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Did I screw up with this Aries man? Is it possible to fix it up?
Someone please respond!!! I'm getting desperate!! ?
What's the age of this guy? Sometimes the older someone is, the more stuck in their ways they are and usually they know themselves more, so if he's certain enough to tell you it's not going to be love then it probably won't be. You could end up getting hurt, I wouldn't expect him to change and he might one day just end it suddenly and not even think about your feelings (because he wont risk being hurt again).
Maybe he could overcome his past hurt and be ready for a relationship, but you can't help him with that, he would have to work on that himself, if he wanted to.
If he won't give you all you want, then you only have two options, be with him and just accept who he is, or cut all ties and look for a guy who can give you love. You need to think about your own feelings here, it's what he will be doing, maybe you're thinking about his feelings too much and not your own?
As far as the fighting/arguing goes, then this is kinda normal for an Aries. Libra can sometimes think this is worse than it really is. You're kinda describing Aries/Libra relationship, Aries is good at war, Libra wants balance. Don't be afraid to talk about past fights, Aries are very quick to forget they've upset someone, he might not want to talk about it, but you shouldn't be afraid to cause inbalance. If he's immature about it, then I think you have your answer? Because I think if you allow things you don't like to continue then you aren't being true to yourself. Maybe ask him if he thinks the fights are at a bad level, or just standard level?
I've seen women get hurt bad because guys have said they are shutdown, they haven't lied, but when things end suddenly and the guy has no feelings, obviously the woman is hurt bad. this however could be different, who knows.
Maybe he could overcome his past hurt and be ready for a relationship, but you can't help him with that, he would have to work on that himself, if he wanted to.
If he won't give you all you want, then you only have two options, be with him and just accept who he is, or cut all ties and look for a guy who can give you love. You need to think about your own feelings here, it's what he will be doing, maybe you're thinking about his feelings too much and not your own?
As far as the fighting/arguing goes, then this is kinda normal for an Aries. Libra can sometimes think this is worse than it really is. You're kinda describing Aries/Libra relationship, Aries is good at war, Libra wants balance. Don't be afraid to talk about past fights, Aries are very quick to forget they've upset someone, he might not want to talk about it, but you shouldn't be afraid to cause inbalance. If he's immature about it, then I think you have your answer? Because I think if you allow things you don't like to continue then you aren't being true to yourself. Maybe ask him if he thinks the fights are at a bad level, or just standard level?
I've seen women get hurt bad because guys have said they are shutdown, they haven't lied, but when things end suddenly and the guy has no feelings, obviously the woman is hurt bad. this however could be different, who knows.
He told you in the beginning he just wanted a hookup, nothing serious. You didn't listen. Nothing has changed. Stop expecting more from him.
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
yeah - all of the above and then some - it is what it is
if it isn't working for you, try something else
if it isn't working for you, try something else
Aries women love Libra men. Idk about the other way around. You'll be alright though, move on.
Posted by ariesnothe proof is in my roster.Posted by clockwiseeWhere did you hear that? 🤔
Aries women love Libra men. Idk about the other way around. You'll be alright though, move on.
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Posted by aquarius_manThen where'd all these scars on my back come from? 😉 That sucks for him though. I'll let a girl go before l let her suck the life from me. Also I don't share my relationship problems with my boys.Posted by clockwisee
Aries women love Libra men. Idk about the other way around. You'll be alright though, move on.
be honest: most of the times you ve slept with your aries, she was on top 😛
on a more serious note, i have a libra friend who s married to an aries -air hostess- &they have 2 kids together (3, respectively 4 yrs )and he calls me every 2-3 weeks (he lives in a diff country) to complain about his life, that his wife doesn't love him anymore, just the kids and makes his life miserable. and wants to party like when we were young and single and always asks me to make some plans for us to visit our friend (gemini) in france to party like its 2007
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Posted by aquarius_manPosted by clockwiseeu sure they scars and not bed sores
Then where'd all these scars on my back come from? 😉 That sucks for him though. I'll let a girl go before l let her suck the life from me. Also I don't share my relationship problems with my boys.
