Can an Aries love a cap?

So I realllllly like this aires .totally sweet very blunt and would/has done anything for me. My dilemma is he's building me up to be some sort of goddess and I don't want to disappoint!he showers me with attention and compliments constantly but being a cap it's hard for me to reveal my emotions back . Am I too cool and aloof for this guy ? What can I do to keep him?

I don't know can a bee make honey? Can a blind man sing?

yes lol, it really depends on your birth chart and overall placements...but if you're willing to make it happen, it can happen. Eg Celine dion (double aries-aries sun and moon) and her husband (double cap-cap sun and moon). Astrology isn't everything don't take it so seriously. Enjoy and have fun.

Yes I know I just feel our signs play a big role. He's so up and I'm cool . I don't know whether to be myself or go out of my comfort zone and mimic his way of expression.

Posted by BetaBanana
Yes I know I just feel our signs play a big role. He's so up and I'm cool . I don't know whether to be myself or go out of my comfort zone and mimic his way of expression.

as an aries with a cap stellium, I kind of understand what you are trying to say. It really comes down to understanding. Be yourself, and take a risk. Getting out of your comfort zone doesn't entail you being something you are not, it just means you are willing to give it a shot. This match up is very tough, but when it works, it is something really special to witness. Astrology is never definitive of who you are, despite some uncanny accuracies. You do not have to mimic his way of expression, just help him understand how you express yourself. At the end of the day its about acceptance and effort.

Liars!hehe

The last 2 times we've gotten together he texted me after saying he feels like im not into him and that maybe he said too much??wtf def too cool he needs all this reassurance and emotional stuff. Is this normal aires

Aires+cap=very difficult ):

Posted by impressmee
He will probably get frustrated and move on, then come back, leave again, and i think you get the point.

I do this all the time; move on come back move on, but at some point the move on will be permanent if the coolness continues.

Be anything but yourself or else he will not see any response and move on. You should force yourself to complement him, say hello when you see him. I like capricorns drive to do things career etc, but you are so fu??king detached from everything else in the world, almost like Gemini, only Gemini will get offended if you tell her this, and you wouldn't get why a Gemini got offended. So just do what I said, smile, say hello, and compliment him, do what others are doing.

Once again I pose the question, "Does a cap moon count?" I am thinking yes, myself.

Ha, dxp cut me off before I could actually say what I wanted to say.

As a few of the dxpnet denizens like biosynthesis will attest to, I have been pursuing an Aries with a cap moon for sometime. Twenty months by my count. This is a very long time for an Aries, such as myself. Someone said "the patience of a Saint." I am most certainly not a saint, but for some reason, I have been very dogged in my pursuit.

One of the things that I have had to learn is that I need to trust her. This was fairly hard. I was on top of that at an intellectual level long before I was managing that on an emotional level. I could tell myself that she was busy, and that she would call back, eventually. I would tell myself that she was doing this that or another thing to stay in contact, but there seemed to be this vacuum, a missing component. That missing piece was a feeling of trust. She isn't very consistent about picking up the phone, or replying to emails. She would tell me that yeah she had heard/seen whatever, and no she hadn't really been busy...... This was really hard for an Aries like me who really actually thrives on feedback.

This took a lot of time for me to internalize. She was just off in her space, and it really didn't have much if anything to do with me. I just needed to be patient, and trust her. A couple of things happened that convinced me of this.
1) If I didn't call/write for 2-3 days she would be on the phone asking me what the problem was. This would cause her a fair amount of anxiety, which is exactly what I did not want to do, so I set the goal of just being more patient.
2) I was getting a bit irritated with being "ignored." I told her finally, "You know if you just want me to go away and leave you alone, just say so, and I will!" This has been the only time she has really been angry at me. She was plain put out. You would have thunk I had told her my ex was more purdy, ya' see!!!! The point is, she made it quite clear that the expectation was that I am to keep chatting away, even if it appears on the surface that she isn't paying any attention. She is, and this actually is helping her feel more secure with me/us.

I have also learned that she really does like her "comfort zone." I am much more active than she is. I get out more, I go hiking more, I go camping lots more, I just plain live my life at a higher intensity. You know what, that's actually a good thing. I will be ever so careful to tell her where I am

Dang, ran out of characters.....

I have also learned that she really does like her "comfort zone." I am much more active than she is. I get out more, I go hiking more, I go camping lots more, I just plain live my life at a higher intensity. You know what, that's actually a good thing. I will be ever so careful to tell her where I am going, and then disappear for a day or two. This is actually a good thing for both of us. She gets some extra space, and I get to go play.

You will have to learn to be quite tolerant of each other. There are lots of quirks that can make this whole arrangement difficult. But, if you can get past those and understand the dynamics of the other individual, it is indeed a rewarding adventure for both of you.

Can a Cap spell "Aries" correctly?

No

Yeah sorry guys haha