Aries Sun/Virgo Moon with Cancer

Alot of people say Aries and Cancer are not compatible but I find this match overwelming good from the Cancer standpoint if the other placements are all there.

I am a Cancer/Pisces and my wife is Aries/Virgo and for some reason I like the fearlessness the way she loves more than any woman I have ever met. As a cautious cancer I never had met anyone who wanted to fight for me even when I was going through some emotional BS. Most people disappear but she stood by me and helped me actually get through it and made me a happier person. Its like she had faith in me and didn't demand me to change overnight.

Some people don't like the Aries control aspect but I actually like it and understand it somehow. They want to control yet because their work ethic is so strong and want to win om life. All you need to give is 100 percent loyalty, give them love and respect and they actually morph into the most feminine women I have ever seen behind closed doors.

Also my Venus is in Leo and hers is in Aries and its like we get so much passion in our love life. We really appreciate how free we can be around each other in what we say and do.

I also like to know what someone feels about everything and for some reason I feel the Aries boldness and Virgo honesty/precision are what Cancers need in emotional security. I may be a mystery around other people but to her I feel I can really be who I am.

Anyone have experiences with a Aries/Virgo sun/moon. I am interested to see people's thoughts/experiences.

Hightide, i agree im a cancerian lady, and when i was with my aries, he made me feel wonderful. I could realy relax around him and be me and we would be realy good together we both agreed on that. BUT, it was his lack of knowing what realy makes me tick. Deep down i am an emotional person and my past has affected me, he never did like me talking about it, he would say that i make excuses and evade the truth, then things would get worse and worse and he would then put his feelings first and leave in a huff saying 'you know where i am, this is your doing' then he would send me realy nasty texts about my family and he would say what my future life would be like, i.e on my own, my children will not visit, my late mother would have said i should have married him, he was awful, and what he would say last of all is that i made him say those things.

I am an aries/virgo. I dated 3 cancer men and thirty b-days are 7/5, 7/6, and 7/7. In the beginning of the relationships, they were all fun, not to clingy or crabby. But after awhile, they were all sulky. I had a child with one, we were together for 4 years. 4 years of me being there for him, taking care of his needs. His high opinions of himself, low opinions of me. When he had a bad day, that wad quite often, watch out! He'd pick quarrels with me. I was miserable. It got to the point that I agreed with him about everything, yes, cancer man, your right im a piece of shit, yes your right I don't know nothing, you know everything. That's the only way he'd be satisfied and shut the fuck up! Fast forward 10th years, we talk, we raised our son, but after that I would never date another cancer man! I guess it would all depend on the cancers moon, but cancer aries relationships that do work, more power to them🙂

Posted by raerae2one8
I am an aries/virgo. I dated 3 cancer men and thirty b-days are 7/5, 7/6, and 7/7. In the beginning of the relationships, they were all fun, not to clingy or crabby. But after awhile, they were all sulky. I had a child with one, we were together for 4 years. 4 years of me being there for him, taking care of his needs. His high opinions of himself, low opinions of me. When he had a bad day, that wad quite often, watch out! He'd pick quarrels with me. I was miserable. It got to the point that I agreed with him about everything, yes, cancer man, your right im a piece of shit, yes your right I don't know nothing, you know everything. That's the only way he'd be satisfied and shut the fuck up! Fast forward 10th years, we talk, we raised our son, but after that I would never date another cancer man! I guess it would all depend on the cancers moon, but cancer aries relationships that do work, more power to them🙂

Gosh my experience was similar. They say that Aries are controlling but Cancers try to control with the emotional crap. Two cardinal signs just seems like a recipe for disaster. Each person thinks they are right and justified in their feelings. Even though I love men that are water signs, I know to avoid Cancers.

Posted by HighTide
Also my Venus is in Leo and hers is in Aries and its like we get so much passion in our love life. We really appreciate how free we can be around each other in what we say and do.

Reminded by time we were leaning against the back of the couch smooching, somehow we both rolled onto it landing on carpet. Lions. 😄

Best as a magnificent short term affair.

hey need your help.

i want to get back with my ex of 7years who is an aries sun and virgo moon guy. i got caught often talking abt and to my crushes to my friend (but never actually dated them). the sex was sooo good with him, i also like when we share thoughts and feelings it was overall the best and most comfort relationship ive enjoyed (he said that as well abt me). this is our 2nd breakup; it went down : last june2017 he begged me to stay i asked him to marry me; he said hed proposed in october>> told my mom abt it shes a virgo and she didnt approve our relationship so she set me up with some guys (i cant say no to my annoying virgo mom) so i chose to be honest to my ex saying that she set me up and if hes serious with me just come in october. fast forward now 2018 hes got a new gf and k begged him to stay with me and there was shouting and yelling.

do you think we could mend things? do you think he still has feelings for me? pls tell me how to win him, make him miss and want me back thanks

our chart:

me

leo sun

gemini moon

cancer rising

leo mercury

leo venus

gemini mars

him

aries sun

virgo moon

aries mercury

aries venus

pisces mars

thanks!

Cancer female here...my last relationship was with an Aries male. He was alot of fun to hang out with, always up for playing and having fun. However he could never keep up with me mentally or physically. He also needed his ego stroked constantly...I became bored after a few months. We work better as friends.