aries and cheating

are aries the type to cheat?

No, we are very loyal and faithful. Not all but most of us , we don't like playing games or hurting people intentionally.

I would rather end the relationship but no to cheating

From my experience the answer is yes! The men that I know are mostly Aries and they all cheat or have cheated. Even my gay friend has a problem with cheating on his long time partner. As for the women including myself we are loyal but when we are betrayed we can become deceitful which from my personal experience is not worth it.

I'm also inclined to say yes from personal experience. I have only had one bf i didnt cheat on and thats because i fell in love with him instantly and I stayed in love with him until a few months after he broke my heart. Shit! I think it took me about two months after we broke up to just kiss someone else. The others -- ive always cheated in the very beginning when I didn't know it was going to get serious and at the end when I knew things were over and that it was just a matter of time. But while things were serious... I was 100 percent loyal, trustworthy and faithful.
The one I didn't cheat on always used to ask me why I was faithful to him and not the others and I used to tell him "because there's nobody else I'd rather be with". He would get upset with me about that when he asked me if that was the only reason and I said yes, but it's the truth. Not sure what other answer makes more sense to me than that! Why be in a relationship with someone if there are other people you'd rather be with?

My brother is totally against cheating but he's just one guy. I've heard stories about other Aries cheating so I guess it depends on the individual. If they're unevolved, they will cheat. take Cancers for example. They're supposed to be pretty faithful according to alot of websites but in real life, I'm the only Cancer I know that doesn't cheat.
So it's wise not to believe everything you read or hear.

I don't cheat because I have self-control and basic respect for my partner. I also do not like creating messy situations and cheating tends to do just that. I do not like to drag innocent people into my nonsense.

Posted by Brittannie
I don't cheat because I have self-control and basic respect for my partner. I also do not like creating messy situations and cheating tends to do just that. I do not like to drag innocent people into my nonsense.

well said. i don't understand the point of stringing someone along. it's a punkass move if you ask me. i'm either 100% in or i'm 100% out.

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Posted by Brittannie
I don't cheat because I have self-control and basic respect for my partner. I also do not like creating messy situations and cheating tends to do just that. I do not like to drag innocent people into my nonsense.

well said. i don't understand the point of stringing someone along. it's a punkass move if you ask me. i'm either 100% in or i'm 100% out.

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This.
And I have quite a few Aries buddies in my flock and it just would not happen.

Remember we are Aries. Keep it simple.
Would we want someone to do it to us? No.
No reason to do it to anyone else.

My sisters are both Aries, but I don't think they are cheats....And yet I have an Aries friend who cheated on his girlfriend. And then went out with me. And then got back with his girlfriend but wanted to continue seeing me! So maybe it's a man/woman thing.

I have an aries friend, (female) and she is the biggest whore I have ever known. She lives with her boyfriend of about 6 years and she cheats on him all the time. Last night she told me she slept with her neighbors husband! While her bf was at work. I am totally disgusted with her. She says they were "just talking" and drinking and it just happened? gtfoh! I pretty much want to end my friendship with her at this point. She has told me many stories over the years and she is just evil horny and dumb.

Posted by LadyLionness
I have an aries friend, (female) and she is the biggest whore I have ever known. She lives with her boyfriend of about 6 years and she cheats on him all the time. Last night she told me she slept with her neighbors husband! While her bf was at work. I am totally disgusted with her. She says they were "just talking" and drinking and it just happened? gtfoh! I pretty much want to end my friendship with her at this point. She has told me many stories over the years and she is just evil horny and dumb.

You should end it if you feel she is all those things. And this is a isolated situation, Aires are known for their honesty and loyalty on a whole we are not a sign known for cheating.

wow...i truly wish i hadn'tread this..lol

Posted by BloodofAries
wow...i truly wish i hadn'tread this..lol

Lol why?

no, not at all. all the we may get restless and bored easily, we are incredibly LOYAL and HONEST. we would probably dump somone quicly (and probably coldly) before we'd ever cheat. scorpios and geminis on the other hand could be a little problematic in that department.

I would like to assume that the Aries' who admitted to cheating or know of someone who has are in the early April cusp (1-5). I cannot admit that any Aries, including myself, born in the 20s-end of March and after the 5th of April that has cheated. It's something about those first four days of April! Someone correct me, please!

Posted by jdugan
I would like to assume that the Aries' who admitted to cheating or know of someone who has are in the early April cusp (1-5). I cannot admit that any Aries, including myself, born in the 20s-end of March and after the 5th of April that has cheated. It's something about those first four days of April! Someone correct me, please!

