quite a bit younger, 17yrs, to be exact. he is also a coworker. that was almost a year ago. i felt exactly like you do. didn't care that he was younger. was drawn to him like a magnet. those eyes. well, we had our fling. and now it's over. we were serious for awhile, but the age thing did pose a problem and the other problem is now, of course, working with him. it's torture every day. please keep this in mind. i know the desire overrides the fact. i wish i wouldn't have fallen for him, maybe just kept those feelings to myself. i still love him, still want him. i cry. my heart breaks. and i go through this everyday at work. i have a good job and don't want to leave it. just think it over long and hard before you make a move to go in that direction. i know you're smart, because of the things i read from you. best of luck.

Pato..thank you. You're sbsolutely right. I can just imagine the emotional angst while coming into work IF we did have a a romp in the sack. Need to be careful. If though, I get another job somewhere else...then hell! I'll go for it.

Thanks for your knowledgable wisdom.

Oh Pato that is great advice. I didn't look at the work aspect. Although I did met my hubby at work, I never ever dated anyone from work before. I guess I can still say that because it worked out for me!!


Sloane,

I sent you an e-mail, didn't want to post all my thoughts on this board! Good Luck to you in everything..

Candlegirl

Candlegirl...I got your e-mail...thanks! Thanks for your input--I appreciate it.

As for my Aries man, I got into a slight argument with him today at work based on my performance. I've noticed that he has an irritating streak of perfection and likes to say "there's something that you must of done wrong" which seems to be his motto. This irks the hell out of me. I know I did a decent job. Any thoughts?

My close freind who also has his birthday is the same way!