aries too flirty?

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onesweetaries
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I have been told that I have a tendency to lead people on and come off as more interested than I actually am. Guys tend to think I have crushes on them, and girls all think I want to be their best friend. I was recently told I was a 'shameless flirt'

I truly genuinely like almost everyone I meet and I am always excited to get to know people more, but how do i stop myself form coming on too strong and hurting others without seeming cold?

I am not in anyway trying to be egocentric and act like everyone loves me, because that is not the case at all, I am just sick everyone becoming upset with me and ending up hating me for how I acted towards them.

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Posted by bkbella86
I have been told the same thing and I think thats how I gained so many friends over the years. Also it could be my Pisces moon because men always think im flirting as soon as I look them in the eye.




Don't be ridiculous, we don't act weird because you look us in the eye, and we think you are flirting. Silly idea that!
We act weird when you look in the eye because we melt inside when you look us in the eye, so there!!!!


Certainly told her, didn't I!
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Posted by bkbella86
I have been told the same thing and I think thats how I gained so many friends over the years. Also it could be my Pisces moon because men always think im flirting as soon as I look them in the eye.




Don't be ridiculous, we don't act weird because you look us in the eye, and we think you are flirting. Silly idea that!
We act weird when you look in the eye because we melt inside when you look us in the eye, so there!!!!


Certainly told her, didn't I!
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LMao well I must make alot of men melt and some woman too....
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ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Why do people get upset when we look them in the eye? Are we supposed to look at their knockers or their package?

I do make an effort to ensure that I only give off "I am just your friend/buddy" vibes.
This is to ensure that any guy who really is looking to pursue an actual relationship has to make a special effort to cross that moat. Then I know he is serious and not just a fling thing (took me a while to learn that lesson😉 but I figgered it out eventually!)
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Posted by dofacc
Posted by bkbella86
I have been told the same thing and I think thats how I gained so many friends over the years. Also it could be my Pisces moon because men always think im flirting as soon as I look them in the eye.




Don't be ridiculous, we don't act weird because you look us in the eye, and we think you are flirting. Silly idea that!
We act weird when you look in the eye because we melt inside when you look us in the eye, so there!!!!


Certainly told her, didn't I!
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God that was cheesy.

My toes are literally curling right now.
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The pisces moon huh? I have a pisces moon but im a libra...lol. Wow. I get called that too.

I was going to say my Aries is a people person but he's a "HIS people" person. Meaning all the people in his circle are hand chosen, he doesn't just have a swirm of friends. He doesn't trust people like that. Heck he's had a crush on me since we were kids, and up until this past summer i could barley get him to say 2 words to me.

However i found that picking with him, and playing with him got him to open up to me. Damn i love him.lol. His bday is Friday. March 23. He has a cancer moon and venus in Taurus.