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yes. the Aries women I've met turn into little kittens around me. that's just my experience.
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by clockwiseethey won t stay like that for long - little kittens
yes. the Aries women I've met turn into little kittens around me. that's just my experience.
dont think a libra man has what it takes to tame an aries woman for always, but that's just my opinion
i dont think aries women can ever be tamed by any sign
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I think that's the key. Don't try to tame an Aries. If they love you, they'll tame themselves for you. I don't think they could be with a controlling sign, like a fixed sign for example.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Tell that to the wack job Aries who stalked my butt
I think I read somewhere this combo is like tarzan and Jane. There's plenty of couples like this. Bonnie and Clyde heath ledger and his girl before he died. I like Aries guys energy but they're just not sign I got a thing for or I click hard on the exact same level wth mentally and physically like I do with my faves. I can take em or leave em. They're just not a thing to me.
Posted by eXclusivePosted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Tell that to the wack job Aries who stalked my butt
I think I read somewhere this combo is like tarzan and Jane. There's plenty of couples like this. Bonnie and Clyde heath ledger and his girl before he died. I like Aries guys energy but they're just not sign I got a thing for or I click hard on the exact same level wth mentally and physically like I do with my faves. I can take em or leave em. They're just not a thing to me.click to expand
Yeah I've heard that too. Though Heath Ledger was with Michelle Williams (Virgo). Kelly Ripa (Libra) and Mark Consuelos (Aries) seem to be happy though. Yes Bonnie was a Libra and Clyde an Aries but he couldn't get it up.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Waaaaait a minute! I was told that Aries most honest sign of the zodiac...AND non cheating.
And if they find someone else they tell you.
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Waaaaait a minute! I was told that Aries most honest sign of the zodiac...AND non cheating.
And if they find someone else they tell you.
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This is true! The men just don't seem too keen on Libra women. Don't worry they go nuts for Gemini women. They love their egos stroked and they won't tell a woman to go away who is doing that but it doesn't mean they want her, just the ego stroke.
Posted by dilettantePosted by DonnaLibraPosted by eXclusivePosted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Tell that to the wack job Aries who stalked my butt
I think I read somewhere this combo is like tarzan and Jane. There's plenty of couples like this. Bonnie and Clyde heath ledger and his girl before he died. I like Aries guys energy but they're just not sign I got a thing for or I click hard on the exact same level wth mentally and physically like I do with my faves. I can take em or leave em. They're just not a thing to me.
Yeah I've heard that too. Though Heath Ledger was with Michelle Williams (Virgo). Kelly Ripa (Libra) and Mark Consuelos (Aries) seem to be happy though. Yes Bonnie was a Libra and Clyde an Aries but he couldn't get it up.
bc clyde barrow was a homosexual.click to expand
Well that would explain why he couldn't get it up for Bonnie
Posted by dilettantePosted by DonnaLibraPosted by eXclusivePosted by DonnaLibra
Aries men rarely if ever get serious with Libra women. They just aren't that attracted to us. You should do yourself a favor and stop seeing this Aries because you will end up crushed. He doesn't want to end it (even if he has a girlfriend) because of the ego boost you provide to him. They love to have their egos inflated and we Libras do that for people. If you want his respect walk away.
Tell that to the wack job Aries who stalked my butt
I think I read somewhere this combo is like tarzan and Jane. There's plenty of couples like this. Bonnie and Clyde heath ledger and his girl before he died. I like Aries guys energy but they're just not sign I got a thing for or I click hard on the exact same level wth mentally and physically like I do with my faves. I can take em or leave em. They're just not a thing to me.
Yeah I've heard that too. Though Heath Ledger was with Michelle Williams (Virgo). Kelly Ripa (Libra) and Mark Consuelos (Aries) seem to be happy though. Yes Bonnie was a Libra and Clyde an Aries but he couldn't get it up.
bc clyde barrow was a homosexual.click to expand
Well that would explain why he couldn't get it up for Bonnie
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