I know 5 born 1-5 April who have never cheated.(They tell me everything whether I want to hear it or not)

One actually met hubby #2 at a party while her divorce#1 was coming through.
She said it's really nice to meet you but my divorce is still not final. Here is my number, you can call me in 6 months (or whatever the timeframe was.) And he did. And they were married about 2 years after that.
No cheating.
Maybe my friends are just weird??

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Posted by jdugan
I would like to assume that the Aries' who admitted to cheating or know of someone who has are in the early April cusp (1-5). I cannot admit that any Aries, including myself, born in the 20s-end of March and after the 5th of April that has cheated. It's something about those first four days of April! Someone correct me, please!

I know 5 born 1-5 April who have never cheated.(They tell me everything whether I want to hear it or not)

One actually met hubby #2 at a party while her divorce#1 was coming through.
She said it's really nice to meet you but my divorce is still not final. Here is my number, you can call me in 6 months (or whatever the timeframe was.) And he did. And they were married about 2 years after that.
No cheating.
Maybe my friends are just weird??

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Maybe they are weird--or maybe astrology isn't the answer to everything. 😉
Clearly, I pointed out those days in April as fails and you pointed
them out as proofs. This all makes little cents like pennies.

Nah - could be me and my herd of Rams. I know many Arieses and the only firey hot head is my mother, rest of us are pretty cruisy laid back types.
Always up for a bit of mischief, but certainly not the loose cannons you see described in astrology guides at the book store.

Yes, I know we are more than just our Sun sign but I always feel a bit ripped off when we are all lumped in as love 'em and leave 'em hotpants types. I guess it just makes it worthwhile for someone who is prepared to look beyond our crummy Astro covers and discover a bit of a jewel underneath🙂

hmm my aries dad was a player when he was younger during highschool apparently, but changed when he met my mum he's been faithful to her eversince and they've been married for 20 years now ^_^ so ye i guess it just depends on the maturity level, not just for aries but for all the signs...

as for me, cheating is unacceptable and i would take no excuses for it...its just difficult to trust that person again...

Speaking purely for myself if I want you, I want you over and over and over and over and over and over and ......😉

Posted by jdugan
I would like to assume that the Aries' who admitted to cheating or know of someone who has are in the early April cusp (1-5). I cannot admit that any Aries, including myself, born in the 20s-end of March and after the 5th of April that has cheated. It's something about those first four days of April! Someone correct me, please!

I was born April 1st and I cheated when I was younger (16). A Leo Sun w/Venus in Gemini knew I had a boyfriend and hotly pursued me for months anyway. The cheating spanned for quite some time. It started as an emotional affair and became slightly physical- but not truly physical.

Since that episode, I've had 3 long-term boyfriends. I have not cheated on any of them- nor have I been tempted to even entertain the thought. I think some Aries don't really understand the ramifications of their actions until they actually commit them. Did any of you ever touch a stove burner when you were young- just to see if it was really as hot as your parents told you it was? I did- and came away with a nasty burn. Similarly, I didn't have any real understanding of how badly I would hurt my Libra boyfriend of 2 years when I cheated on him. Now that I have first-hand knowledge of how damaging cheating can be, I would never, ever betray a man ever again. I still harbor some severe guilt about my past decisions.

I think if an Aries has A) gotten the idea of cheating out of their system and B) has matured they are a very safe bet to be faithful in a relationship.

My favorite (female) cousin is an Aries, and she cheated for like 2yrs out of her 6 yr relationship. The guy she was cheating on is now her husband, and she's more faithful than ever and couldn't picture her life without him. I used to be around when she would cheat, and sometimes she'd break up with him so she could date other people freely then she'd run back to him if she thought he was moving on. She didn't want anyone else to have him because she knew he was a good man (sagg), I told her he was but if she didn't or couldn't love him the same in return by not cheating than she needs to let him go and stop being so selfish. I think in love Aries are selfish and a tad bit self-centered. Everything has to revolve around them, or they turn into drama queens or have a fit. At least thats my experience with the women. (sister, grandma, close friend, and my fav cousin, and other cousin) all female Aries.

The men on the other hand, yes they cheat too. But not when it's serious and committed on both ends. I don't know, I sort of think its like that with both male and female Aries. The only time they wont cheat is if they are 100% sure about the relationship and the person, and the relationship is serious. If not, I would keep my options open because they sure will. However keep in mind that they are selfish with their partners, they can step out but YOU cant. My cousin used to piss me off when she would do that to her sagg (her husband) she was cheating but if she found out he was so much as "talking" to another woman she went off the deep end on him. Smh.

Aries are the worst liars. If they tell you they love you and only you; then they 100% won't cheat. I cheated before only because I didn't know what I wanted or I felt bad not to end the relationship. Aries can have a lot of opposite-sex friends, but not to worry at all if she tells you she's yous and you have nothing to worry about. Aries will give you everything they have if you're the one. I mean EVERYTHING!

@Lobstermole... Your right about that! When my sister (Aries) got her first boyfriend whom eventually became her husband (gemini) she gave him everything except the air in her lungs. They are divorced now unfortuantely but there was no question in ANYBODY'S mind how much she loved him. And cheat on him? Get real!! She wouldn't even sleep with anyone else until they were seperated.

the aries i've been in a relationship with i just found out he's cheating and messing around with different chicks i really don't know what to say about him....

This is not sign specific

Posted by aries415
From my experience the answer is yes! The men that I know are mostly Aries and they all cheat or have cheated. Even my gay friend has a problem with cheating on his long time partner. As for the women including myself we are loyal but when we are betrayed we can become deceitful which from my personal experience is not worth it.

I've just found this out from my Aries man, on a dating website handing out his phone number and teeing up lunch/dinner dates, what is wrong with these Aries men—?

If a man and a woman established that they are in a committed relationship and guy cheats or whatever, then yes guy can be called a player??_

If a man and woman have NOT established they are in a committed relationship and guy is having relations with other women or whatever; then NO guy is not a player.

I notice when I am reading some of these posts about Aries men (players) some of the women aren't even in a committed relationship or one party is and the other party is not.

Establish that first.

Aries cheat!

My on-off Aries 'friend' was with me on Sunday, and today is writing little love messages on his ex-girlfriend/girlfriend/whoreallyknowsorcares wall.

Glad to say that by now I don't really care, though. I'm not even going to say anything to him about it.

I still say they dont cheat when they are 100% tototally committed to a person. If your the one you have nothing to worry about. If your not, you will know it by them doing dumb shyt like the stuff listed above, and if thats the case i'd keep my options open if i were you

Posted by ALibra
I still say they dont cheat when they are 100% tototally committed to a person. If your the one you have nothing to worry about. If your not, you will know it by them doing dumb shyt like the stuff listed above, and if thats the case i'd keep my options open if i were you

I do. It's her I feel for! Oh well!

I'm co-signing with Flavia.
Cheating is not sign specific. There's always an exception to the rule.

Bullshit. There's rule about cheating? What are they? You guys dont realize what women go through to keep you guys fucking happy. Even if we lower our own standards to accommodate you. I am a Taurus my ex was an april 9 arian male. Let me tell you he was a dog from the beginning. And I thought since I am the loyal honest caring lover type. Then why would you want to stray. But he was bad news and once you break my heart and trust. Its over. And the red flags definitely show. So trust your instincts..

no not really. I would say Venus in Aries is different than the sun sign Aries.

Aries don't cheat... We are very loyal but we have very childish ways to let you know we can have options if we chose to.

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Hey all you bitches talking shit about venus aries...Ive never cheated either so shove it up your ass 🙂

no one was talking shit about venus in aries, having an opinion doesn't mean talking shit. Calm down and get your panties out of a twist. And in terms of any of us being a bitch, if you wanna go there, come at me brah. I aint no punk ass bitch 😄 let the games begin ass hat

I've tried being tolerant on this site, but I love how these random ass fuckers like to use their damn internet muscles lmaoo

lol ram, I don't back peddle, even with random ambiguous internet remarks. Venus in aries does not automatically mean cheater...no one said they were lmao.

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lol ram, I don't back peddle, even with random ambiguous internet remarks. Venus in aries does not automatically mean cheater...no one said they were lmao.

Yes cap moon, no one in THIS THREAD said it. The point of this thread is whether or not ARIES cheat, not Venus in Aries. I was trying to interpret 2drinks' comments based on what I've seen in other threads when people generalise a particular placement.

It's the same with "ALL Scorps are backstabbing, manipulative motherfuckers." or "Sags are selfish, narcissistic pricks." That pisses me off as well.

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we're cheaters. point blank period

I know an Aries,he in love with his (ex) gf since 2003 and still...even they broke up in 2007. Aries when they love someone ,they love deeply and faithful.

How can you tell by sign who's a cheater? Any sing can be...Personally I would have never ever cheat someone I care about beacause I'm really strightforward and honest and I would feel very bad being false. We usually hate every false thing. I'd rather tell the person I'm in a relationship with what's wrong and that e.g I don't feel good with this situation and if there would be nothing to fix I'd left. But maybe it's all because I'm aries girl with scorpio ascendant.